Quote by Organplayer1
My wife rimmed me years ago and I thought it was so hot. I didn't experience any incredible sensations it was more the act of her wanting to do it that provided the thrill. I have never been fingerd though I would like to experience it.
I am sure my wife would rim me more and be willing to finger me (she loves anal) if I expressed interest. but my insecurities come into play here. At 52 my ass can't possibly be the inviting playground it once was. I fear I would spend more time fearing what it was like for her than just relaxing and enjoying myself.
You need to get over it. Times awasting, if she loves anal she would most likely love to do you. You are getting on in years and need to do everything now (this goes for everyone), My first wife did a couple times and I almost shot through the top of her head it was so explosive a climax. My current partner is afraid of everything, which is weird ,but that's another story. Not sure ? do what I have done, pick a day when you are home alone, go to the grocery and find a carrot, seriously, the size you think a finger or even a penis would be ( I am bi and just had sex last night with a BCC ) , and see what it feels like.
Folks, from a 66 year old man, do it all while you can, no regrets.