I'm going to agree with the prior posters: some ladies don't need to be told to suck cock, as they do so willingly. I believe that oral is a two-way street, in that if you're going to verbally ask for a blowjob, you better be giving your lady some oral.
One time, after a date, this guy blatantly asked me: "Is there any chance in getting a blow job?" We hadn't had sex yet (and we never did), just made out. I was definitely turned off by this, and declined and went home. His asking made me feel cheap.
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meg816
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 33
United States
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Advanced Wordsmith
I've never cheated on a boyfriend.
Part of me thinks I never will, and the other part of me knows I could be vulnerable to temptation as anyone else.
I do, however; have a code of ethics in that I will not date men who are married/in a relationship/divorced or have children. It just makes life easier.
Part of me thinks I never will, and the other part of me knows I could be vulnerable to temptation as anyone else.
I do, however; have a code of ethics in that I will not date men who are married/in a relationship/divorced or have children. It just makes life easier.
Advanced Wordsmith
I've had a Paraguard IUD for nearly 2 years, and I love it. I opted for the hormone-free IUD, because I want to maintain as much as my natural hormonal biology as possible. I don't like taking the pill, because I would likely forget to take it, and I don't want or need pregnancy scares. I considered the Depo-Provera shot, but the weight gain I've observed in others who used it isn't appealing. I can't see myself using Nuva Ring or the patch, either. I also HATE condoms, especially because I have a latex allergy (I go condomless in monogamous relationships only). Since having it, I've had 0 pregnancy scares and no pregnancies. Outside of abstinence (haha), hysterectomy or getting your tubes tied, IUD's are the most effective form of birth control.
Implantation was horrible (even with pain medication), and they implant it during your period. I've never had children, any they say the pain is worse in those without children. My periods last slightly longer than they used to (1 or 2 days longer), and they were heavier in the first few months after implantation. I also had spotting between periods for the first few months after implantation. Fortunately, I have not had infections, etc. from the IUD. It's stayed put, and done its job. An IUD also made sense financially, as my copay for the pill was about $30/month, and I know some women pay more than that. I paid around $700 for my IUD (I believe the price has increased since I got mine), so the IUD pays for itself in slightly over 2 years, but lasts 5 years. It just made sense.
I wish you good luck on your IUD, and stay safe. Happy humping!
Implantation was horrible (even with pain medication), and they implant it during your period. I've never had children, any they say the pain is worse in those without children. My periods last slightly longer than they used to (1 or 2 days longer), and they were heavier in the first few months after implantation. I also had spotting between periods for the first few months after implantation. Fortunately, I have not had infections, etc. from the IUD. It's stayed put, and done its job. An IUD also made sense financially, as my copay for the pill was about $30/month, and I know some women pay more than that. I paid around $700 for my IUD (I believe the price has increased since I got mine), so the IUD pays for itself in slightly over 2 years, but lasts 5 years. It just made sense.
I wish you good luck on your IUD, and stay safe. Happy humping!
Advanced Wordsmith
I'm going to say NO.
I don't like the idea of urine or scat play or blood play or vomit play, but to each their own. If playing with those (unhygienic) bodily fluids makes them happy, then who am I to judge? I just don't want to participate.
The only bodily fluids I want involved in sex are pussy juices, precum, semen, saliva, and sweat. Tears are also okay, on occasion.
I don't like the idea of urine or scat play or blood play or vomit play, but to each their own. If playing with those (unhygienic) bodily fluids makes them happy, then who am I to judge? I just don't want to participate.
The only bodily fluids I want involved in sex are pussy juices, precum, semen, saliva, and sweat. Tears are also okay, on occasion.
Advanced Wordsmith
This post is going to make me sound incredibly boring, inexperienced, vanilla, but I hope to someday fuck in these locations:
- orally servicing him as he sits in his office chair
- on the side of the road, in the car
- in a bathtub (Though I've had plenty of shower sex!)
- in a jacuzzi
- in a pool
- on a boat
- on a (private!) plane (A girl can dream, right?)
- on the hood of a car
- on a trampoline
- in a sex swing
- on a grass hill; Ideally, blanket(s) would be involved.
- on a balcony, bent over, looking at the view down below
- in the woods
- on a weight bench/exercise equipment
- in a sauna/steam room
- on patio furniture
- on a massage table
- in a classroom or doctor's office (corny, I know)
- in one of those barber chairs, you know, the ones that spin...
- orally servicing him as he sits in his office chair
- on the side of the road, in the car
- in a bathtub (Though I've had plenty of shower sex!)
- in a jacuzzi
- in a pool
- on a boat
- on a (private!) plane (A girl can dream, right?)
- on the hood of a car
- on a trampoline
- in a sex swing
- on a grass hill; Ideally, blanket(s) would be involved.
- on a balcony, bent over, looking at the view down below
- in the woods
- on a weight bench/exercise equipment
- in a sauna/steam room
- on patio furniture
- on a massage table
- in a classroom or doctor's office (corny, I know)
- in one of those barber chairs, you know, the ones that spin...
Advanced Wordsmith
I think it's completely unnecessary, and sort of a turnoff. It definitely shows he's confident about his equipment, a cockiness I don't find appealing.
If a guy post dick pics and nothing of his face/body, it makes me think that he's unattractive; like, what do you have to hide, buddy? You're putting on a sense of false bravado with the dick pic, yet won't show your face/body. Random dick pics remind me of the classifieds on Craigslist, which isn't a turn on. I would advise men against posting dick pics on their profiles; leave a little to the imagination!
If a guy post dick pics and nothing of his face/body, it makes me think that he's unattractive; like, what do you have to hide, buddy? You're putting on a sense of false bravado with the dick pic, yet won't show your face/body. Random dick pics remind me of the classifieds on Craigslist, which isn't a turn on. I would advise men against posting dick pics on their profiles; leave a little to the imagination!
Advanced Wordsmith
I've never encountered an uncut cock, but I'm definitely open to the idea.
I've heard that cut cocks are cleaner, and that uncut cocks are associated with higher risks of UTI's. I don't like UTI's.
But, due to my lack of experience, I would say that the most intelligent answer is I don't know.
I've heard that cut cocks are cleaner, and that uncut cocks are associated with higher risks of UTI's. I don't like UTI's.
But, due to my lack of experience, I would say that the most intelligent answer is I don't know.
Advanced Wordsmith
First off, I won't have anal unless I defecate first. I also won't do anal unless I'm in a place where we can shower afterwards. I don't do ass-to-mouth like in porn; that's just gross. I also won't have anal without proper lubrication. Anal, in my opinion, requires preparation; you have to have it at the right place at the right time with the right tools (i.e. lube).
Advanced Wordsmith
For those who have read my prior posts, I'm an IUD convert. I have had a Paraguard IUD for 2 years, and love it.
Yes, hormones can fuck you up. They have side effects, and can even effect your libido, weight. Eh.
IUD's are more effective, CHEAPER, last longer, and are lower maintenance. They're also greener. Mirenas, for example, can make women's periods shorter, and lighter. They do contain hormones, yes, but in much lower doses than oral contraceptives. Paraguards (copper IUD's) are cheaper than Mirenas, and greener, because they do not contain hormones. I think implants/IUD's are the future.
One more thing: even if you do get on the pill, you might need to still use condoms, honey. They prevent STD's, HIV, etc... That being said, I don't feel condoms are the best thing for pregnancy prevention. You need a backup plan: pill, patch, shot, implant, IUD, NuvaRing. Spermacide is a tad outdated, and causes rashes, allergic reactions, etc., so I wouldn't recommend it.
Yes, hormones can fuck you up. They have side effects, and can even effect your libido, weight. Eh.
IUD's are more effective, CHEAPER, last longer, and are lower maintenance. They're also greener. Mirenas, for example, can make women's periods shorter, and lighter. They do contain hormones, yes, but in much lower doses than oral contraceptives. Paraguards (copper IUD's) are cheaper than Mirenas, and greener, because they do not contain hormones. I think implants/IUD's are the future.
One more thing: even if you do get on the pill, you might need to still use condoms, honey. They prevent STD's, HIV, etc... That being said, I don't feel condoms are the best thing for pregnancy prevention. You need a backup plan: pill, patch, shot, implant, IUD, NuvaRing. Spermacide is a tad outdated, and causes rashes, allergic reactions, etc., so I wouldn't recommend it.
Advanced Wordsmith
NOT THE HAIR! Please; it's too messy and messes up my sexiness mojo.
My pussy, because of psychological reasons. He pounds me hard, moans when he cums inside... it's satisfying.
My breasts, because his cum is warm, and it's a great visual.
My mouth, because I know it pleasures him so.
My hands, because it means a handjob well-done.
My pussy, because of psychological reasons. He pounds me hard, moans when he cums inside... it's satisfying.
My breasts, because his cum is warm, and it's a great visual.
My mouth, because I know it pleasures him so.
My hands, because it means a handjob well-done.
Advanced Wordsmith
I LOOOOVE being spanked! It makes me so wet.
I like OTK, because I get to feel the warmth of his body and his erection. OTK is ideal for when he spanks me with his hand. I also like being on all fours, with pillows under me, for a harder spank, with a paddle or crop. On all fours is fun, especially when I'm restrained to the bed. Again, I would want pillows under me for comfort.
I've never experienced a cane, but am open to the eventual possibility.
I like OTK, because I get to feel the warmth of his body and his erection. OTK is ideal for when he spanks me with his hand. I also like being on all fours, with pillows under me, for a harder spank, with a paddle or crop. On all fours is fun, especially when I'm restrained to the bed. Again, I would want pillows under me for comfort.
I've never experienced a cane, but am open to the eventual possibility.
Advanced Wordsmith
I agree with one of the prior posters: if I have given a man a handjob, we will be having sex, oral, etc. before that point.
It's not like there's a set point, either, for sex or hj/bj, etc... I use by best judgement. Usually 4th, 5th date, at least? Not for religious or moral reasons, but for trust reasons. If I had given bj's to every man I'd have gone on two dates with, I would have a lot more sexual partners in my past.
This question sounds a tad immature. What are we, in high school? How long til' I get laid? How long for a blowjob?
Grow up.
It's not like there's a set point, either, for sex or hj/bj, etc... I use by best judgement. Usually 4th, 5th date, at least? Not for religious or moral reasons, but for trust reasons. If I had given bj's to every man I'd have gone on two dates with, I would have a lot more sexual partners in my past.
This question sounds a tad immature. What are we, in high school? How long til' I get laid? How long for a blowjob?
Grow up.
Advanced Wordsmith
Kitten86,
The men I've been with say the texture is different from a pussy: smoother, less ridges. It's , naughty, a nice change of pace from the pussy. I don't mean to offend, but you sound a wee bit bitter about anal sex. If you don't want anal, don't do anal?
Best of luck, and happy humping!
The men I've been with say the texture is different from a pussy: smoother, less ridges. It's , naughty, a nice change of pace from the pussy. I don't mean to offend, but you sound a wee bit bitter about anal sex. If you don't want anal, don't do anal?
Best of luck, and happy humping!
Advanced Wordsmith
Like the prior posters, I don't know what you mean by "older" men, but...
I've never been with someone who's younger than me, and I doubt I ever will.
When I was 19 (I'm 21 now), I dated a man who was 39 for 9 months, so yeah, I have kind of a rep for liking men that are older than I am. I've gone on several dates with men in their 30's, and often get hit on by men in their 40's. It's always been this way; I don't know why.
I am often attracted to me in their 40's, but--at this age--my attraction "cutoff" is about 45.
I don't know if that answers your question.
I've never been with someone who's younger than me, and I doubt I ever will.
When I was 19 (I'm 21 now), I dated a man who was 39 for 9 months, so yeah, I have kind of a rep for liking men that are older than I am. I've gone on several dates with men in their 30's, and often get hit on by men in their 40's. It's always been this way; I don't know why.
I am often attracted to me in their 40's, but--at this age--my attraction "cutoff" is about 45.
I don't know if that answers your question.