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lkitbig
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 154
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Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by CuriousButterfly
"It is what it is"...something about it just bugs me...what is is it exactly?
Totally agree.... It's an easy out for people who don't want to step up to a challenge, or open their minds to problem solve.... My thoughts on people that use this is that "it is what it is" because you have decided to settle on letting it be "what it is" because that's easier then changing it to what it could be if you'd just open your mind and explore options... Let's stop just settling for what "it is" and step up and come together to help make it what is should or could be. I hear this all the time at work... and cant stand it, it's an easy out in my world...and just for the record.. those that settle for accepting things to be "what they are" lose their right to bitch about things being as they are because they make no effort to try change them.
oh wow... feeling much better now that that's off my chest!
Advanced Wordsmith
I enjoy...
time, doing anything with my nieces and nephews..
nice, hot, relaxing saunas (the real ones.... none of the hotel, gym style)
someone's fingers going through my hair, or a massage
good coffee from MT expresso
waking up in the morning and feeling energized, ready to seize the day!
the feeling of accomplishment
making a difference, I do every day at work
a challenge.. one that tests you right to that point that you've hit your max..but not enough to break you... just enough to make you give it your all to accomplish it
time, doing anything with my nieces and nephews..
nice, hot, relaxing saunas (the real ones.... none of the hotel, gym style)
someone's fingers going through my hair, or a massage
good coffee from MT expresso
waking up in the morning and feeling energized, ready to seize the day!
the feeling of accomplishment
making a difference, I do every day at work
a challenge.. one that tests you right to that point that you've hit your max..but not enough to break you... just enough to make you give it your all to accomplish it
Advanced Wordsmith
I ignore them - go in blindly despite my fear. It's the mind over matter thing- FORCE it out of my mind until it's over - then I relax my shoulders and breathe again! UNLESS it involves a snake or a bat - I will run like fucking hell and act all crazy and paranoid! Those 2 I just can't ignore!
UNLESS it involves a snake or a bat - I will run like fucking hell and act all crazy and paranoid! Those 2 I just can't ignore!
Advanced Wordsmith
I used to lush a lot more at work - now I'm just a crazy workaholic! Occasionally I will still log on and respond to messages, etc.
Masturbated while lushing at work? wellll.... lol. I have masturbated because of lush at work, before my workaholic days consumed me - if memory serves right I didnt masturbate while lushing though, more like couldn't shake the thoughts or the ache from some earlier lush fun so just gave up and took care of things so I could move on with my day!
Masturbated while lushing at work? wellll.... lol. I have masturbated because of lush at work, before my workaholic days consumed me - if memory serves right I didnt masturbate while lushing though, more like couldn't shake the thoughts or the ache from some earlier lush fun so just gave up and took care of things so I could move on with my day!