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Is this normal?

Normal is overrated. As long as it's safe and consensual do whatever gets you off.
Quote by sexi_virgin25
Is it me or the whole male population is slowly turning gay by the generation? I bet within a 100 years every male on the face of the planet will be gay.

It's you and others that think the same way. The population isn't turning gay. It's slowly and gradually becoming more acceptable so of course you're hearing and seeing more. Additionally the internet has a part in all this as more are exposed to gay and bi stuff. Still, many struggle with being anything but straight. It's unreasonable to think that all males will eventually become gay.

Quote by dpw

It wasn't a choice of either gay or bi! It was a question to gay or bi men whether they had been with another guy and what was it like.ikLxuQRujZ6dIeW5

The OP asks if any men have fantasizes about sex with other men and wonders what it is like. The post your replying to is a guy's experience and preference. Nothing says the he can't state his preference. We've heard about your preferences in many threads.

Would have been good for him to post why he has that preference based on his experiences though.
Quote by hornykj831
Okay, so I've bought a few masturbators to use but I've ripped right through them in about two weeks, one even less.

Which ones have you tried? There's a wide range of quality out there and many poorly made options. It's possible that could be at least part of your problem.
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I do not know how to go about doing this and was wondering if anybody had any advice.

Your subject has all the advice you need. Talk to her about it.
Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
It depends on the boundaries of your relationship. Each relationship is different.

This. Instead of asking "Is X cheating?" the real question is what you and your partner have agreed on. Does the activity violate your trust and boundaries? If you can't answer such questions then you need to communicate with your partner.

Some people should take the golden rule into consideration and think about how they would react if their partner did the same thing. Still, it comes down to what you and your partner have agreed to. Don't just assume. Discuss if you the other hasn't specifically stated a clear stance.
Doesn't bother me. In another thread I indicated that I preferred experience to virginity. There's only one way to get experience.
Only by the wife so far. Nearly had an in incident with a former girlfriend's mother when she was helping us move. We didn't realize it until after the nightstand was moved but we didn't think that she saw anything.
Some of them yes. It really depends on the individual. I can't recall specific names off the top of my head.

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I know this is a question for the guys, but Pleaseee, gorgeous is gorgeous whatever they have between their legs.

I don't mind your reply as I was not familiar with Bailey Jay but will apparently have to change that.
A few months while single in between relationships and definitely not by choice.
I think I included this in a post in another thread somewhere but in a car on the roof of an apartment complex parking garage in the middle of the day.
They're all good in my book. I've only had an FFM and would do it again but would love to try FMM and MMM.
First off, stories are just stories and may or may not have anything to do with reality. It's also sometimes difficult to get a sense of time from reading something.

As for me, I didn't time us and there were no readily visible clocks to refer to but I would guess 10-15 minutes.
Quote by dpw

There is no sperm after a vasectomy.

Right -- that's the point of a vasectomy. Sperm and semen are not the same thing.
I don't recall the specifics but I ran across a discussion on some supplement that seemed to help but it contained ingredients that were readily available as individual supplements (mainly zinc and certain amino acids I think) for less.

As for why they vary, men's bodies vary. Their diets vary. Their attention to hydration varies. Their frequency of ejaculation varies. There are a number of factors at play.
I don't select or reject partners with race as a consideration but there is something from an aesthetic sense that can be a turn on for me. However, it still comes down to the individual.

Quote by cockupmyass7926
and what is best: black guy/white girl or white guy/black girl?

Those are hardly the only options. Are we talking interracial sex or interracial porn? It's all good and depends on the individuals for me.
Quote by padfootthegreat
Do guys really imagine having sex with all of their female friends, or do they just fantasize about the ones they find attractive?

Again, depends on the guy. I don't think I've fantasized about all my female friends but at the same time I don't think I've only fantasized about ones I find attractive. Sometimes I have "What if?" fantasies. It's not just friends but coworkers, in-laws, random strangers, celebrities, and so on.
Quote by padfootthegreat
I've always wondered if a guy would rather do it with a virgin or someone who has had sex before

Depends on the guy. I prefer experience. Sex is a two way thing and I find I enjoy it more with those that have experience. That's not to say that there isn't fun in teaching each other new things things though.
Quote by ChelseaSmile
However, I was wondering.. why is it a "turn on" for girls to swallow? Personally, I swallow. I've just known no other way. But, why is it hot?

It's not for everyone. Like anything else with sex some find it hot and some do not.

I find it hot. I love blowjobs more than anything else to begin with. It's the only time I enjoy being the center of attention. I enjoy knowing that this amazing woman in front of me is focused on my pleasure and she has the power to drive me crazy with her mouth.

Not sure I can explain why but it really turns me on if she is clearly hungry for my cum. It shows that she appreciates me and what I'm giving her. It makes me feel like she is unconditionally accepting me. I love her taste and it's a turn on for her to love mine.
Quote by Orgasmic
Guys, how much eye contact do you like from a woman when she is going down on you? an occasional glance or more?

Eye contact is a must. I want to see her passion and hunger on her eyes. I love looking into her eyes as I cum in her mouth. Eye contact is one of those forms of feedback and connectivity.
Gay is defined by the gender of a person and the gender(s) of the people that person is attracted to. Not sure why this concept is so difficult for some to grasp.

If you see it as gay that's your perception. You're mistakenly assuming that dildos are a gateway to cock. They can be but that doesn't mean that they are in all cases. It's rudimentary logic.
Quote by nicola
So, unless you're directing the action, or someone else is, you're better off with the butt plug.

Or using a dildo with sufficient flaring (they're not all the same).
Quote by bevaire
That can't possibly be safe... can it?

It's not but as others have said there are things that they can do to help mitigate. Always keep in mind that potential and real life sex are two entirely different things.
Don't really have a single favorite. The Liberator wedge and ramp are fun with the better half. I've enjoyed using the Magic Wand on previous partners but the current one doesn't care for vibrating toys. Enjoy using prostate massagers, butt plugs, silicone dildos, suction nipple toys and even some electrical toys on myself.

Want to try a sex swing, one of the Stronic toys and a fucking machine on the better half.

Guess my favorite sex toy is the better half.
I have taken it all off multiple times in the past. If my partner preferred it and was turned on by it then I'd do it regularly.

I just keep myself trimmed and make sure my balls are smooth.
Quote by SueBrasil
If a guy wants to give you a BJ, what will be your reaction?

Probably a bit of shock, nervousness and excitement. I'd do it with the right guy. He would have to be up for letting me give him one as well as other things.
Quote by DeliaStar05
Just wondering. My husband keeps looking for pill and different stuff on the internet to help him grow it or whatever. Are all men this obsessed with thier penis size?

In any group of people the individuals in that group will vary. Some men are happy with their penis size. Some are not. Some of the unhappy ones will obsess over doing something about it. Some will not.

I'm generally happy with mine but would I go larger if I could with no adverse consequences? Probably. Do I actively seek out enhancements? No. Again guys aren't all the same just was women aren't all the same and you'll find guys with varying opinions.

I've only had one partner where I did wish I was bigger and that was just because she was a bit loose on me. The fit with my current partner seems to be nearly perfect.
Quote by sexyeyes37
Just out of interest why are so many bisexual men into cross dressing?.

No idea. I'm bi and not into cross dressing. Like any other grouping of people we're not all identical. Cross dressing isn't exclusive to bi men either. Some people, regardless of orientation, enjoy it. Some do not.

Quote by sexi_virgin25
That is an interesting question, that I would like to see the response, but I got another interesting question for bisexual men. How come you guys won't admit to being gay instead of saying that you are bisexual? You would think that if a man that loves cock and men so much, he would be gay instead of messing around with someone he does not like at all.

Not interesting at all. It's a common misconception. Bi is bi. Gay is gay. They're two entirely different things. There's nothing to "admit".

Granted, some see bi as more acceptable and may use the label if they're worried about how they'll be perceived if they say they're gay. My own limited experience doesn't jive with that as I've found some gays to lack as much understanding as straights. Some are exploring their sexuality and may identify as eventuałly sorting out that they're gay but a subset of a group of people never fully represents the entire group no matter how you're grouping people.

It's pretty simple, really: If one is attracted only to the same sex then the person is gay. If the person is attracted to both sexes then the person is bi. That said I don't understand the fixation with labels that many have. There's a whole spectrum of sexuality out there and people can fluidly move throughout the spectrum whether it's something that you can comprehend or not.

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Well that's your friends. But generally speaking most bi men will admit to being gay later on in life. That's why they have long lasting trusting monogamous relationships with men, is because they have everything they need in a man.

"That's your friends" cuts both ways and applies to your arguments as well. The bi men you've known may not accurately represent all bi men yet you seem to just assume that they do. Again, bi is bi and gay is gay. If a given person identifies as bi and is actually gay then it's up to him to sort it out and doesn't mean that all bi men are like this. All you're doing is demonstrating your ignorance and prejudice.