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OK, in your valued opinions... is looking cheating? Maybe the thoughts behind the looks are but whats wrong with looking?
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Does looking qualify as cheating?
Alpha Blonde
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No, it's not cheating. Everyone looks. Both guys and girls.
The key is - when you're with your significant other - to not blatantly ogle other women or men to the point that your significant other knows what you're doing, since that can be seen as rude.
Also not cool, if you're doing it *constantly* when you're around them because if the level of paranoia about looking increases, it's often anticipated ahead of time. For example - I've had situations, whether passing a couple walking down the street or in a bar, where pre-emptively his girlfriend turns to look at him to see where his eye contact is going almost before he even notices me. It's kind of funny actually. And yeah, I do think that's taking it too far - a passing appreciative glance is nothing to get stressed about. On the other hand if you have a guy with a non-stop roving eye when he's with you, it can get annoying.
It's still not qualified as cheating though. It's more of a 'respect' issue when you're with your girlfriend/boyfriend - to not make them feel like a third wheel in your visual fantasy adventures.
Keep it discreet and you should be fine.
The key is - when you're with your significant other - to not blatantly ogle other women or men to the point that your significant other knows what you're doing, since that can be seen as rude.
Also not cool, if you're doing it *constantly* when you're around them because if the level of paranoia about looking increases, it's often anticipated ahead of time. For example - I've had situations, whether passing a couple walking down the street or in a bar, where pre-emptively his girlfriend turns to look at him to see where his eye contact is going almost before he even notices me. It's kind of funny actually. And yeah, I do think that's taking it too far - a passing appreciative glance is nothing to get stressed about. On the other hand if you have a guy with a non-stop roving eye when he's with you, it can get annoying.
It's still not qualified as cheating though. It's more of a 'respect' issue when you're with your girlfriend/boyfriend - to not make them feel like a third wheel in your visual fantasy adventures.
Keep it discreet and you should be fine.
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absolutely not!
well unless u were like my husband who would point out hot ladies
but that is not cheating...just being an asshole!
be discreet and look then take your lovely lust out on your partner
well unless u were like my husband who would point out hot ladies
but that is not cheating...just being an asshole!
be discreet and look then take your lovely lust out on your partner
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I don't think so, if it's done in the right way. If you point them out to your mate and comment about something to compare how she looks.
Clever Gem
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Quote by cprivate
OK, in your valued opinions... is looking cheating? Maybe the thoughts behind the looks are but whats wrong with looking?
Yes, yes it is, and only the sight impaired are innocent to this adulterous act.
(god no, just be discreet and respectful)
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Nothing wrong with window shopping, it is when you dabble with the goods that is often the problem!
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Yes if it becomes more than a quick look. Staring or turning your head to look at their butt it would not only be like cheating but right down rude to the person you are with.
Active Ink Slinger
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Looking isnt cheating but if you are with your partner and you are constantly leering at others it is very disrespectful to him/her. But a casual admiring glance is harmless and pretty natural
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You can look, but you can't touch.
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Speak for yourself choco ;0P
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So if everyone does it why is it us men get crapped on...
I did once have a girlfriend who pointed out the hot girls I would otherwise have missed. I really liked that. Katy you were the best... And yes the sex was off the scale as well. Pity you took that job and left Africa.
I did once have a girlfriend who pointed out the hot girls I would otherwise have missed. I really liked that. Katy you were the best... And yes the sex was off the scale as well. Pity you took that job and left Africa.
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Quote by chgolf
Speak for yourself choco ;0P
I do lots of looking in real life, but I don't touch
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Quote by Nikki703
Looking isnt cheating but if you are with your partner and you are constantly leering at others it is very disrespectful to him/her. But a casual admiring glance is harmless and pretty natural
I reckon I'm very disrespectful when you're around.
Clever Gem
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Quote by cprivate
So if everyone does it why is it us men get crapped on...
DISCREET DUDE!!!
Because you obviously get caught!!
Active Ink Slinger
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Quote by AngelHeart01
I reckon I'm very disrespectful when you're around.
You better be!!!HAHA
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When I'm with a man I'll casually look but never stare. Because I have an understanding with my hubby (he's my cuckold) I will definitely look and sometimes catch.
Cheeky Chick
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When I'm with someone my eyes are only on them ever..
Yes It's cheating.
Yes It's cheating.
Active Ink Slinger
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Not for me....but please, be kindly discreet.
Constant Gardener
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Quote by cprivate
So if everyone does it why is it us men get crapped on...
'Us' men? lmao
You, man.
Don't lump yourself in with the rest of 'us men' who have figured things out a long time ago.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
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No its not cheating. Its not disrespectful to look while with your girl/guy. Its very disrespectful to look when out without your guy/girl. Be honest and don't hide anything.
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Quote by cprivate
So if everyone does it why is it us men get crapped on...
I did once have a girlfriend who pointed out the hot girls I would otherwise have missed. I really liked that. Katy you were the best... And yes the sex was off the scale as well. Pity you took that job and left Africa.
I'd jump a plane and follow that gal private.
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Quote by chocolategirl
I do lots of looking in real life, but I don't touch
Really.............good to know chocoholic
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Not at all. I do know some girls who freak out if they catch their guy looking. He looks, I look. It's all good.
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Quote by Nikki703I so agree
Looking isnt cheating but if you are with your partner and you are constantly leering at others it is very disrespectful to him/her. But a casual admiring glance is harmless and pretty natural
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Quote by Nikki703
You better be!!!HAHA
Nicole Darling if we are in a restaurant and you were there also and Robb does not really check you out. I know he has lost interest in Hot Girls and I am about the get my ass thrown out in the street.
Just Normal and expected behavior for both Men and Women.
Lets be concerned about real issues.
One condition I get to check you out first
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IMO no. No it's not cheating. I guess some people may think it is, but if your happy and both committed then it shouldn't be an issue. My man can look as much as he likes, just no touching!
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if you're my partner, you can look, what ever part of you touch the other... will be cutted away 
joking. Yes, looking is not cheating, but chat, webcams and so on... are not just looking, is just sexchatting ;)
joking. Yes, looking is not cheating, but chat, webcams and so on... are not just looking, is just sexchatting ;)
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Admiring people you find attractive isn't cheating, leering when your partner is there is rude and disrespectful, but a glance or discreetly looking is ok. I don't mind my husband checking out other women as long as it remains just looking, but acting on those desires is a no no.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
No, it's not cheating. Everyone looks. Both guys and girls.
The key is - when you're with your significant other - to not blatantly ogle other women or men to the point that your significant other knows what you're doing, since that can be seen as rude.
Also not cool, if you're doing it *constantly* when you're around them because if the level of paranoia about looking increases, it's often anticipated ahead of time. For example - I've had situations, whether passing a couple walking down the street or in a bar, where pre-emptively his girlfriend turns to look at him to see where his eye contact is going almost before he even notices me. It's kind of funny actually. And yeah, I do think that's taking it too far - a passing appreciative glance is nothing to get stressed about. On the other hand if you have a guy with a non-stop roving eye when he's with you, it can get annoying.
It's still not qualified as cheating though. It's more of a 'respect' issue when you're with your girlfriend/boyfriend - to not make them feel like a third wheel in your visual fantasy adventures.
Keep it discreet and you should be fine.
This.
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