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oreilly1979
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 154
United States

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How did it happen and what was the reaction??
I just did with my girlfriend about my tumblr account having a lot of porn on it.. and it did not go very well at all!!
I just got tired of feeling like I had to keep things that I thought about from her that I thought were a huge turn on for me and thought it might help us be more open and communicate better.... I was hiding a piece of me from her.. she said she felt as though I had cheated on her and that she was not good enough for me. I could share a lot more about the experience and if you want to know more just ask, but I wanted to hear from others about their experience of outing themselves. thanks.
I don't always say what I want or is on my mind, I get closed off at the thought of conflict and will end up saying to someone what they want to hear rather than what I really want to say or stand up for about myself and what I believe in!!!
Let's say you are in a relationship with a girl. She used to have a fuckbuddy and occasionally she still talks to him/texts in a casual way. You've heard some of the sex stories related to this guy and they were pretty intense. No hooking up is going on currently though and your relationship is solid, as far as you know.

Would it bother you if your girlfriend met up with this guy for casual drinks when he's in town (just as buddies - no fucking), or would you feel uncomfortable with this. Would you rather not know about it?

And would you feel differently about it if it was an ex-boyfriend rather than a fuckbuddy?


*ps. assume you are in a monogamous relationship*




This is a tough one to answer for me as I am kinda going through this now. though the person my girlfriend is going out and doing some casual things with, used to be her sisters boyfriend from highschool, (they are still friends). I am actually pretty cool with this, she has a right to have friends, both male and female, but sometimes it feels as though she is not very honest. Like how she communicates with her ex boyfriend through facebook, but does not bother to give the relationship courtesy of telling me and deleting the messages, which in my view, really have nothing more than common chit chat. I am not sure if it is just me being a bit jealous of their friendship, or if I feel a bit threatened because they seem to have a lot of the same interests. Her and I have had, for some time now, a very difficult time communicating with each other on most aspects of our relationship. I think a biggie for me has to do with the lack of communication about any form of attraction to others. we are all attracted to others in some way, shape, or form, its just that wonder of if attraction might turn in to action. I find myself feeling very insecure about this. So when she goes out to the movies with this person, then texts me to say she is going over to her best friends house for a bit, but then does not come home til the next day, I find myself wondering if anything more than platonic might be might be involved these outings. There are many things I could go on and on about in our relationship that has to d with both of our insecurities. I will say I guess it just depends on the stability, trust, and most importantly, the communication of the relationship. which her and I are obviously lacking!! Sometimes I really would like to see how she would react to me doing this, or seeing how insecure it might make her!! I hope that what I said here makes sense to whoever reads this post. I am not very well at expressing my feelings on paper... a lot better at voicing myself. I also apologize for completely over answering this topic, but it has been a bit therapeutic to get it out. to answer more thoroughly, no I would not mind, as long as the intentions are brought forward and yes I would want to know!!!
Do any ladies have any problems or experience with having pain during vaginal intercourse, where it becomes uncomfortable to keep having sex and have to stop?
My girlfriend has been having this happen to her quite regularly, when having sex we use plenty of lube and its not like I am very big in that department. I am hoping to get some advise and insight from other women or couples who have had this issue and if/what you were able to do to diagnose or resolve it.
Does with myself count???? Why yes I have!!! I certainly would for my girlfriend if she could keep up with me.
put me down as a curved button, that looks like an anteater, with a hint of 8.3 oz redbull can. I own it, and its in around 5-6".....
I never have cum in my pants before surprisingly. my cock does get really wet when things get going with my woman and will leave my briefs with wet spots, but never close to the feeling of losing control. I always thought that it would be an awesome thing to experience, but I probably never will since it is hard for me to come from just a blowjob.
Is it to be told you are wanted?

OR

Is it to be told you are needed?

OR

Both?

Hope that does not sound like a weird question!!! we just deal with it in every aspect of life, I think.
I thought this topic might be a little fun to post and there is a lot of questions regarding how many times a day we all masturbate. I am just sayin... seems we all do it like 5-10 times a day so we are obviously not getting it enough from our partnerssmile Lol!!! please feel free to add any questions to this thread in general. I just kind of threw this together and think it could have a lot more questions added to it through out the replies people post. So add to it and post away or just read the posts.

Who initiates the sex more in your relationship, you or your partner?

If it is always you, do you wish your partner would initiate it more often?

How, would you like your partner to initiate sex more often?

I am the one in my relationship that is more frequent to initiate sex with my woman. that is probably obvious from the questions I have asked.
Yes, I wish my girlfriend would initiate sex more. it seems as we have two totally different sex drives, which leads to frustration, which leads to a lot of masturbation:)
Last but not least, I would find it hot if my gal would slut it up a little bit and wear some sexy skirts and flash me now and again on purpose, tell me some outrageous fantasy her mind has concocted and tell me about it in detail (even if it was about someone else)and how hot it makes her, then just straight out tell me she wants to fuck the shit out of me for a change, not fucking "snuggle".
Thank you all for directing me to the tumblr pages and WOW!!! I can not believe I did not know about that site, I have already signed up and it is full of all kinds of goodiessmile Thanks again, Oreilly
Hi everyone, I hope you all wont shy away from me asking this, but hot damn, everyone on this site seems to find the sexiest, hottest photos!!! I want to find out if some of you are willing to give a guy like me some insight as to where I can find the ones that appear to be taken by amateur and real people. I would greatly appreciate it if anyone can give me some advice on where to begin my search. Thanks, Oreilly
Alisha klass and the tushy girls!!! seymore butts is such a pimp...wonder what ever happened to Alisha klass???? anyone know?