Is there an opposite to cum tributes? Women getting off over a man or woman?
Im confused: If you can just keep having orgasms how do you ever reach the point where your satisfied?
Ill try to explain what I mean: lets imagine for a minute that sex is like eating and the urge to have sex/be sexually satisfied is your hunger. Having an orgasm is supposed to fulfil that hunger and make you feel full. Now imagine your hunger resets after each orgasm doesnt that mean you will always feel hungry for more and never reach that point where you feel full and satisfied?
Lets look at the same example with a car: Say that sex is like the gas tank, being sexually satisfied is when the needle is on full, now lets say orgasms are you trying to fill the tank up, now imagine you try to fill the tank multiple times but the tank just resets its self to empty because theres a giant hole in it, wouldnt that mean the needle can never reach full?
Do women have a point where they are fully satisfied and how do you get out of the multiple orgasms loop to get to the part where your done?
Sorry if Im over complicating things but I would like to understand things better and would really appreciate if you could help and explain things as detailed as possible. Thanks
Well I'm curious about some stuff about female orgasms...I have given orgasms to women, even multiple orgasms that's not really the problem.
Ill try to explain it the simplest way I can hopefully that will give you a better understanding of how to make me understand how things work for you.
Well for me personally as a guy when I have an orgasm usually I pretty much ejaculate just after it. So the orgasm feels like contractions that feel good and then I ejaculate while thats happening or after it.
I understand some guys can have multiple orgasms too with practice. I myself have had them. The way multiple orgasms work in guys is we basically have to practice to get close to orgasm and just go over the edge or the orgasm without getting close to ejaculating. After 1 orgasm the guy kind of stops stimulation for a bit and then he can do the same again have another orgasm carefully without ejaculating. Then either we eventually lose control and ejaculate or just get tired and just ejaculate to finish.
The part I dont understand:
for me when I ejaculate that kind of feels like all my tension is released, I feel fully satisfied, It kind of feels like I dont need any more sex, I just lose interest in sex.
So whether I have multiple orgasms or whether I have 1 I always ejaculate at the end and thats what satisfies me and gets me to the end a place where I feel like im done iv had enough.
What I dont understand about women:
As far as I know about women who have multiple orgasms is that they can have 1 orgasm then start going again and have another and another.
Do women ever reach a place that is similar to us ejaculating? Do you ever reach an ending like us that just feels like your satisfied and had enough.
Because here is what I thought:
If you can always have more orgasms, what makes you stop at 2 or 3 etc?
If you can just go on and have more and you didnt really reach any place that felt like an ending, don't you just crave more and more?
An example: Suppose you never ever felt full and someone put the most delicious sweets etc in front of you wouldn't you just keep eating them because you never felt full. How would you stop eating those after eating 2 or 3 when you could eat the whole bowl and never feel full.
A bad example but hopefully you know what I mean in terms of female orgasms or do women have a place similar to guys that once you reach it your fully satisfied and dont want sex.
If women do have a thing similar to guys where you feel like its enough how do you get to that place? how many orgasms does it take to get you there? How can I be sure when I am with a woman I am getting her to that place and i am not just leaving her when shes really craving for more? Is there anyway a guy can understand this.
It would be great if any of you ladies could help me understand. Please be as detailed as you can I really appreciate your help.
How long do you normally masturbate for?
Whats the longest you've masturbated?
What got you so horny?
How many times did you orgasm?
You dont have to answer all just answer what you can the more the better.
Hey Gillianleeeza, what kind of things have you masturbated to? I dont mean all the obvious stuff(porn etc). I mean different things like maybe a guys picture or something belonging to a guy or fetishes or other things that you just got off to?
Im just curious about what women do when they masturbate.
Tell me about all the naughty things you've done, different places you've masturbated and things you've masturbated to.
You dont have to answer all the questions but the more details the better...
What have you masturbated to?
Do you have any masturbation fetishes etc?
Where have you masturbated?
What have you masturbated with?
How many times do you do it in a day/week etc?
Iv always wondered if women are visually turned on like us guys are?
By visually turned on I mean like the way we check out womens breasts, butts etc and it turns us on.
Are women turned on by us in the same way?
Its not that Im saying it cant happen or doesnt happen its just Im a guy so I dont know what its like for women.
Whats the same as us looking at your breasts, butts etc? Do guys have anything that turns you on like that visually?
If your turned on visually by a guy what exactly do you feel sexually? what happens?
Iv asked women before but I always seem to get answers like:
women go for personality,
women arent visual,
women need to be touched,
seeing a guy topless does nothing for me but then ya can see the way they look at you when your topless.
Then there's articles and stuff that stay women aren't visual etc but then some women tell me that things are the same for women its just they arent willing to admit it.
Im confused and dont know whats real or fake anymore.
Would be great to hear from some women about how things work for you?
Thanks
I'm reading everyone's responses please keep them coming :)
