Iv always wondered if women are visually turned on like us guys are?
By visually turned on I mean like the way we check out womens breasts, butts etc and it turns us on.
Are women turned on by us in the same way?
Its not that Im saying it cant happen or doesnt happen its just Im a guy so I dont know what its like for women.
Whats the same as us looking at your breasts, butts etc? Do guys have anything that turns you on like that visually?
If your turned on visually by a guy what exactly do you feel sexually? what happens?
Iv asked women before but I always seem to get answers like:
women go for personality,
women arent visual,
women need to be touched,
seeing a guy topless does nothing for me but then ya can see the way they look at you when your topless.
Then there's articles and stuff that stay women aren't visual etc but then some women tell me that things are the same for women its just they arent willing to admit it.
Im confused and dont know whats real or fake anymore.
Would be great to hear from some women about how things work for you?
Thanks
for me, I have a great imagination and reading stories paints great pictures into my mind/fantasies, so no, photos of men penises is not a turn on for me, I don't watch porn, but I do go over my photos and cull out the best sexiest ones, I would rather they caresses me with erotic words
Hell yeah, if I see a well built man who has chest hair peeping over his t shirt I am instantly turned on and wondering how he looks under his shirt and then my mind runs away with me. So yes, us women can be just as visual as men
i have been surprised by how i can be turned on by images, enough to tease me to release.....but a great mind and wit will keep me intrigued so much longer.
So, for me, yes, i can be visually aroused (and often), but not always predictably....
There is a charm about the forbidden that makes it unspeakably desirable."
C'è un fascino per il proibito che lo rende indicibilmente desiderabile.
— Mark Twain
Heck yes love seeing a man with a great body and nice voice. It makes me want him in my bed
we are just as visual but do like at least some smarts behind that nice body and smile
I am visually turned onto a certain degree, but far more by my imagination. That's why the obviousness of mainstream porn does not turn me on.
So here is my take…women are very specific about what turns them on visually and men are not so much. In other words…boobs in general…big, small, fake, real…makes no difference, many guys I know are just generally turned on by them. Some guys are turned on by a perfect body or the perfect ass and some guys like a more “real world” natural every day body. Men are generally, physically turned on by all of these things and none in particular.
Women are a bit more specific. Yes, a nice looking, well-built man is a turn on, but it is more than that. The look on his face, the look in his eyes, or the idea that he might touch us that is really the turn on. Not so much just his looks, but what we imagine we would enjoy doing with someone who looked like that.
Women, (me) are turned on by the way someone makes her feel…..and that includes the way they look but it also includes when they do certain things that make us feel good. If a man (or woman, because make no mistake, women are turned on by women too), looks at us a certain way and they have other physical attributes that we like to see, that affects us. If someone touches certain places like the small of your back as you enter a room or brushing hands when reaching for something, even if by accident it can send shivers down my spine and fill my mind with what else I’d like them to do. A simple act of brushing my hair off my shoulder has my head spinning sometimes. (right person, right circumstances)
Physically what does “turned on” mean? To me, it could mean a whole host of things but I think in short it is the feeling of adrenaline coursing through your body by a touch or a smile or a look from across the room by someone who is pleasing to our eyes. It is a high that we want more of right now! I feel warm inside, tingly all over, and yes, wet when someone is, says, or does something that sparks my libido into high gear.
That is just my take…we are women though and we are not all the same, thank heaven!
I get very visually turned on. Being Bi I get turned on by seeing a sexy woman just like a man is. But as far as being turned on by a man's appearance, when I see a guy I find attractive, sure I get somewhat turned on. But its not really the same. The sexually attracting physical attributes on women are much more noticeable than on men. A woman may dress to show off her cleavage or wear short tight skirts to show off her ass and legs. But for the most part guys don't wear clothing that shows off their chiseled abs or reveal their beautiful cock. I would think wearing pants so tight that you can tell how his cock may look has to be incredibly uncomfortable and don't blame guys for not doing it, LOL.
So for me the visual that attracts me to a man is more how he carries himself. Does he appear confident? or just cocky? How does he dress? With me, body language is very key.
While women and men may not be on even fields when it comes to being visual, if a woman says shes not at all visual, then she's sexually dead in my view lol, c'mon. Sommmmmething visual has gotta create some kinda spark ladies...
I'm visual... I can definitely appreciate men and women's bodies, whether it's a sexy butt, shapely hips/waist, legs, smile, eyes, hair, lips, etc etc. Women may be more discreet when checking people out, but on some level we do.
Some things I notice regarding men (when talking about 'checking out')... his walk, stance, curve of his shoulders/back muscles, arms, fingers, width of his hands, smile and eyes, waistline/the way his belt looks around his waist, ass, shoes. Oh, and cologne lol mmmmmm!!
And regarding more intimate moments.. love looking at how his arms flex when he's holding himself above me and his pec muscles. The curve/muscle along his neck when his head is held back in passion, the way his back muscles shift when he's shirtless and moves a certain way, the look of the veins in his forearms, the line of his jaw in his side profile, how his lips move/curve with whatever kinda way he smiles (happy/funny smile, a grin, leer, closed-mouth up curve in amusement, etc). Wow I'm getting really detailed lol, so yes women can certainly be visual ;)
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I love seeing a guy with a nice bubble-butt, great abs, or beautiful hair! Physical attraction usually comes before emotional attraction for both men and women because our first impression of another person is usually visual. We all have physical types we are visually attracted to before we make an emotional connection, as a rule, but I think women are more often capable of forming an emotional connection first, which then engenders a physical attraction, ...which is a good thing for all you nice guys who don't look like Brad Pitt.
Well...I like artistic and sensual pictures. There are a lot of very erotic pictures out there. A play of light, a back ground that is exotic, maybe some props that are just fun and playful. Yes...I like erotic pictures very much....Men and women both! The fact is for me...if I begin to look at erotic pictures I get more and more stimulated and I find myself looking at more sexual pictures...it just happens. Maybe that makes me a strange girl but it works for me.
Yes I like my erotic visual stimuli... But also love the ideas created in my minds eye.
I get visually turned on all the time. Rather see a bulge in a guys pants and imagine what he is like than actually see what's in there though, so I think it's visual stimulation to spark the imagination, similar to the way I use stories on here. I get turned on by port/pictures of men and women but more often than not I lose interest when it gets to the actual fucking. I'm all about teasing and anticipation.
Yes, a man with a hairy chest always gets my attention
Yes, there are many things I find visually stimulating when looking at men or women. Surely the first attraction is usually visual then you find out more as you go along. Looks is a good starting place but I need more than just that.
Having said that I can be very attracted to someone's voice on the radio or on the phone for example, although I have no idea what they look like.
Absolutely yes. It is scientifically proven that on a subconscous level every female is looking for the best male individual (according to her standards of course) to copulate with so that she can conceive. It maye sound a bit animalistic, but it is so. For me personally, it has always been the physical attraction that has led to me pursuing any further communicatiuon with a man. Otherwise we all have male friends whom we enjoy talking to, share the same views etc. but we don't have sex with because despite the intellectual and emotional compatibility , we just don't feel physically attracted to.
I appreciate a man with a beautiful body, I love watching them move, and I particularly like mens butts. I am also very aware of their voice and accent.
I am, and while everyone enjoys looking at a nice body, it's actually the interaction between two people that turns me on.
Well the sight of a well turned out man sliding down the sidewalk can do it for me. Or great abs at the beach. So yes, I am.
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