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Quote by realz
Why is this kind of scene so common in porn?
It's a visual medium. A lot of concessions are made for how things appear onscreen. It's not unlike it is with any movie or TV show. None of these are literal as the majority tend to find it dull.
You can certainly find porn that doesn't have a money shot. There is variety out there even though the majority may feature money shots.
Quote by DirtyMindedMom
So, guys, my question is: Does it bother you at all if your partner is basically masturbating herself while you fuck her? Does this make you feel like she's telling you that you're not getting the job done, or are you honestly okay with it?
Not at all! It's a turn on for her to rub her clit or do whatever makes her feel good while fucking, giving a blowjob, or anything else.
Guys aren't all exactly the same and I can only speak for myself. I fantasize about a lot of women and they're not just friends. They can be coworkers, in-laws, strangers and so on. Sometimes it's just wondering what she looks like naked. Sometimes it's much more. Sometimes it's very specific and detailed. Sometimes it's just a vague idea.
Quote by MarinaC
Do you really think your guy, or girl, wants to see that? Just curious on your thoughts.
No, I don't think my partner will get off from seeing her own insides. It's not my thing either. However, there are those who are into that. No one toy is a best fit for everyone. Each has to find what gets that person off.
It's difficult to suggest if you have no experence. Guys don't alll like the same spot, material, shape, etc. I vary depending on mood. You have to figure out what you like and go with that.
An Aneros could work but it's not really intended for masturbation. I would suggest starting with a slim, short curved butt plug made of a material with some give like silicone. If you find you like harder materials you can switch to them but if you can't stand harder materials then don't start out with one.
An Aneros could work but it's not really intended for masturbation. I would suggest starting with a slim, short curved butt plug made of a material with some give like silicone. If you find you like harder materials you can switch to them but if you can't stand harder materials then don't start out with one.
Toys can be fun. Don't ask us for suggestions. Shop with your partner to find things that you might enjoy.
Toys aren't just for couples or individuals. Any toy that gets her off is a couple toy to me. She's not into vibration so that rules out a bit for us. We both enjoy some of the Liberator shapes.
Or you just have issues and insecurity and assume such things. Toys can enhance if you don't feep threatened by them. It's really your loss.
Quote by youngblackdangerous
Any toys you prefer for couples?
Toys aren't just for couples or individuals. Any toy that gets her off is a couple toy to me. She's not into vibration so that rules out a bit for us. We both enjoy some of the Liberator shapes.
Quote by Guest
Huge turn off.
My dick is the only toy she needs.
It's actually embarrassing to see a girl using toys while having sex. It's like either he is bad, or you are huge whore who can't be pleased with normal sex
Or you just have issues and insecurity and assume such things. Toys can enhance if you don't feep threatened by them. It's really your loss.
Quote by ANW18
I don't see the big deal about guys making it feel as though they are better appreciated. I think they should be lucky if a woman is happy to go down on them...
They're not mutually exclusive. I love it when a woman swallows but I am appreciative whether she swallows or not. I'd rather be with someone who enjoys swallowing my cum.
Quote by MMonroe
Cos of this, ive been told by some that im just too picky and should give some a chance. I wouldnt say im picky in terms of looks, more to do with mutual interests/hobbies and compatability. Also im just petrified of getting my heart broken again
It's difficult to tell from your posts if you're being picky or if you're making excuses to avoid being hurt. You really have to assess this yourself, find those that know you and can provide an outside perspective or find an independent third party to weigh in.
Also be careful relying on "spark". Attraction has to be there but it isn't always like it is in movies and on TV. Do what you enjoy doing. Be open to meeting people. Don't worry so much and let things evolve naturally. You don't have to "pick" immediately. Certainly be selective in filtering candidates but keep in mind that it really takes time to truly get to know someone so the "picking" you're doing may be premature. It's also possible that you may need to step back and reassess your priorities. It could be that your criteria are unrealistic but without details it's difficult to say if that's the case.
Looking too hard can also make it seem difficult. Some of my best relationships have been unexpected surprises when I wasn't really expecting to get into one.
A person has to not only want to be in a relationship but to be ready for one as well. Make sure you''re taking care of yourself and addressing whatever concerns you have about yourself. It's cliche but you do have to be able to love yourself first.