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hellofolks
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 55
0 miles · Nashville

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Never asked but it did happen and become part of one of my relationships:

Met a lady through a dating service. We decide on a dinner date and are talking sex as the entrees arrived (she led the conversation in this direction). Back to my place, wine and the next thing you know I have her bent over the table (more like she bent over the table). She cums and, lo and behold I discover she is a squirter of the likes I have not experienced before, only seen on a video. Uninhibited in every way. We have fantastic sex all night and over the next month. During this time, she speaks of her experience, preferences, fantasies etc. One such fantasy was to dress up as a teen version of herself and have me enter the home as she is masturbating (I am a friend of the family). She wants to keep the secret, I have her show me how she masturbates and then lead her into using one of the dildos I just so happened to bring with me (hey, it's a fantasy). We play this out (it was great). As the night progresses, I find myself sitting on her chest, while she gives me a blowjob. She begins playing with my ass and talking about how instead of using her finger, she should use the dildo. Now, we have had sex in public, anal, and she is going to introduce me to her girlfriends for even more fun so, while this took me by surprise, I consider it for the over-all benefits of the sexual experiences to follow. I tell I haven't done it before and she replies, with great confidence, that she has. She begins to direct me (we are in the living room) to go upstairs, do this and that (hygiene, how she wants me in bed, lighting, music, etc). She enters with a strap on already in place. I'll concede it freaked me out a bit (this was not something I had ever done nor considered doing). Clearly she knew what she was doing. Assertive, dominate and role reversed. From small dildo to a large dildo. From slow and soft with me on all 4s to on my back, her lifting my legs, sweat dripping off her nose, banging away. I was introduced into a whole new world that evening. I will say this, I couldn't cum when she was pegging me but I was getting into how much she enjoyed doing it (she would cum/squirt). When she was done, I would fuck her or masturbate to conclusion. This led to many new things for me but the underlying theme for "new" was female dominance. I had experienced assertive women in my life, but not dominate ones. For the 3-some with her friend I would, at times, have to be submissive (masturbate for them while they were fully dressed and having drinks), get pegged first by her or her friend, etc. We would then flip and I would be dominate. It was a wild year.
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Depends.

I met a lady who squirted and squirted and squirted and... well you get it. The first time this occurred she was bent over my patio table. I thought she was peeing. We went to bed and no way you can sleep on that bed upon exhaustion. She was wild, BDSM, groups, Bi, public, just about anything. To the point, it was too much squirting for this guy. I loved the open minded wildness but I just couldn't handle that much fluid when she cam and she cam often.

On the flip side, I hooked up with my high school sweetheart. My first "love" but we never had sex. Fast forward 20 years and we end up in bed together. She is on top, I have my finger inside her massaging her g-spot and she squirted. Now THAT I lapped up like a cat does milk.
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It depends. Rimming, not really my thing. If the mood is right, a finger pushed to the prostrate is explosive, in a very good way.
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Clean as a whistle (front to back). My lady says if I want her shaved, she wants me shaved. It works.
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Quote by HotWife4U


Really? You faked an orgasm? She must have not only been a horrible lay but dumb as a rock. Guys leave evidence.


Judge much?

Have I ? Yes. Did she know? No.

Scenario 1 - She was hammered and when she was finally cumming I just went along for the ride. she was so drunk she had no clue.

Scenario 2 - she was a wild one , definitely not a horrible lay. she was the biggest squirter I have ever been with. She would cum again and again and again. frankly, after a while, i tired of the water works. During her next old faithful gush, I just joined in so I could roll off.
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As a man, I have had 3 FWB. I do not agree with the comments about a woman not being able to handle it. The key factor is where a person is in their life, unless they are straight up nyphos. one of my FB jut left the Navy. She has 2 kids, both through artificial insemination. She loves sex, but does not want a man. She like what I do and we have a very open relationship when it comes to talking about and having sex. We have drinks but we never talk about kids, family, and such. Pura vida. Another was just a pure nympho. Role play, toys, in public, groups, whatever. The third, smoking hot in between things and looking for someone to drink, eat, dance and play. ...... Awesome time. When she wanted to start dating, we had one last romp in the hay and bid each other ado.
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Yes, but like any woman it depends on her character, beauty, and past. Sasha Grey, no thanks. Meleanie Rios, too young for me. Racquel Darrian, heck yes.

If you have only slept with a few women and want someone with that same journey in life/value set, a porn star is likely not for you.
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I have and I would, love it... noting I never drink cow milk, though I do eat cheeses (though I prefer goat). The only milk I drink, other than from a woman, is almond.

Noting, I have not done ths in years. When married, it was near part of the routine (at times milk expresses it self, like it or not).

sweet, warm, wet, made her especially hot knowing it was not a turn-off... loved it.
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Waxed or landing strip, well trimmed. I am groomed (no hair from top of thighs to the hair on my head and expect the same.
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In regards to the specific question, I can't stand it. I do not want to be brushing my teeth and have her on the commode peeing and chatting with me. I do not like being disturbed when I am on the commode. In fact, my home has 4 bathrooms and I used the furthest from my partner. I rarely use the master bathroom, only for mid-night pees (usually if we have been drinking).
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plenty of fluids, Vodka/Redbull aside, if you want to be sober.

No asparagus!
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of course all situations vary but wehn we are having hot sex, and she needs a break (you can sense it) or just to turn her on, I go from one to the other. After I cum, she loves to cum again. If I go down on her after I cum, she goes crazy.
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if 2 people love each other thay should be open to exploring any fantasies they are both comfortable with.... This one is an easy yes.
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Ass. I do not like over-sized breats nor do I like implants. I would much prefer an a or b cup, with responsive, sensitive nipples and a great ass.
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My girl loves it. She does all the things you want a person to do before engaging in this activity and then some.