I'm a closet-submissive, heterosexual male living in the UK who loves reading stories about forced cross-dressing or feminisation, humiliation by women, orgasm/erection denial (chastity cages), corner-time, spanking, caning and CFnm, especially if the stories are grounded with a sense of realism - stories that could conceivably happen in real life, no matter how unlikely.
I've experience of roleplay through email and writing collaborative stories with others. Within roleplay, I've played the part of both males and females, and of males forced to dress as female.
Linked to roleplay I enjoy writing soft-core femdom stories featuring my interests. I enjoy the idea of the victim being slowly sucked into an increasingly dominating relationship, as he constantly takes the wrong decision. I also like to imagine what's going on in the minds of the participants, so psychology plays an important part in my stories. Also, whilst it's a rule I sometimes break, I try to avoid detailed descriptions of the protagonists in my stories so that readers can create their own images of them.
Regrettably, my time to explore my urges is very restricted nowadays, largely because I have a long-standing vanilla partner unaware of my clandestine activities, but I still get a thrill from story writing/reading, roleplaying, corresponding with others with similar interests and (time permitting - which is rare nowadays!) accepting homework and punishments (lines, essays, etc) from online mistresses.