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iceman7570
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 57
0 miles · Texas
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The mrs. and I have a triad right now(FFM). Even though our paramour lives with us, we still enjoy the occasional MFM with one of the 2 Ladies. But most times it ends as an MFMF......
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Of course, when making love or just straight out wild sex we all know it can sometimes be messy and it would be a nice reminder during the afterglow while cuddling........
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Mrs. Ice, here I have and love it and so does he. Mr. Ice can get me there anytime he wants and we both revel in the bliss of it.............
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It's perfectly normal reaction to enjoy seeing a woman in panties,with all the colors,cuts,styles, and different fabrics they are designed to entice the male to imagine. You get to see an object of desire in different wrappings and your mind does what it does, to me they just accentuate the curves and only add to the beauty of the Ladies..........
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You do not convince her, but you can tell her your thoughts and or fantasies. You must deal with her thoughts and feelings on this subject though, so she is open minded she might think about it or not. I know the mrs. and I discussed it for over a yr before we decided to try it.......so PATIENCE is a virtue.........
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Just enjoy them, mrs. ice has her nipples and her vertical hood done she loves both. she says if you want more sensations from your hood piercing to find bigger balls and a shorter shaft and it will put it right where ya want it, just don't stumble when you walk, she gets orgasms from walking around..........
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Quote by AbigailThornton
None - I tried ears and belly button but I'm allergic to various things including Nickel and I just couldn't be bothered with the rashes.
might try yellow or white gold, knew a lady who could only wear the white and she was allergic to the yellow
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Quote by AbigailThornton
None - I tried ears and belly button but I'm allergic to various things including Nickel and I just couldn't be bothered with the rashes.
AT you might try using real gold in yellow or white,I knew lady who could wear the white gold no problem and she got a rash from the yellow gold. So its something that could take some time to figure out.....just a suggestion.
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If goes as planned not much to it. One side of mine was about 3 min and done,2nd side was longer due too scar tissue from younger days when i rode bulls it took about 45 min at least they didnt take me to surgery like they talked about. Ask if I would do again, Isure would its freeing to not to have to hold back on any aspect.........
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Find a sitter and take her to dinner and just talk, you cannot do it when the child is around .........So you spend sometime with each other and talk ....
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Quote by FelineFantasy
Clothing that can easily be removed, no use fumbling with them if they are going to be coming off! I'd say a short skirt, tank top, and some cute shoes. Very basic, very cute.
Have to agree with Feline here but most of all wear what you figure is sexy and comfortable for you thats what the misses does when we go.....
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Quote by 1Zratedgal
I am glad to hear that you two had discussions about this and have been open and honest with each other!
Coming from a marriage in which my Hubby and I have been in the lifestyle for decades, I can tell you that if you did not do this completely and honestly with each other from the beginning and continue on, IT WON'T WORK!!!
It's not for everyone! But if it can help enhance your sex play and add to the fantasies or pursuits of pleasures, then it's a good thing!
I like how others made suggestions of seeing others or trying some out of town open swingers events. There are often meet and greets with well organized clubs and it helps people get an understanding of the culture and social environments.
Personally, I would suggest you two continue being open and honest with each other and freely discuss the desires or fantasies you get and then use them as roleplay / foreplay for your personal enjoyment. If this becomes a continual desire for you both, you could also look into finding sex clubs or people who would do non-contact, same room sex or maybe allow you two to be voyeurs and have your own pleasures without the risks of swapping or trading.
Kisses!
Steph
Great advice here you have to talk then talk some more then , you get to talk more about things it all has to be honest and above board ......
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1) Yes, i do
2) Yes, it has happened
3) Yes, I Love letting her have fun as we have been in swing for yrs......
2) Yes, it has happened
3) Yes, I Love letting her have fun as we have been in swing for yrs......
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I do believe both can co-exist ..... If a person looks at religion as its quoted in the bible your gonna miss alot, it has been rewritten numerous times by clerics who choose to use it as a tool to control and influence thoughts. They just last yr rewrote parts of it again.....lol. In history it was the church at one time who ran the brothels..........
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The Marines I have seen around the world have the cleanest bodies, the filthiest minds, the highest morale, and the lowest morals of any group of animals I have ever seen. Thank God for the United States Marine Corps!
Eleanor Roosevelt, First Lady of the United States, 1945
Some people spend an entire lifetime wondering if they made a difference in the world. But, the Marines don't have that problem.
Ronald Reagan, President of the United States; 1985
There are only two kinds of people that understand Marines: Marines and the enemy. Everyone else has a second-hand opinion.
Gen. William Thornson, U.S. Army
Freedom is not free, but the U.S. Marine Corps will pay most of your share.
Ned Dolan
Eleanor Roosevelt, First Lady of the United States, 1945
Some people spend an entire lifetime wondering if they made a difference in the world. But, the Marines don't have that problem.
Ronald Reagan, President of the United States; 1985
There are only two kinds of people that understand Marines: Marines and the enemy. Everyone else has a second-hand opinion.
Gen. William Thornson, U.S. Army
Freedom is not free, but the U.S. Marine Corps will pay most of your share.
Ned Dolan
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Mrs.Ice seems to like it when i cook dinner and do the laundry for her.........she has let me be family cook for yrs too and her gf's ask where to find another Mr. Ice.........lol
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Pixie my dad has that same one and he uses it at get togethers for creamer for the coffee. One time a family member who happens to be a church pastor showed up and just turned red as he added creamer to his coffee.......it was well worth the laugh...........
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Quote by sexi_virgin25
Well this thread did not surprise me at all when most guys said they would want a bad girl over a good girl because they can be boring. But what I don't understand is the fact that most guys get offended when girls say they want a bad boy over a nice guy. I have seen many threads on different sites of guys ranting about how nice they are, and they can't get the girl they want. These usually be smoking hot girls that know and can get what they want, and that have lots of attitude. the nice guys always fail at looking for a good girl, and they wonder why good women are so hard to find, or they all chalk women up into no good dirty whores category. This is one reason why some men have no idea what they want in a woman, and another reason why men are so confusing to me.
Maybe the goodgirls are looking for the badboy too learn to be a badgirl? I know thats what happened to my wife.....lol
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I personally think all women have something about them that all men can find attractive. It could be body type, eyes, lips,legs,breast or personality so it doesnt really matter as long as the man finds you attractive. My wife and I share a pretty open relationship and I personally do not care for a walking skeleton of a woman but some do I do however love a woman who is confident and feels sexy in her own way. So quite paying so much attention too how others say you should look or feel and be yourself.......
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My wife got a vhc piercing and it was a suprise for her, as in she didnt know i had set it up. and after the immediate shock she loves it, a friend done it for us and he stated that for more intense feelings from it to put bigger balls on it, and she has upgraded ball size 3 times so far..... and she loves to be licked at the piercing too soo............