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Do you experience pain from vaginal intercourse?

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oreilly1979
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Do any ladies have any problems or experience with having pain during vaginal intercourse, where it becomes uncomfortable to keep having sex and have to stop?
My girlfriend has been having this happen to her quite regularly, when having sex we use plenty of lube and its not like I am very big in that department. I am hoping to get some advise and insight from other women or couples who have had this issue and if/what you were able to do to diagnose or resolve it.
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Many girls do the first time or two, but most with consideration and patience on your part get past it.

I understand some females never get past this stage and find it almost impossible to have pleasurable sex.

She need to see a good OBGYN now.
alliet14
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the first time it hurt. I was sore for a couple of days. Now the only time I hurt is from many times.
Dirty_D
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Some angles can be very painful. Contrary to what you read in some porn, hitting the cervix is NOT a pleasant experience. You should probably at least double the amount of foreplay as well. You might think you are giving her plenty, but my experience is from the other side of the fence it's not as much as you think. If she is in any way anticipating a painful rather than pleasant experience, you should should it again. Trying to have intercourse without her body being ready is likely to be your biggest cause of pain. Your mention of live should be a clue that you aren't getting her ready enough first.


It's like firing up a diesel truck on a cold night. You've got to let it idle for awhile to warm up. If you try to run it to soon you'll blow the rings biggrin
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I would see a doctor

there is no reason with plenty of lube that it should hurt so badly

she could have an infection or something else

sex should not hurt

please have her go to a gyno now..please
BelleduJour
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I can't tell how old either of you are but I'm going to assume you're in your twenties. That being said, I had the same issue all through my twenties. I thought there was something wrong with me that I couldn't enjoy sex the way they seem to in movies or in porn. It wasn't a lack of not wanting sex because I did very much but at the same time, back in those days, I didn't get very wet on my own and needed a lot of lube to make it even possible to have sex.

Eventually, we tried different positions and found a few that significantly reduced the pain or comfortableness I was feeling which was a huge relief for both of us but especially for me.

When I got into my mid to late thirties, that problem all but disappeared and I've never looked back since. Sex has never felt better but that could be due to a number of factors not the least of which is just being more comfortable in my own body and my sexuality. I really can't say the same for when I was in my twenties or younger.

I'm no expert or doctor nor is anyone who responds here so I wouldn't rule out a visit to her doctor just to make sure there aren't any physical issues she needs to address. If all is well in that department, I say experiment with different positions, lube liberally and be patient with her. It's really not that uncommon.