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meg816
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 34
United States
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Advanced Wordsmith
YES!
It's a very intimate experience. I enjoy hearing/seeing him pleasuring himself, making himself groan... major turn on. One time, when I was having a threesome with another woman, I watched my ex watch us pussygrinding, moaning as he slowly stroked his cock. I especially loved it when he looked at me, in his boxers, and began stroking, because he had to; he was that turned on.
Mutual masturbation is awesome, although I'm not fond of phone sex.
I've also watched men masturbate in porn quite a bit. There is a voyeur quality to it that I enjoy.
It's a very intimate experience. I enjoy hearing/seeing him pleasuring himself, making himself groan... major turn on. One time, when I was having a threesome with another woman, I watched my ex watch us pussygrinding, moaning as he slowly stroked his cock. I especially loved it when he looked at me, in his boxers, and began stroking, because he had to; he was that turned on.
Mutual masturbation is awesome, although I'm not fond of phone sex.
I've also watched men masturbate in porn quite a bit. There is a voyeur quality to it that I enjoy.
Advanced Wordsmith
Ladies (and gentlemen, if you so please): do you have a certain "type" of man/woman you're attracted to? Do your friends/family notice that you go for a certain kind of person? By "type", I mean anything, really: bodyshapes, age, coloring, personality, occupation/college major, height, clothing style, body modifications, etc. Is there a pattern to the type of men you go for? What does your ideal, "dream" guy/girl look like? Paint me a picture with your words.
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by MarlaDawn47
was giving a guy a blowjob and just as he came I started to cough and his cum came out of my nose. he had the most surprised look on his face...lol
WOW! That is awesome!
Recently, we had sex with me bent over the sink, and I bit the soap! I seriously had bar soap in my mouth. It was actually kind of funny.
Another time, my ex was choking me during sex (I did ask for it) and I passed out. Not good, and sort of terrifying.
Advanced Wordsmith
The asshole I gave my virginity to! We weren't dating, just being teenagers, fooling around (with protection, of course).
Another guy I dated for a month. I wasn't that into him, and was bored... He was horrible. He started to have a mini asthma attack in the middle of fucking! He was wheezing, and sweating. And his cock was... disappointing, his oral/manual skills horrible, kissing was decent, though. We only had sex once, fortunately.
Another guy I dated for a month. I wasn't that into him, and was bored... He was horrible. He started to have a mini asthma attack in the middle of fucking! He was wheezing, and sweating. And his cock was... disappointing, his oral/manual skills horrible, kissing was decent, though. We only had sex once, fortunately.
Advanced Wordsmith
Of the two, I'd say cheater.
It's not like the "home wrecker" is taking him/her against his/her will. It takes two. For example, it would not be fair to completely blame the mistress for a man's broken marriage. He cheated on his own accord.
Both parties are bad, though. In dating men, I make it a rule to NEVER date taken/married men.
It's not like the "home wrecker" is taking him/her against his/her will. It takes two. For example, it would not be fair to completely blame the mistress for a man's broken marriage. He cheated on his own accord.
Both parties are bad, though. In dating men, I make it a rule to NEVER date taken/married men.
Advanced Wordsmith
Yes. Many, many times. And I love it. It gives me a sense of power, and I find it incredibly erotic. The only times I don't enjoy it is if his cock isn't clean or when he's been wearing a condom for awhile and it tastes like a condom. Yuck. I also won't suck cock if I truly feel he is treating me in a degrading way (unless it's part of the given sexual way): bobbing my head back-and-forth and treating my mouth like it's a vagina, degrading commentary. Sucking cock should be a pleasure, and it usually is. I keep my lower half clean and hair-free. He should make some vague attempt to make it the pleasurable experience it should be.
Or maybe I've just had my share of bad experiences?
Or maybe I've just had my share of bad experiences?
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by Magical_felix
Congratulations, you're [a] straight male.
LOL. A pantie fetish doesn't seem like a big deal, to me. You probably buy your girlfriends some nice lingerie. My question is this: do you have your partner wear panties while you fuck or give her oral? That might get in the way, me thinks. And you masturbate to a Victoria's Secret catalog?
What kinds of panties tickle your fancy?
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by FelineFantasy
Thou shalt not cover thine keister!
I agree.
Add this:
Thou shalt not be ashamed of the body you have! or
Thou shall treat their body as their temple, and embrace its natural state.
A Lush "Ten Commandments of Sex" would be an entertaining thought/article.
Advanced Wordsmith
34DD.
I've also had a breast reduction, when I was 19. I used to be a 34I.
I know many men have/would have negative opinions of the breast reduction, but I did it for myself, for my back. I had a good result, and--for the most part--I have no regrets about it.
I truly hated the huge boobs. It was uncomfortable, painful, and I never felt that they suited me. They were also incredibly lopsided/asymmetrical. I only wish I was blessed with average-sized breasts...
I've also had a breast reduction, when I was 19. I used to be a 34I.
I know many men have/would have negative opinions of the breast reduction, but I did it for myself, for my back. I had a good result, and--for the most part--I have no regrets about it.
I truly hated the huge boobs. It was uncomfortable, painful, and I never felt that they suited me. They were also incredibly lopsided/asymmetrical. I only wish I was blessed with average-sized breasts...
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Some Suggestions (Be forewarned; I don't striptease)
Chris Isaak - "Wicked Game"
Chris Isaak - "Baby Did a Bad Bad Thing"
Britney Spears - "Gimme More" (reminiscent of the slutty Britney)
Marilyn Manson - "I Don't Like The Drugs (But the Drugs Like Me)"
The Black Keys - "Everlasting Light"
Does anyone know why I can only have ONE embedded Youtube video on my posts?
Chris Isaak - "Wicked Game"
Chris Isaak - "Baby Did a Bad Bad Thing"
Britney Spears - "Gimme More" (reminiscent of the slutty Britney)
Marilyn Manson - "I Don't Like The Drugs (But the Drugs Like Me)"
The Black Keys - "Everlasting Light"
Does anyone know why I can only have ONE embedded Youtube video on my posts?
Advanced Wordsmith
Girl, you need birth control. BAD. I got the Paraguard IUD a couple years ago before the arm implant (Implanon and Nexplanon) was out, and I've never looked back. Why? Because it's more effective than the pill, and I don't have to worry about taking a pill everyday. I do still use condoms, yes, when necessary, when there hasn't been time for that trust/STD test-and-talk to build.
I love my IUD. Without it, I might have been the one posing questions in the forums like this: "I think I'm pregnant, because the condom broke and I forgot to take, like, 2 pills. What do I DO?"
What do you DO? You go to the drugstore, get a pregnancy test, then drive home and take the pregnancy test. The next day/whenever possible, you go to a gynecologist/free clinic/Planned Parenthood or even your PCP, talk to them about your pregnancy scare, and talk about birth control options. That would be the responsible, mature thing to do. Just as there is a responsible way to drink alcohol, there is a responsible way to enjoy sex.
I'm not anti-abortion, but my IUD cost me about $750. This was 2 years ago, by the way. In the U.S., abortions can easily cost much more than that, and I have unfortunately known a few women whom have had more than one abortion in their lifetime. Just sayin'. IUD's--although expensive upfront--can actually cost LESS per month than the pill. For example, my sister is on the pill and pays a $30 copay every month for the pill. That is actually much cheaper than some women pay for the pill. My IUD has lasted over two years. It has given me zero pregnancy scares, and loads of blissful, condom-free/pill-free sex. I expect it to give me at least 3-4 more years of worry-free, awesome sex. I also enjoy not being on the pill anymore, as the pill gave me some negative side effects.
I truly wish you lots of awesome sex/no pregnancy scares, but I've gotta be honest: grow up. Be an adult. Use effective protection.
I love my IUD. Without it, I might have been the one posing questions in the forums like this: "I think I'm pregnant, because the condom broke and I forgot to take, like, 2 pills. What do I DO?"
What do you DO? You go to the drugstore, get a pregnancy test, then drive home and take the pregnancy test. The next day/whenever possible, you go to a gynecologist/free clinic/Planned Parenthood or even your PCP, talk to them about your pregnancy scare, and talk about birth control options. That would be the responsible, mature thing to do. Just as there is a responsible way to drink alcohol, there is a responsible way to enjoy sex.
I'm not anti-abortion, but my IUD cost me about $750. This was 2 years ago, by the way. In the U.S., abortions can easily cost much more than that, and I have unfortunately known a few women whom have had more than one abortion in their lifetime. Just sayin'. IUD's--although expensive upfront--can actually cost LESS per month than the pill. For example, my sister is on the pill and pays a $30 copay every month for the pill. That is actually much cheaper than some women pay for the pill. My IUD has lasted over two years. It has given me zero pregnancy scares, and loads of blissful, condom-free/pill-free sex. I expect it to give me at least 3-4 more years of worry-free, awesome sex. I also enjoy not being on the pill anymore, as the pill gave me some negative side effects.
I truly wish you lots of awesome sex/no pregnancy scares, but I've gotta be honest: grow up. Be an adult. Use effective protection.
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I am a goddess of dirty texting. One of my specialties is dirty haikus. Smutty poetry is a hobby of mine. I used to write haikus when I got nervous in junior high/high school, and in high school it evolved into the erotic realm. The counting and creativity required keeps my mind of things. I enjoy the text responses I receive during the day, telling me how hard he is, how turned on he gets when I surprise him at random times, on random days. He also often responds in haiku format. Hey, if you're going to abandon the purity of voice and/or face-to-face communication, you might as well do in style.
An example (written by me):
"Hips lilting, heart pounds…
Dare I touch my throbbing clit?
Furtive joy and thrills."
However; I do get nervous during face-to-face dirty talk. When I was younger, I was always nervous during dirty talk. I fear that I might sound unappealing, unsexy, robotic, or rehearsed. I don't do cyber sex often (performance anxiety), phone sex hardly ever (ditto), and often hold back from dirty talk during sex for the same reasons. I'm trying to work on that. Anyway, back to phrases men have liked.
Some phrases that have worked in the past:
"You feel huge!"
[after licking the precum from the tip of his cock] "Yummy".
[guiding his hands up my skirt, between my legs, to feel my wetness] "Feel." He was erect immediately.
[He's standing up, and I unzip his pants, and drop to my knees.] "I want your cock in my mouth."
[We're in the car, out an about doing errands.] I look at him, rub his head, shoulder, thigh. "I want to fuck you so bad right now."
I'm curious about what the others might post, so that I might take the liberty of "borrowing" some of their phrases for real life.
An example (written by me):
"Hips lilting, heart pounds…
Dare I touch my throbbing clit?
Furtive joy and thrills."
However; I do get nervous during face-to-face dirty talk. When I was younger, I was always nervous during dirty talk. I fear that I might sound unappealing, unsexy, robotic, or rehearsed. I don't do cyber sex often (performance anxiety), phone sex hardly ever (ditto), and often hold back from dirty talk during sex for the same reasons. I'm trying to work on that. Anyway, back to phrases men have liked.
Some phrases that have worked in the past:
"You feel huge!"
[after licking the precum from the tip of his cock] "Yummy".
[guiding his hands up my skirt, between my legs, to feel my wetness] "Feel." He was erect immediately.
[He's standing up, and I unzip his pants, and drop to my knees.] "I want your cock in my mouth."
[We're in the car, out an about doing errands.] I look at him, rub his head, shoulder, thigh. "I want to fuck you so bad right now."
I'm curious about what the others might post, so that I might take the liberty of "borrowing" some of their phrases for real life.
Advanced Wordsmith
At work/school, regular bra. Sports bras give my breasts that squared, smashed-down look. Not attractive.
For working out/hiking/exercising, sports bra. Makes things easier, and more comfortable when running.
I don't go braless in public, ever. There are days when I come home after a long day at work/school and just want to get in my sweats/tank top and go braless. I don't wear bras to bed.
For sex (a different category, no?), I like sexy, feminine, playful bras. I enjoy good lingerie, and often wear it to work/school. I wear it almost everyday. It makes me feel sexier, even if I'm wearing capri sweats and a tank top to school. I don't feel I'm well suited for the dominatrix look in lingerie or over-the-top lingerie. Lace bras are a favorite. I don't like molded cup or padded bras. They aren't as flattering, on me.
For working out/hiking/exercising, sports bra. Makes things easier, and more comfortable when running.
I don't go braless in public, ever. There are days when I come home after a long day at work/school and just want to get in my sweats/tank top and go braless. I don't wear bras to bed.
For sex (a different category, no?), I like sexy, feminine, playful bras. I enjoy good lingerie, and often wear it to work/school. I wear it almost everyday. It makes me feel sexier, even if I'm wearing capri sweats and a tank top to school. I don't feel I'm well suited for the dominatrix look in lingerie or over-the-top lingerie. Lace bras are a favorite. I don't like molded cup or padded bras. They aren't as flattering, on me.
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Wow. Just wow. Definitely one of the oddest posts I've seen on Lush. 
I'm curious now. I want to masturbate using luggage.
I wonder if the ladies at the Tumi store do so, on occasion. I would assume they would wipe it down. Or, if Tumi tests its bags' durability as a masturbatory tool...
I'm curious now. I want to masturbate using luggage.
I wonder if the ladies at the Tumi store do so, on occasion. I would assume they would wipe it down. Or, if Tumi tests its bags' durability as a masturbatory tool...
Advanced Wordsmith
I've never seen an uncircumsized cock, so I cannot say yes or no to sleeping with an uncut man.
I would definitely be open to the idea. I don't think that I would refuse to sleep with a guy I liked because his cock was uncut.
I've heard uncut men hold smells more so than cut men, so--as long as he kept clean--I'd hit it.
I would definitely be open to the idea. I don't think that I would refuse to sleep with a guy I liked because his cock was uncut.
I've heard uncut men hold smells more so than cut men, so--as long as he kept clean--I'd hit it.
Advanced Wordsmith
I've never had sex with a super hairy guy, like in the above photo. Body hair has never been a turn-off, with the exception of an ex who wouldn't trim his own bush. He was fairly hairless in other areas, strangely enough.
I hate it when men shave their arms/legs/pits. Men are supposed to have hair there. Maybe he could trim his pits, if those hairs get freaky long? But shave? No.
I like men to have stubble (if he looks good with it), hair on their chest, etc. It's normal.
I like men, so I embrace all their bodies have to offer.
I want a Hugh Jackman anyway; not a pussy-ass Hugh Grant type.
I hate it when men shave their arms/legs/pits. Men are supposed to have hair there. Maybe he could trim his pits, if those hairs get freaky long? But shave? No.
I like men to have stubble (if he looks good with it), hair on their chest, etc. It's normal.
I like men, so I embrace all their bodies have to offer.
I want a Hugh Jackman anyway; not a pussy-ass Hugh Grant type.
Advanced Wordsmith
I don't get the uniform thing, either. What kind of uniform? Chef? Doctor? Dentist? Priest? Policeman? Bug Man? Firefighter? Cable Guy?
My Dad is a doctor; I don't find his coworkers in scrubs sexy. My plumber does not get me hot.
I like the Army/Marine/Navy type of body; I've met several military men that have amazing bodies. But it's not the uniform that made them sexy; it's what's underneath.
For me, a uniform pales in comparison to intelligence, wit, confidence, kindness, a sexy attitude, masculinity, compatibility (i.e. "the spark"), and personality. And being good in bed. And a sexy voice. And a hot body.
I don't really have a clothing fetish of any kind for men. I prefer them naked in bed, without socks.
But... there are some things that I find attractive on men: white button up shirt; classic, tailored suit; grey tee/well-fitting (not too baggy or hello-I'm-gay tight) jeans; sleek wristwatch to call attention to a pair sexy hands; rugged and sleek outerwear; plaid flannel shirt; pretty much anything that screams, "I am the boss, bitch".
My Dad is a doctor; I don't find his coworkers in scrubs sexy. My plumber does not get me hot.
I like the Army/Marine/Navy type of body; I've met several military men that have amazing bodies. But it's not the uniform that made them sexy; it's what's underneath.
For me, a uniform pales in comparison to intelligence, wit, confidence, kindness, a sexy attitude, masculinity, compatibility (i.e. "the spark"), and personality. And being good in bed. And a sexy voice. And a hot body.
I don't really have a clothing fetish of any kind for men. I prefer them naked in bed, without socks.
But... there are some things that I find attractive on men: white button up shirt; classic, tailored suit; grey tee/well-fitting (not too baggy or hello-I'm-gay tight) jeans; sleek wristwatch to call attention to a pair sexy hands; rugged and sleek outerwear; plaid flannel shirt; pretty much anything that screams, "I am the boss, bitch".
Advanced Wordsmith
I agree with dudealicious; the number of men who ask these types of questions in the forums is astounding. So, you're dick is <5.5" or 6". Get over it. Penis pills won't help in any way, I've heard, other than drained your bank account. Stretching techniques? Minimal, maybe. STOP. Just stop.
I highly doubt your dick is preventing you from having any sex at all, or from dating, or from having a career or from bettering yourself in other ways.
And you know what? A guy asking his lady, "Am I small?" is a major turn off.
Sigh. I suppose I now should answer your question:
To answer your question, I would guess 5.5" - 6" is a pretty standard median-sized dick. And no, conventional porn does not endorse this statement.
Anything from 4" - 5", you are technically below average, but who the fuck cares? I've had great sex with men this size.
Anything from 3" - 4", you are getting into the smaller range. Deeper penetration sex positions will likely be of use to you, but good sex is still possible. You are noticeably smaller than the norm, but good sex is still possible. You just have to try harder.
Anything smaller than 3", you are outside of the realm of the micropenis, but, by many women's standards, you have a teeny peeny.
So, I would say
" is quite small. 3" is the smallest I have seen, and he had no girth whatsoever. His lack of girth was more off-putting than the shortness of his cock.
Which brings me to my next point.
Girth, in my opinion, matters more to be than width. All things considered, if the man would remain the same, I would take a thick, stump-like cock measuring at 3.75" in length over a skinny cock measuring at 7" in length. I'm assuming hardness would remain the same in this hypothetical scenario, too. Which brings me to my next point.
Hardness matters. Take sex toys, for example. Dildos aren't made of soft plastic. You know why? Because a hard cock puts far more pressure on a woman's G-spot than a softer, spongier cock. Poor diet, smoking, stress, drug use, and an overall unhealthy lifestyle can make men's erections flag a bit. I'll be honest: harder dicks feel a lot better. The man who had the biggest cock I've encountered and the hardest cock I enjoyed were not the same person. I liked the harder cock better, even though he was very average in length, and the bigger cock was longer than average.
I once read that the now-deceased infamous porn actor, John Holmes, did NOT have the best quality erections despite his massive size and length. His wife even said that he never got completely hard, and had the softest erection she had ever encountered, even when he ejaculated. I cannot imagine how disheartening it would be to suck a man's cock--a large cock, a cock difficult to pleasure due to its massive size--and not feel it get fully erect. One of the things I love about sucking cock is taking a man from flaccid to hard in very little time. His wife didn't get that feeling, even if he was enjoying himself immensely. I guess he didn't have enough blood supply to pump into that monster. Not my dig.
I don't know what your cock looks like, but seriously, learn to deal with yours. Read sex books. Learn to kiss, pleasure a woman. Live a happy life. Have friends. School. A job. A career. Work out/exercise, maintain a healthy weight, and live a healthy lifestyle so your cock can get quality erections. And god forbid, don't smoke! That is awful for your cock.
Happy humping!
- Meg
I highly doubt your dick is preventing you from having any sex at all, or from dating, or from having a career or from bettering yourself in other ways.
And you know what? A guy asking his lady, "Am I small?" is a major turn off.
Sigh. I suppose I now should answer your question:
To answer your question, I would guess 5.5" - 6" is a pretty standard median-sized dick. And no, conventional porn does not endorse this statement.
Anything from 4" - 5", you are technically below average, but who the fuck cares? I've had great sex with men this size.
Anything from 3" - 4", you are getting into the smaller range. Deeper penetration sex positions will likely be of use to you, but good sex is still possible. You are noticeably smaller than the norm, but good sex is still possible. You just have to try harder.
Anything smaller than 3", you are outside of the realm of the micropenis, but, by many women's standards, you have a teeny peeny.
So, I would say
" is quite small. 3" is the smallest I have seen, and he had no girth whatsoever. His lack of girth was more off-putting than the shortness of his cock. Which brings me to my next point.
Girth, in my opinion, matters more to be than width. All things considered, if the man would remain the same, I would take a thick, stump-like cock measuring at 3.75" in length over a skinny cock measuring at 7" in length. I'm assuming hardness would remain the same in this hypothetical scenario, too. Which brings me to my next point.
Hardness matters. Take sex toys, for example. Dildos aren't made of soft plastic. You know why? Because a hard cock puts far more pressure on a woman's G-spot than a softer, spongier cock. Poor diet, smoking, stress, drug use, and an overall unhealthy lifestyle can make men's erections flag a bit. I'll be honest: harder dicks feel a lot better. The man who had the biggest cock I've encountered and the hardest cock I enjoyed were not the same person. I liked the harder cock better, even though he was very average in length, and the bigger cock was longer than average.
I once read that the now-deceased infamous porn actor, John Holmes, did NOT have the best quality erections despite his massive size and length. His wife even said that he never got completely hard, and had the softest erection she had ever encountered, even when he ejaculated. I cannot imagine how disheartening it would be to suck a man's cock--a large cock, a cock difficult to pleasure due to its massive size--and not feel it get fully erect. One of the things I love about sucking cock is taking a man from flaccid to hard in very little time. His wife didn't get that feeling, even if he was enjoying himself immensely. I guess he didn't have enough blood supply to pump into that monster. Not my dig.
I don't know what your cock looks like, but seriously, learn to deal with yours. Read sex books. Learn to kiss, pleasure a woman. Live a happy life. Have friends. School. A job. A career. Work out/exercise, maintain a healthy weight, and live a healthy lifestyle so your cock can get quality erections. And god forbid, don't smoke! That is awful for your cock.
Happy humping!
- Meg