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never came on a woman without asking. usually when I did she asked me to do it
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Over 90 days ago
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Quote by Metilda
I'm not a dude, here . . . but since I'm fascinated with fisting in ALL ways I feel just dandy in answering:
It is FUCKING HOT and sexy and maybe a bit of a dark twisted thrill to be the giver of such a thing. Some people have a thing for the pain that goes with it, others the control, and others enjoy just pushing a woman's body to her limits all in the name of pleasure.
so you would agree that it is absolutely a psychological thing ?
And yes she both gives and receives. One time we met she told me she had to take it slow cause she is still sore from it
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I recently talked to a girl I know who does escort and she ofers fisting as one of her services. Now I can imagine why a girl could get off on that, I'm sure it can be a big pleasure if you are into size and all that. My question however is to all you guys who are into fisting. What does it do for you and to go one step further what is there about it that makes you pay a woman so you can do that to her? There is no physical stimulation there for us and all I can see is the psychological side of it that might turn people on
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I don't care much about the color of a girls undies. now lingerie is a different thing because of the way it makes her look. Red and black is more sexy and slutty while pink or white looks cute and innocent. it creates a different mood for me
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Quote by GeorgiaGirl21
I like 69, but it's just foreplay. Good warm-up to more serious lovemaking!
totally agree I always considered it great foreplay. instead of taking turns we just go for mutual oral to turn each other on until we advance to other stuff. never considered getting off on it
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tbh I couldnt care less who does it as long as it comes off eventually 
can't deny it is extremely sexy when I'm laying on my back and she climbs on top of me and takes it off
can't deny it is extremely sexy when I'm laying on my back and she climbs on top of me and takes it off
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just been there today. As others said the mystery kinda makes it. You dont even care if it is a girl or guys sucking you, seeing as all you feel is their lips. I've been on the giving envd aswell and gotta say that works best for me. I like the cock itself but not the guys attached to it. Via gloryhole I get to only see the cock with the man hidden from view
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really like it. I have some dildos I use rarely but my favorite is a nice butt plug. just get it in there and it does its magic while I do other things. the bigger the better as they really have to fill you and make you feel every movement and if they vibrate even better
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really depends I usually really like lesbian porn but it has to be done right. I love the sensual way they pleasure each other in ways no man could simply because they know exactly what buttons to push. I don't like it when it stays too tame the whole way through. I get starting sensual and slow but eventually you gotta get it on. huge plus if they involve toys and sexy lingerie
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I love going lingerie shopping with or without my girl. However I tend to act as an adviser only I recommend things I think would look good on her or that I'd like to see her wear. She has the final say however since she has to wear it and feel comfortable in it. I did make lingerie gifts however and they were usually well received
like last christmas I bought a christmas themed babydoll and pantie set for a girlfriend and while she was a bit amused she ended up wearing it and looking really good in it
like last christmas I bought a christmas themed babydoll and pantie set for a girlfriend and while she was a bit amused she ended up wearing it and looking really good in it
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threesome with 2 girls
strapon sex with a woman
mutual sex with a TS (I fuck her,she fucks me)
I know this is mostly about getting fucked but this is really because I already tried basically every scenario where you can top
strapon sex with a woman
mutual sex with a TS (I fuck her,she fucks me)
I know this is mostly about getting fucked but this is really because I already tried basically every scenario where you can top
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Yes I did a few times, always with the same girl. First time happened after I had a bad fight with a girl I was in love with. I was an emotional mess and hoped to get over it. Every time I try to get over a woman, I try hooking up with another one to distract myself and feel better. This time though it got worse. I did distract myself with this new girl, met her 3 times now and always paid for sex, I'm starting to get attached to her even though I know nothing will ever come from it
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can't say I ever did but I have to say I came close
However I'm sure I've been someone's second or third in one night. I totally didn't mind however and I'm sure most guys won't. if it is just a one nighter with a random girl do we really care who has been there before?
However I'm sure I've been someone's second or third in one night. I totally didn't mind however and I'm sure most guys won't. if it is just a one nighter with a random girl do we really care who has been there before?
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Quote by daisyphoenix
The shape and size of a guy's cock is not as important as how well he can use it. I had a threesome one time where the guy who had the bigger penis wasn't doing as much for me than the guy who had the smaller penis. Some times I find that guys with big penis think that his size alone is all that matters.
I hear that pretty often. Reason might be that guys with big cocks get lazy and think their size alone will impress so they don't even try while smaller, or better said average guys, actually put in the effort to please their woman properly
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hey girls so I have an interesting topic I'd like some opinions on
late September I was in a very depressive state cause I've had some bad experiences with women once again in my life. Out of desperation i guess I decided to call an escort girl. I was impressed she was stunning but also had a great personality and we got along very well. A few weeks later I decided to call her again and it went even better than the first time we met. In between seeing each other we also talked and chatted on the phone about everyday stuff and she revealed a surprising amount of details about her personal life( where she lives, what she does, family relations, the fact that she has a daughter and much more). I decided to ask her out once or twice if she wants to meet up in private for a drink or something but she always said no she doesn't want to meet any clients privately. A bit dissapointed I told her I understand and respect that.
Now today it went a bit different. We still had sex but were done pretty quick and talked most of the time. When she decided to leave she kissed me on the mouth, something she rarely does as she told me before, and told me she will think about seeing me for a drink sometime.
Long story short what do you think about this? Was she honest there? Can I expect anything to come out of this? Or should I face the fact that this is only her being nice and keep things as just me hiring her for sex?
late September I was in a very depressive state cause I've had some bad experiences with women once again in my life. Out of desperation i guess I decided to call an escort girl. I was impressed she was stunning but also had a great personality and we got along very well. A few weeks later I decided to call her again and it went even better than the first time we met. In between seeing each other we also talked and chatted on the phone about everyday stuff and she revealed a surprising amount of details about her personal life( where she lives, what she does, family relations, the fact that she has a daughter and much more). I decided to ask her out once or twice if she wants to meet up in private for a drink or something but she always said no she doesn't want to meet any clients privately. A bit dissapointed I told her I understand and respect that.
Now today it went a bit different. We still had sex but were done pretty quick and talked most of the time. When she decided to leave she kissed me on the mouth, something she rarely does as she told me before, and told me she will think about seeing me for a drink sometime.
Long story short what do you think about this? Was she honest there? Can I expect anything to come out of this? Or should I face the fact that this is only her being nice and keep things as just me hiring her for sex?
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hell yes. bought a new cock ring with attached butt plug last week and absolutely love wearing it
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Quote by trinket
EXACTLY! If I started to give my BF a blow job and he kept playing his game, he can play on his own.
Which is only fair on your part
Now I never got into this situation but I never even touch my console when my girl is at my place unless it is to watch a movie or play a game she is genuinely interested in watching (horror-games or some with an actual good story)
funny thing is I was once in a raid and my best friend was in that group aswell but he was akwardly silent the whole time. After we were done he told us he was getting a blowjob from his gf the whole time that's why he played so bad and kept dying he had a hard time (no pun intended) concentrating
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now to the actual question. Which sane man would continue playing video-games while he is getting a blowjob from his girl?
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
You should just ask her if she's interested in taking things to a more committed level and discuss the escorting situation.
Maybe she is willing to compromise (if she wants a relationship too) and just do cam and online stuff rather than full on escorting. Maybe she needs the money and this it the most viable option for her right now. Or if you have the means, you can supplement her income so that she can cut down on the escorting. If quitting is a non-negotiable, then you have to ask yourself if you can separate sex and love and understand that for her it's work - and not emotions.
Part of the reason why you may feel anxiety about this is that you met her under similar circumstances (just for sex), and presumably you both developed feelings. You may be worried that this could happen with another customer of hers - mutual feelings developing, maybe he has cash and is generous, and maybe your heart gets broken in the process. Thing is, you don't want to have regrets in life... When love comes into play, emotions are always going to be at risk. You just have to figure out if she's worth the gamble and then go from there.
thanks a lot for the kind words this definately helped me the most so far. You pretty much said what has been going through my head for a while now and I feel much better now. I planned on telling her how I feel on her birthday in 2 weeks I got something special planned and feel like it will be the best opportunity
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I can definately say I am ready for a comitted relationship with her that is not the issue here. The thing is really as you guys said I can't make her stop what she does just so I am happy and I am aware of that I won't try that. As far as my jealousy goes I am able to contain it so far I mentioned it once and she said she understands but we never argued because of it. The thing is just I am in a weird position. as some of you said I can't make her stop what she does if she doesn't want to but on the other hand if we ever get together I can't have her fuck other men while she is with me
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Hey guys and girls I have a bit of an issue I need some opinions on. For a while now I've been involved with a transexual girl. I met her in early march and originally met her just to have sex and get my mind off of the breakup I endured only a month prior. From that day on we stayed in contact though, saw each other a lot and had a great time together to this day. I liked to refer to our relationship as friends with benefits but I now know I definately developed feelings for her and would like a relationship with her. Now on to the problem. She does escort to make money for the surgery that comes up and for a living since she is still studying. Along with that is the occasional webcamshow and short porn clip with a friend of hers. Now no man likes to see "his girl" with other men and even though we are not together I tend to get quite jealous. So what do you guys think? Is a relationship between us possible under these circumstances?I'd really like to hear your thoughts
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well if we are really talking about men making the full-time transition to female then the only answer is bottom because of course they want to be women and that includes only having sex like one. If you still feel like being on top you are just dressing up for the sexual kick but it has nothing to do with actually wanting to be a woman
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I'll take wealth over eternal life any day
I'd rather have a lot of money and live my life to the fullest than live forever and witness the death of every person that's special to me
I'd rather have a lot of money and live my life to the fullest than live forever and witness the death of every person that's special to me
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to a point it does
Of course in the end it all comes down to the connection you two have it just has to work out and all that isn't neccecarily tied to looks. But fact is if I am physically attracted to my partner I will enjoy the sex more that's atleast for me my best sex has been with the most attractive partners. On the other hand I tried sex with people I didn't really consider all that attractive and it just didn't work you can't trick your head when it comes to that I guess
Of course in the end it all comes down to the connection you two have it just has to work out and all that isn't neccecarily tied to looks. But fact is if I am physically attracted to my partner I will enjoy the sex more that's atleast for me my best sex has been with the most attractive partners. On the other hand I tried sex with people I didn't really consider all that attractive and it just didn't work you can't trick your head when it comes to that I guess