I have been on Lush for a long time and made many friends. I enjoy the banter in the forums most and that is usually where I am found

Interests
Do NOT send me a friend request without a proper introduction...we are not cave people!

I also have a low tolerance level for disrespect, lying, idiocy and ineptitude ... be warned. Class may sound like it has ass in it yet it doesn't, so stop trying to tap mine and talk to me.

Favorite Books
Here are just some totally RANDOM things about me:

I hate snow
My favorite book is To Kill A Mocking Bird
I wear flip flops year round
My hobbies are gardening and painting
Sex is good...a good thing
Im not a big fan of sweets
I love surprises
I am good under pressure
The ocean is my therapy
I need to feel wanted
I prefer to not have cum on my face
I am loyal
My children are my biggest fans
Im over qualified
I know the difference between a clip and a magazine
Panties are my obsession, I have over 200 lovely pretties
People say I sing well

Favorite Movies
A Bit Of BDSM 101 that Ive wanted to share (Q & A over 3 yrs I think)

People into BDSM are mentally damaged
- Actually we are shown to score slightly better than vanilla folks all in. It isn't a pathology either and we haven't all had awful childhoods.

We are better at communicating
- we are human, therefore we communicate with the same hang ups as in every day life. Some things we have to negotiate, define, strategise and discuss. These do not mean we communicate better.

The dominant is in charge/
The submissive is in charge
- It is pretty mutual guys. Things are discussed and adapted and BOTH have the right to call halt at ANY time an this should be without issue

BDSM is always sexual/
BDSM is not sexual
- up to you...I personally love a good mind fuck

Submissives have low self esteem
- Well some do some of the time and we all have at some point maybe, and so have Dominants.

You have to do what the Dominant says
-No you don't, see it is always a choice

A Dominant doesn't do chores
- Again, a negotiation surely, it is about the relationship? Depends on life circumstances and situations.

BDSM participants are at it like rabbits
- human again, plus relationships are just that, people. We often reach the end of the honeymoon phase and the things we loved about that person annoy us! We end up having less sex...hills and valleys " src="/images/emoticons/smile_regular.gif">

BDSM is relatively new
- Paleolithic times have images of BDSM, it ain't new. No idea we have is new or original sorry....well the remote control egg maybe!

Favorite TV Shows
I LOVE reality TV...yes, I am a well educated person pfffffft

Favorite Music
child of the 80's, Elvis is the king of rock but Country is where my lil heart lie