"Utopia. The Greeks had two meaning for it: eu-topos, meaning the good place, and u-topos meaning the place that cannot be."
"Utopia. The Greeks had two meaning for it: eu-topos, meaning the good place, and u-topos meaning the place that cannot be."
Its absolutely possible to fall in love over the net, online everybody can be the perfect person. You have time to take consideration over every word you type. Theres no moments of reflecting later and thinking "I wish i had said that" when you have time to consider your reply and access to the delete key, every sentence can hold great wisdom, comedic effect and romantic overtones.
Almost six years ago i met someone quite by accident online, it was in a music chatroom and something just clicked between us, we shared the same music tastes, she laughed at all my little jokes (and she was gorgeous!!!). I was in a relationship at the time and really wasnt looking to find anyone, online or elsewhere. It got to the stage where when she came online and i heard her buddy sound my heart would skip a little and I'd get butterflies in my stomach. Feelings like that made me realise that the relationship i was in wasnt working for me anymore, and in fact should probably have ended a few years earlier. I ended my relationship and told my online beau. The online relationship kicked up a gear at that point and we decided after much deliberation to meet.
Meeting in real life is the test, suddenly all our little idiosyncracies are on show, we dont have time to reflect over what we say before we speak and the real you, rather than the you you wish you are is as naked as the day.
Having said that....it turned out we quite liked each other quirks, sure it wasnt easy and there was a lot of refinding the person we each had fallen in love with.
Two months ago we got married and we both couldnt be happier. I think we were very lucky to find each other.
In the case of the original poster yes you can fall in love online, so remember that when youre harmlessly flirting with someone, for the other person you may be showing them what theyre missing in their own relationship, she may not love you... but i can bet you she loves the idea of you and that is enough to leave everything she held true behind.
be putting off until tomorrow what should have been done last week.
This weekend i am headed to the coast for my stag weekend! No idea whats happening as I've been kept firmly in the dark. I am however expecting much debauchery in my final weekend of freedom.
As an outsider of both, but an observer of both I would have to say i would most like to travel to the US, to experience a different way of living the western culture. But if i had to move Id want to live in Canada, different enough but with enough of the same core values.
tuppence added!
I've just read that American scientists have finally developed a vehicle that can be run on water..... sadly it can only be ran on water from the Gulf Of Mexico.
wakka wakka wakka
(sheds a tear)
You ladies are rampant! Cant even clean yourselves without getting dirty! Naughty!
It has to be said, Chopstick crimes are through the roof here in the uk. And the whole ' a criminal with a gun is less likely to go ahead if he knows everyone is armed' argument kinda falls down if you consider most houses have numerous knives in their properties but yet crime continues.
When going thru this thread i have had my own opinins forming in my mind ready to type down when i reached the end, however with each of DamonX' entries he's stolen each and every retort i had prepared... even including the blah blah blah comment.
So Ive come to the conclusion.... What Damon says double it and imagine a cute dog puppy saying it.
Over to you Damon!
PS If Damon suddenly comes across all mental then i may retract the above comment.
I've no issue with it at all, the only thing i object to is the "No warning" menstrual sex, nothing breaks the mood faster than finding you have a red right hand/joker smile/flaming cock.
Kinks are exciting for a reason.