I’ve tried many times with a couple of different toys but I’ve never been able to make it happen. It’s rather disappointing because I’ve heard that it feels amazing. I can never seem to come close to the finish line without cheating by stroking.
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hopp3r
2 weeks ago
Heteroflexible Male, 36
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Although I do enjoy it, I’m not super into back door play. That being said, if one wanted to play back there after I already came, I’d probably like it although not with the same enthusiasm as I would pre-orgasm. It might be a great way to keep the fun going before the next round though.
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What are some of the hottest things someone has said to you (or simply shouted to no one in particular) during sex?
The answer could be the words themselves, the way they said something, or even the things they have talked about.
For example, I’m a big user of the foreign language app Duolingo and I’ve encouraged many others to give it a try. Once, while having sex, both of our phones chimed with lesson reminders which gave us both a laugh. However, she then started speaking simple phrases in French, sort of mocking the notion of being made to practice right then. I told her it was sexy to hear her speak like that to which she responded by doing her best to talk dirty in French with a sultry, breathy tone. To date, I can’t think of anything else I’ve had whispered in my ear that comes even close to matching how hot those words were, despite not understanding any of it.
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I joined a gym a year ago today and tracked over 150 visits (so an average of 3 visits per week). Most days I get there between 5:30 and 6:00 pm, staying between 1 and 2 hours. This might not be my ideal workout time but it works with my work schedule and personal life comings-and-goings and I’ve become accustomed to the other regulars that I see around this time, be it new friends or just some scenery/eye-candy.
At times, I’ve managed to get in workouts really late at night (10:00 pm to midnight) and super early in the morning (5:00 to 7:00 am) and given the choice between the two, I think I’m more of a night owl. However, I have noticed that the early crowd tends to be those in much better shape which is both encouraging and intimidating.
I’m thinking of joining a second gym as i don’t want to lose the community of my current gym but I would also like to get back into lap swimming, something I did religiously in high school. I have no idea what the hours/crowds are like there, however, so my workout times might need to change some.
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It’s definitely out there but I think it’s difficult to come by due to the added mess (possibly harder to film) and the nature of it being perhaps a niche audience. I have heard that some women who are into cnc have used period sex as a sort of prop to intensify things with their partner which, if handled properly, could make for some interesting fiction.
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That's unfortunate and I'm sorry it happened. You're not overreacting and should have tried to talk to him about it. Don't let this experience ruin your motivations to try again and it it goes the same way, be sure to say something so you both can address the problem.
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If she's open to it, face fucking is the quickest way to orgasm. Not necessarily for the roughness or dominance but simply for getting to be in control and do whatever feels best. It's not inherently about gagging. I mean, there is such a thing as slow, shallow fucking.
But when leaving her in control, the more she focuses her mouth and tongue on the underside of the tip, makes smiling eye-contact, and uses her hands to stroke the shaft and rub the balls then the easier it will be for her to make him cum. It also goes a long way if she gives him something sexy to look at, like exposing her tits or actively playing with herself. Some encouraging dirty talk is highly recommended as well.
I've heard some guys claim that they cum quicker with a little ass play but I don't think that's necessarily a universal truth.
- I wouldn't say that deepthroat is better than gagging or vice versa. It's more accurate to call them different styles of the same concept: going in deep.
- Start with slow strokes and work to faster ones. It's not really about the speed as much as it is about having some kind of acceleration going on, even if it's a very, very slow acceleration. Think about the way one fucks (slow to fast) and that's pretty much the magic tempo
The biggest blowjob disappointment is if it's taking longer than she would like and it becomes apparent in her words, expression, or body language. It adds a performance pressure that makes it all the more difficult to finish which in turn causes her to further convey disinterest. So if it's taking too long, hide that fact. Pretend like you're having so much fun or else it can make a bad situation worse.
But when leaving her in control, the more she focuses her mouth and tongue on the underside of the tip, makes smiling eye-contact, and uses her hands to stroke the shaft and rub the balls then the easier it will be for her to make him cum. It also goes a long way if she gives him something sexy to look at, like exposing her tits or actively playing with herself. Some encouraging dirty talk is highly recommended as well.
I've heard some guys claim that they cum quicker with a little ass play but I don't think that's necessarily a universal truth.
- I wouldn't say that deepthroat is better than gagging or vice versa. It's more accurate to call them different styles of the same concept: going in deep.
- Start with slow strokes and work to faster ones. It's not really about the speed as much as it is about having some kind of acceleration going on, even if it's a very, very slow acceleration. Think about the way one fucks (slow to fast) and that's pretty much the magic tempo
The biggest blowjob disappointment is if it's taking longer than she would like and it becomes apparent in her words, expression, or body language. It adds a performance pressure that makes it all the more difficult to finish which in turn causes her to further convey disinterest. So if it's taking too long, hide that fact. Pretend like you're having so much fun or else it can make a bad situation worse.
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When it comes to the importance of sex, it really depends on the people in question and the nature of said relationship.
It could be an intimate friendship, it could be a deep and personal mentor/mentee situation, or it could just be two people that care a great deal about the well being of the other.
It could be an intimate friendship, it could be a deep and personal mentor/mentee situation, or it could just be two people that care a great deal about the well being of the other.
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I don't know if I could consider any particular orgasm of mine to have been the "best". There are definitely different types; some are slow with a delicious ache, some have a powerful tension that unwinds quickly, others stretch out for what feels like moments, while others still pass by like a euphoric gunshot. However, while probably most of them come from solo activity, my favorites are the ones that require a partner.
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I tentatively plan on retiring at 75. It feels like a solid number, it’s certainly not sooner than it needs to be, and it’s the age my great grandfather retired at.
So that being said, I’d like to make it past 100 and really experience what a century-worth of time is like. Plus it would give me a decent 25+ years of retirement-life which feels like a good amount.
So that being said, I’d like to make it past 100 and really experience what a century-worth of time is like. Plus it would give me a decent 25+ years of retirement-life which feels like a good amount.
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I always try to wear a mask in public unless I know I won’t be near others (e.g. walk through the park, pumping gas, etc). However, there are times where I forget to bring one but those incidents are becoming less common for me.
Although at work I’m only one of a handful that wears one throughout the day.
Although at work I’m only one of a handful that wears one throughout the day.
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It varies quite a bit, depending on my mood and what it is that is turning me on. When my eyes are closed and my thoughts are the only thing fueling the fire, the thing that I most often find pushing me over the edge is the idea of being aggressively seduced. Flashes of alluring and lustful looks combined with the imagined sounds of their breathing and moaning are common in my mind's theater during those moments.
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For a haircut, I always tip if it’s provided as an option. I’ll probably do something like 10% but it depends on the situation. I’ve always viewed tipping as an investment into the next visit (be it a restaurant, bar, etc) and considering many of the places I frequent keep records of haircuts so they can give you the same thing next time, it only makes sense to ensure they have a preferable memory of me.
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I drive a classic pickup yet I’m far from savvy when it comes to anything under the hood. This year I replaced the belts and alternator and then a few months later, took out the starter to be rebuilt. I also replaced some of the electrical components. The front wheel hub assemblies were also replaced but those don’t count since I had a professional do that.