"I didn't do anything wrong for our marriage, but I let my guard down once, and Tim saw me do it. It was a charity event put on by the company he works for, a formal affair to benefit local groups."
"Are you talking about the Black and White Ball? I was there." John cocked his head in curiosity.
"Yes. It's wonderful, isn't it? Everyone dresses up. The women are beautiful, the men are handsome, and the atmosphere is so welcoming." Eve brightened slightly as the memory warmed her.
John nodded his agreement. He'd been there with Mack and Mary McDonald. A couple he'd helped the year before. They'd become good friends.
"I had one drink more than I should've, and I let my guard down. A work friend of Tim's asked him if he could dance with me. Tim looked at me. The mood was good; I was happy. His name was Rick, and he'd been a good conversationalist, so why not enjoy a dance? Tim doesn't dance, so I said okay.
"One drink too many, John. That was the problem. It was a slow dance. Rick is a tall man, taller than Tim, athletic build, handsome in his tux, and he had the softest way of holding me. I melted into his arms. I felt warm, comfortable, and protected. By the end of the dance, I was snuggled into Rick's body as if we were lovers. When the dance ended, I was mortified at what I'd done. I apologized to Rick for my behavior and ran off the dance floor.
"Tim saw it all. I was so ashamed. I made him take me home. We didn't speak until we were in bed. I couldn't believe my behavior. I told Tim how sorry I was. Tim said he was not upset. I asked what he was going to do about Rick on Monday. He shrugged. I apologized several more times, and then I had guilty sex with Tim. Twice.
"In the morning, Tim wanted more sex. I had guilty sex again. When we went to bed that next night, he told me how aroused, he was when I was in Rick's arms. I was still embarrassed and told him so. Tim said I shouldn't be sorry. Said he wasn't going to say anything to Rick unless Rick brought it up. I asked What if he does? Tim teased me and said he might thank him. We had sex again. Since that night, Tim has been shoving this hotwife and wife-sharing fantasy at me non-stop.
Eve paused, and her anger returned full force.
"I'm sick of it! Just sick of it! I wish I'd never had that last drink and never had that dance!"
Eve was angry again. John chose to talk while she cooled down.
"Before I approached you in the bar, I saw your wedding ring. I also saw your distress. You were flicking your wedding ring with your thumbnail as if you wanted to flick it off your finger. You didn't check the room or the doorway. You weren't looking for someone to join you. I decided you were too angry with your husband to go home, and you didn't want to share anything with a girlfriend. I was coming over to see if I could help.
"The fierceness of your challenge and your finger wagging in my face told me you were really confronting your husband and not me. Do you remember what you said?
If you want a shot with me, buddy, you better come up with a comment or a question that tells me you get me. You've got exactly fifteen seconds to impress me with your insight about who I am or what I want, or I'm walking away with my Tanqueray. Everyone in this bar will know you blew it.
"I knew your anger wasn't about me. It was about your husband, and whatever it was, it was unresolved."
Eve studied John's face for the third time. "What do you do for a living, John?"
"I'm wealthy. I don't do anything for a living."
"You should be a detective."
"I'd rather be your friend."
"And what do you have to say to your new friend Eve?"
"I say three things to my new friend Eve. Your marriage will likely end in divorce unless you get help. Your husband is confused and needs help to sort out his rightful relationship with you. He will not let go of his fantasy until you agree to have sex with someone else. Whether or not you go through with it is a separate issue.
"Most men don't want their wives fucking other men or even other women. They want their wives to play within their male fantasies without actually engaging in them. I say "most men" because there is a percentage who does want this fantasy for real. We can test Tim to learn what type he is. The question is Do you love your husband enough to test him and learn his true nature?"
Eve chewed on her lower lip. She thought about Tim and the perfect marriage they'd had until he developed this fantasy about her fucking other men.
She looked up again at the sun setting amidst tall buildings. Suddenly she realized that the limited amount of time remaining for sunset was the same as a limited amount of time in her life. And the immensity of Space meant no boundaries were preventing her from going where she chose.
It was her choice to go where she will. There were no rules she was required to follow. It was also her time, no one else's, to spend before it all ended, and it was her choice to spend it as she will. She made her choice as she stood in the Garden on a street corner in Minneapolis. She made her choice as she stood next to her newest friend.
If I wanted to fuck other men, I'd fuck John right now. He gets me more than Tim. Whatever is wrong with Tim, our marriage must be sorted out. That's the truth of it.
"John, I don't want to fuck other men for my husband's pleasure, that's for damn sure. If his true nature is to shop me around like some whore then he can kiss my ass and our marriage, goodbye!"
John smiled at her forcefulness. "I'll take that as a yes. Will you meet me tomorrow? I'd like you to think about this overnight and, if you're still willing in the morning, meet me, and we'll talk about how to fix your husband and your marriage."
"I've thought about what to do for the past six months, and I'm done with thinking. It's time to do something. You said you can help. Let's begin tonight. You get me, John. What should I do tonight to begin changing Tim or my marriage or whatever?"