I recently talked to a girl I know who does escort and she ofers fisting as one of her services. Now I can imagine why a girl could get off on that, I'm sure it can be a big pleasure if you are into size and all that. My question however is to all you guys who are into fisting. What does it do for you and to go one step further what is there about it that makes you pay a woman so you can do that to her? There is no physical stimulation there for us and all I can see is the psychological side of it that might turn people on
Are you sure that she offers to be fisted? Many ladies offer fisting, but with them doing the fisting to their client.
I'm not a dude, here . . . but since I'm fascinated with fisting in ALL ways I feel just dandy in answering:
It is FUCKING HOT and sexy and maybe a bit of a dark twisted thrill to be the giver of such a thing. Some people have a thing for the pain that goes with it, others the control, and others enjoy just pushing a woman's body to her limits all in the name of pleasure.
It seems ot me that when you have several fingers inside your lover, she somehow just wants more, and so pushes down on your hand, and if it all works and you get your whole hand inside, its going to be much more of an amazing feeling for her than just a cock, at least one of average to even large size. Maybe the super long cock owners might disagree, but ...
I had one lover who loved my fingers inside her, and when this progress to getting further in, she guided me to stroke specific parts of her, mostly her cervix neck, and it just blew her mind. No matter how accurate your cock is, it can't reproduce the same thing.
But not all women like that, she was special and unusual in this respect.
I also used to chat online with a woman who had a Dr as a lover, and she enjoyed very deep anal fisting. That's one I couldn't come to terms with, even though I enjoy anal sex.
Psychologically it is a big turn on for me to watch.
I, personally, hate the thought of causing my partner pain so if it was pleasurable for her, then it would be the same type of thing as oral sex (as has been mentioned). I would get pleasure from seeing my partner enjoy it.
So there is the pleasure of both the turn on from watching as well as how much she is enjoying it.
I could be very wrong but i would think that the percentage of women who are into fisting would be very low. So finding a partner who wants to even try it could be interesting.
I have never fisted anyone. I'll confess I enjoy watching it on porn and can only say that it looks, in that unreliable venue, that the women enjoy it. I enjoy pleasing women and seeing women exhibit pleasure. Best answer I can offer.
one word ... OUCH .... i think anyone would need to sniff a "popper " first ... but OOOWWWW
I think women do this with each other more so than with guys, because our hands are smaller. My girlfriend and I fist each other, and I even have had a couple guys fist me, although they are usually afraid they're going to hurt me. The pleasure anyone gets from fisting a woman is the intense pleasure they are bringing her. The best partners are the ones who get as much out of giving pleasure as receiving it. Too many guys just don't GET this!
I spent some days in a motel with a big woman. She loved being fisted. We did. I had my entire hand in her fat cunt. It took awhile, a lot of lube. She had such an orgasm! Once I was fully in her, I used a vibrator in my free hand on her clit. Then I rolled her over and fucked her ass as her cunt was gaping after the fisting.
