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Quote by BraveBitch
Have you ever cum in your pants?
No, I usually need lube. Dryness doesn't work for me.
I did worry that would just suddenly cum in my pants sometime during the day while at school after the very first time I masturbated and ejaculated. It caught me by surprise and I thought I might just ejaculate at at time from arousal.
I can get wet with precum from being rubbed or dry humping though clothes but that's about it. Whenever I've felt the urge to masturbate while out I've snuck off the the bathroom to do so. If I'm in a place where I can't masturbate I probably can't be out with a massive wet spot from cum on my pants either.
I'd have to try it all. That is, once I got past playing with my own breasts, masturbating, using toys and so on. I would ride a Sybian and try other fucking machines, go commando in a skirt, find a quiet place outdoors to be naked and masturbate, play with toys that can be worn and used while out and about, have sex with a guy, have sex with a couple of guys, have sex with another woman, experience multiple orgasms, get spit roasted, have anal sex, try DP .. Not sure I can list every single thing off the top of my head but I would definely love to experience all the things that I enjoy watching women do. I think I'd be an exhibitionist as a female.
Quote by Leiza350
If your wife really wanted a threesome, with you and another man would ,if the right person came along, let her have a threesome with you and who ever you chose...?
It's impossible to say that I would go for any threesome that fits that description but I wouldn't toss out the idea as I've had one with two women and have had sex with an ex with another couple (each just with our own partners). Can't think of a guy that I would go for but I'd have to be attracted to him and he would also have to be bi. I'd want to play with him as well.
Quote by fathima
Which is your favorite boobs size
Size doesn't matter as much to me as natural, nicely shaped and suited to her body. Good fakes can be ok but I generally don't care for them. I really dislike fakes that don't move properly, cause weird sagging and puckering when she leans over and the tendency for oversized fakes. Generally though I tend to prefer B or C. A handful or slightly more is about ideal to me.
However, I'd also say that boobies in general are always good.
Quote by 1nympholes
With so many guys indicating their preference for A and B cup are you saying I should consider a breast reduction?
You should do what you -- and possibly your partner -- want. Don't just decide based on popularity.
Quote by garterbelt
Do many guys like creampies?
Like any other sex act, some do and some do not. Isn't a cream pie the usual result of sex if you don't pull out? I agree that it's one of the best ways to finish. I feel like I have marked my woman. It's hot to see the cum dripping out of her. If I could convince her to do it I'd have her naked around the house afterwards with the cum dripping down her thighs.
Or did you mean to ask about eating them? I've enjoyed them myself. I think it's fair to go down on her afterwards if I want her to eat my own cum and it's a turn on for me to taste both of us together like that.
Quote by delishdani
Have any of you made love to a women while she's on her menstrual cycle? I think we've all heard the expression, "When the river run's red, Take the dirt road instead."
Ive never done this..I find it some what gross, unsanitary even.
Is it nice? Im not a prude, but somethings take it too far...
"Too far" varies from person to person. If something someone else does is too far for you then you're more prudish then that person by definition. Odds are that you go "too far" by the standards of others who are more prudish than you.
Aside from cleanup I've never noticed any difference from having sex with my patents when they're not on their period. Some of my partners have found that sex helps with their cramping.
If you think that this is unsanitary then don't read up on how unsanitary sex is in general. I hope you don't engage in oral sex as the human mouth is truly filthy. Sex by nature is a filthy process. I prefer to take what I consider to be reasonable measures for hygiene but it seems odd to me to worry about a bit of your lover's blood if you're already swapping saliva, semen and other bodily fluids. However, you have to do whatever it is that works for you. Everyone draws the line at a different point.
I don't have just one type of underwear. I enjoy going commando -- especially with running shorts, lounge pants or sarong. However, I also enjoy having a variety of underwear. It's not really for others but for me. I have some briefs, bikinis, boxers, boxer briefs, short boxer briefs that don't cover much, thongs, g-strings and jock straps. Picked up a c-string but it hasn't been working out for me.
I have a pair of sheer silk briefs. I have a jock with metal rings. I have a jock with suspender straps. I have a strong jock.
I like different materials. I like the feel of the thong or g-string between my buttocks. I just enjoy wearing fun underwear by itself around the house and out on a daily basis under my normal clothes.
Comfort is going to vary from person to person and from clothing to clothing. It's not uncomfortable for me. Running shorts and lounge pants are more comfortable to me but I'll also go commando in my jeans.
As for hygiene, it and going commando are two entirely different things. If you have hygiene problems then you have hygiene problems and you need to address them. My better half would definitely complain if my going commando led to hygiene problems.
I have a pair of sheer silk briefs. I have a jock with metal rings. I have a jock with suspender straps. I have a strong jock.
I like different materials. I like the feel of the thong or g-string between my buttocks. I just enjoy wearing fun underwear by itself around the house and out on a daily basis under my normal clothes.
Quote by LongBeachShaker
EDIT: Oh, one more thing... do NOT GO COMMANDO! It may seem cool to unzip right to the Johnson, but women have an innate sense of hygiene which they will remember. And, frankly, it's not all that comfortable for "the boys."
Comfort is going to vary from person to person and from clothing to clothing. It's not uncomfortable for me. Running shorts and lounge pants are more comfortable to me but I'll also go commando in my jeans.
As for hygiene, it and going commando are two entirely different things. If you have hygiene problems then you have hygiene problems and you need to address them. My better half would definitely complain if my going commando led to hygiene problems.
Quote by mickey26
I just asked the girls and now it's our turn.would you masturbate in front of your wife or girlfriend?
Definitely yes.
Quote by mickey26
How about a stranger?
Possibly -- depends on the stranger and the situation.
Quote by mickey26
How about another guy?
Again, possibly and it would depend on the guy and the situation.
I'd be more inclined with the "possibly" answers if I was attracted to the person and it had a chance of leading to sex with the person. I'm not really an exhibitionist.
Quote by Espresso
If you COULD suck your own dick....?
Quote by Espresso
...Would you even leave the house?? haha...but seriously, would you do it?
Absolutely. I'd be doomed and would never leave the house. Probably a good thing that I can't.
Quote by Espresso
Is this a common thing to try or considered "freaky"?
No idea how common it is but there are certainly others out there. How freaky it is depends on who you ask. Different people draw the line at different places. Some consider anything aside from missionary with the sole purpose of making babies to be freaky. As long as everyone involved consents and no one is getting hurt does it matter? Do what you enjoy.
Quote by Guest
In your opinion guys, What is the sexiest thing your girl can wear to bed?
The what doesn't matter as much as the who and how well she wears it -- not just fit but attitude, confidence, etc. However I do tend to like:
- Nothing at all
- Nothing but a leather collar and wrist and ankle cuffs
- Garters, belt and crocheted thigh highs
- A simple (not frilly) silk outfit
- Leather strap harness outfit
- Strap-on and harness
- Patchouli
I would and I have. A previous girlfriend and I got each other worked up so much over IM that I went over to her office on my lunch break, picked her up, snuck into a gated apartment complex next to her office, parked on the top floor of the parking garage and fucked there in the car. Didn't see anyone but there were taller office buildings around the apartments. We also had sex in her office at night. The lights were off but she had a second floor office with floor to ceiling windows that overlooked a major street.
Have had sex many times while camping.
Had sex with an ex in front of floor to ceiling windows in a hotel room looking out over the city below.
Not really an exhibitionist or looking to get caught but I do enjoy the excitement of having sex in places where you shouldn't or people generally do not.
Have had sex many times while camping.
Had sex with an ex in front of floor to ceiling windows in a hotel room looking out over the city below.
Not really an exhibitionist or looking to get caught but I do enjoy the excitement of having sex in places where you shouldn't or people generally do not.
Quote by Duchess5670
I don't just want to be good at it, I want to be the best he's ever had. Any tips or new things to try when giving a guy head? What do you guys like?
Are you looking for general or specific advice? For general, I'd say that confidence and enthusiasm are definitely turn ons. Eye contact also helps with feeling connected. I personally like it when she has that aura of "seductive feline hunter" but your guy may be into something else. What really turns me on is a woman who enjoys and knows what she's doing. We have that connection and she can read my reactions to her techniques to drive me to orgasm without talking to each other. Her eyes and body language tell me that she wants my cum and enjoys knowing that she can drive me wild with pleasure like this. Find what really turns your guy on with blowjobs and try that.
For specifics you definitely have to find what the guy likes and what he doesn't like. No one technique works the same on all guys. Generally the underside and ridge of the head are the most sensitive parts. On some guys you can work away on those parts and take him to orgasm. Others are more sensitive and you'll have to be more gentle and maybe build up. I love having her tongue slide against the underside of the head and feeling her lips sliding over the ridge. Don't ignore other parts though. Some guys like hands on the shaft. Some like attention on their balls. Some enjoy ass play.
Find positions that work for both of you. If you want more control then being on top may be better.
Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
The more you guys communicate about it, the more satisfactory it will be.
Definitely this. It really applies to any sex.
Quote by bustybethxx
I havent tried anal sex yet, what are your experiences of it for those that have tried it?
I have given and received. While my past partners were willing it wasn't been their thing. That made it not enjoyable for me. I think it would be very different with an enthusiastic partner.
Still exploring but I enjoy receiving when I'm in the mood. I'm always very calm and relaxed both physically and mentally afterwards. I've only had one partner that would use a strap-on on me but enjoyed it when she did. I think the general advice to start out slow and use lots of lube when starting out is sound. You can adjust both based on your experience and preference.
Quote by WSCLG
Well, I would highly recommend an enema before.
I've seen the recommendation 1+ hour after the last bowel movement and would agree. An enema helps if you want to be extra careful.
Quote by xXMister_TXx
There is however a certain amount of trust and skill to it that does make it so special IMO. I think it is also wrong to say you always gotta go slow what's more important is pay attention to your parter's body language. He/she likes it you go on if not you can usually tell and go slower again. If you talk and communicate during the act even better and after a couple of times it will be second nature to you.
Trust, communication and lube are musts. Some partners can rely solely on body language. Some need and/or want verbal. Speed can vary by person, experience and preparation.