i keep getting this problem with lotsa gals i met, even if i dont see them in a dating sense, i always seem to get the "i dont see you that way" for datign sense and they kinda avoid talking to me unless they happen to see me by running into each other accidentually, and really they see my kindness as iwanna date them which for some yea is true but most is not true and it getting annoying, i already like 2 girls around my age 1 of which is taken and doesnt seem e that way and i am fine with it cause i enjoy having her as a friend even the other well just seeing how it goes for now takign it slow, but others always give the ""i dont see you that way" or "i have a bf" line to me, when i just wish to be friends, any advice olivia? sicne from reading all the previous posts you seem to give out good idea of things going on o.o
in this last one imma take a wild geuss here but if u stopped talking for just a day and she already upset bout that im curious do you two talk like everyday???
well first time posting on this forum... and this i just have to say instead of sitting by reading topics.. dont continue the whole fuck buddy/sleeping with thing, im not sayign this out of personal experience cause i never had any opportunity at all but from how friends i have seen been with their exs they stayed with in that way, its pretty much a one sided feeling one just wants sex the other goes to for sex but hopes for more, and it doesnt work out as you guys already tried the whole "dating" many times over from you saying you guys were off and on(and in and out of relationship) if i got the context right, you guys just arent good for each other and for you, you might want more then just sex hence still having feelings.. its easier to do what dancing_doll said find a different person for sex as you wont lead yourself to another emotional hurt from the constant on and off datin, i see many people i know go through just cause it starts up again from just fuck buddies
oh if you happend to make what isaid out of this good if not im sorry i do have bad grammer and tried my best to make it understanding