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OK, in your valued opinions... is looking cheating? Maybe the thoughts behind the looks are but whats wrong with looking?
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OK, in your valued opinions... is looking cheating? Maybe the thoughts behind the looks are but whats wrong with looking?
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Speak for yourself choco ;0P
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Looking isnt cheating but if you are with your partner and you are constantly leering at others it is very disrespectful to him/her. But a casual admiring glance is harmless and pretty natural
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So if everyone does it why is it us men get crapped on...
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I reckon I'm very disrespectful when you're around.
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So if everyone does it why is it us men get crapped on...
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So if everyone does it why is it us men get crapped on...
I did once have a girlfriend who pointed out the hot girls I would otherwise have missed. I really liked that. Katy you were the best... And yes the sex was off the scale as well. Pity you took that job and left Africa.
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I do lots of looking in real life, but I don't touch
Quote by Nikki703I so agree
Looking isnt cheating but if you are with your partner and you are constantly leering at others it is very disrespectful to him/her. But a casual admiring glance is harmless and pretty natural
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You better be!!!HAHA
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No, it's not cheating. Everyone looks. Both guys and girls.
The key is - when you're with your significant other - to not blatantly ogle other women or men to the point that your significant other knows what you're doing, since that can be seen as rude.
Also not cool, if you're doing it *constantly* when you're around them because if the level of paranoia about looking increases, it's often anticipated ahead of time. For example - I've had situations, whether passing a couple walking down the street or in a bar, where pre-emptively his girlfriend turns to look at him to see where his eye contact is going almost before he even notices me. It's kind of funny actually. And yeah, I do think that's taking it too far - a passing appreciative glance is nothing to get stressed about. On the other hand if you have a guy with a non-stop roving eye when he's with you, it can get annoying.
It's still not qualified as cheating though. It's more of a 'respect' issue when you're with your girlfriend/boyfriend - to not make them feel like a third wheel in your visual fantasy adventures.
Keep it discreet and you should be fine.