It depends on my mood. Usually I like to have his hands in my hair controlling the action; feeling like he is using me. BUT, there are times I when I am doing it 'sweetly' and those times I want to be incontrol and usually go slow and prolong the pleasure.
teenager, friend's soft kiss, touching.....never forgot it.
intimacy, laughing, not demanding, less pressure to 'perform' well, smooth soft skin, touching tenderly, looking into her eyes and knowing.
i like to kiss and touching lips together with another girl is soooo nice.
WHERE ARE YOU?? lol
It's a fun idea, but I'm certain that I would know. The scent, taste, feel. sound, reactions,.............now look what you've done by just getting me thinking about it!! So, maybe we should experiment and find out. HA!
Kiss her softly and slowly and for a long time
Sort of a celeb; Danica Patrick - I would love to race her to the bedroom.
also Sofia Vergara
Perhaps it is the inner desire to be an exhibitionist, or a voyeur, but either way is hot. To be watched....oh yes. But watched...no screaming please!! My husband wanted to watch me with another female and I found it very irritating when he kept spouting off directions: "Oh yea, feel that.....!" Therefore I prefer him not to be present when I am being enjoyed by another woman. I enjoy it too much to want to be 'directed'. lol
It doesn't offend me at all. But I probably don't want to be interrupted!!
Usually, if I notice someone 'looking', I will make it possible for them to see more. I'm not sure that qualifies as flashing, but it is quite a turn on to know someone in public is getting turned on also by seeing what I have; and wanting some of it. And it does lead to interesting happenings sometimes.
Most of the time it is felt, loved, and produces my own orgasm as well. To feel the cock jerking, having spasms, shooting forth its male fluid inside me is ectasy. There are, however, rare times that a lover is so pathetic he can't be felt cumming. Thus, a better selection process of lovers is adopted.
Perhaps you can show him best by your own responses. A kiss you don't like; break it, then kiss him the way you do like. Repeat as needed. (much like training a puppy ha) The bdsm you can certainly take the lead in the suggestion area and even by supplying the desired equipment; satin sash cords rather then chains, covered paddle rather then a 2x4, etc. He'll catch on. You married him so he can't be all dumb. I'm sure he will want to please you once you show him how.