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gingerluv
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 54
United States
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Your size is in the average range. And average size, for me, is the best size. they have more versatility! I won't choke on an average sized cock, and an average sized cock will gain admittance to my ass, whereas, a larger one is out of the question. But as the others have said, ask her what she likes and use that tongue! If you do that, you will both be happy.
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Kegels may not be the answer. Here is an excerpt that I read about the subject:
KB: A kegel attempts to strengthen the PF, but it really only continues to pull the sacrum inward promoting even more weakness, and more PF gripping. The muscles that balance out the anterior pull on the sacrum are the glutes. A lack of glutes (having no butt) is what makes this group so much more susceptible to PFD. Zero lumbar curvature (missing the little curve at the small of the back) is the most telling sign that the PF is beginning to weaken. Deep, regular squats (pictured in hunter-gathering mama) create the posterior pull on the sacrum. Peeing like this in the shower is a great daily practice, as is relaxing the PF muscles to make sure that you're not squeezing the bathroom muscle closers too tight. Just close them enough...An easier way to say this is: Weak glutes + too many Kegels = PFD.
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I have read a few other articles on this as well, but don't have the links to them atm.
Edit: I see my link to the source won't post, I am assuming I don't have enough posts yet.
KB: A kegel attempts to strengthen the PF, but it really only continues to pull the sacrum inward promoting even more weakness, and more PF gripping. The muscles that balance out the anterior pull on the sacrum are the glutes. A lack of glutes (having no butt) is what makes this group so much more susceptible to PFD. Zero lumbar curvature (missing the little curve at the small of the back) is the most telling sign that the PF is beginning to weaken. Deep, regular squats (pictured in hunter-gathering mama) create the posterior pull on the sacrum. Peeing like this in the shower is a great daily practice, as is relaxing the PF muscles to make sure that you're not squeezing the bathroom muscle closers too tight. Just close them enough...An easier way to say this is: Weak glutes + too many Kegels = PFD.
Source:
I have read a few other articles on this as well, but don't have the links to them atm.
Edit: I see my link to the source won't post, I am assuming I don't have enough posts yet.
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NO! Um, am I a little TOO straight?! If I had a penis I wouldn't fuck myself either. The only sexual thing you should do alone is MASTURBATE.
I think that would technically still be considered masturbating. And yes I would do it! Doesn't mean I wouldn't still want someone else to do it for me.