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caramelvixxen
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 40
United States

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Ladies - would you tell a guy that he is a bad kisser? Also, considering this is not a connection with long term potential should I be honest (tactfully, of course) or use another reason to explain breaking it off? Help!
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Definitely think it is worth it for the peace of mind of not having to worry about accidents happening. However, listening to those commercials and side effects terrify me so I would never be comfortable on the pill (besides the fact that I've known many women who still get pregnant while on the pill!). After talking with my doctor to find an option without the risk of hormones that increase the chance of blood clots, stroke, or heart attack ( already scary enough without being made worse by family history of those things...yikes!!!) I was happy to settle on the iud which is the most effective. Getting used to it was a real bitch for me but after an uncomfortable few months, all is well and I dont even think about it (which was also important to me)
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Quote by justinebaby
do i get enough: i don't think you can get enough of kissing

kissing is everything.. basically if i person can't kiss, or isn't skilled they need to learn, because if the kissing is bad, the less enjoyable to sex is. IF it even goes that far!


definitely agree with this...if the kissing is bad, that is an instant mood killer for me.

i love kisses! need more of them... smile
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What’s the sexiest outfit a girl could wear to turn you on? Either something she wears at home or when out in public
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oh and to actually answer....almost daily (if i don't have someone to play with)...and when i do i usually need to cum 4 or 5 times...
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Quote by caressmedown


hahaha holy shit you go dude! biggrin


haha...he held back!! i think he would have gotten a higher score ;)
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Hot Tamale

You have an intellectual sexiness factor of 78!

You're hot! You've read a lot. You've done a lot, and there's a lot you'd like to try in the future. You've got a sharp, sexy mind, and few inhibitions to restrain you from exploring all the pleasure you can get. You have few hang-ups, and there's not much you don't know about sex. You're open-minded and able to enjoy things that would make a lesser person squeamish. You're an exceptional treat as a lover, appreciated greatly by those who know the differnce. You were probably bored with a few of the people you've been with in your past, feeling like you had to drag them along with you in the sexual adventures you want to have, and probably dumping them for the same reason. It takes a lot to stimulate you; you realize it's not just about bumping uglies. In the end there's gotta be a lot more to it. Still, there is always room for improvement. Before you can graduate into a true sexual genius, there are a few things you've got to learn, to explore, to think through, talk through, and fuck through. A good place to start is in taking a look at the few things you're still a little hesitant to try. Break down you're last few barriers and discover the outer sexual frontiers, and you'll become a master.
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I would buy him because we need to go hang out and get to know each other better....
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
I'm going to be honest here:

I don't like close-up shots of random dick. I especially don't like 20 pics or more of them at ever so slightly different angles.

If you are taking a full nude shot and happen to have a hot and hard body and a nice dick - I'm going to look.

Dick on its own is boring and irrelevant. I need to see who it's attached to.

And even then, if you don't have a good dick (or a good body), there's no need to show it to strange people on the internutz. Save it for when/if a girl asks to see it.

Saving it for the right occasion/person is probably the better way to go in general, even if you're a stud, but a naked beautiful body is always worth a look ~ just stay away from the sausage factory close-ups.


well said! it is important that the pic is full body and not just a close up. unless a cock is just ugly, i actually happen to love looking at cock...
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Quote by FtLMale
Karrine,

you do realize how this all shakes out...
He will get caught.
His wife will blame you.

and then it only gets worse, alot worse.

You could end up in court yourself.

Please be your own best friend and tell him it just ain't gonna happen.


a tough truth to hear...but good advice. thank you....
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Quote by MMonroe
So he's happy cheating on her, but is considering being bound to her for the rest of his life? Im assuming he's expecting her to remain loyal


i asked him how he would feel if she did the same...he could not answer...which I intepreted as meaning it would be a problem if she did...
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i am a sucker for a man in uniform...they tend to have good posture and walk/carry themselves with confidence. it doesn't hurt when you can clearly discern a strong physique under their clothing...plus all the ones I've met are such gentlemen in public and soooo wickedly aggressive behind closed doors. i love it!
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Quote by FtLMale


Do you think he is hoping that you will be his sexual outlet while his wife is kept in the dark?


It's more than hoping...I am his sexual outlet (and she's still his gf at this point)
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Quote by FtLMale


So many questions... Your friend will confide in you his deepest sexual thoughts yet is afraid to openly speak to his girlfriend...

That is the real issue... without honesty between them there is little hope they will find any happiness.



well said... i'm concerned by the same thing that he can confide in me about everything and anything but is afraid to really let her see who he is
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oh wow...what a tough situation! to be honest, i can't offer any advice as i can't imagine having to handle such a situation but I just wanted to respond to show you love and send you a hug!
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i prefer guys with bigger builds...definitely taller than me and i like a fit/athletic body. overall it is because i like the feeling of a man who is physically strong and can protect me. plus i love feeling the weight of his body when he's on top ;)
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in real life i can be painfully shy when it comes to approaching a guy. i'm horrible at reading signals and have no idea when a guy is interested or just being friendly. i love when a man is bold and confident enough to approach me.
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I have a dear friend whose girlfriend is on a different sexual wavelength. He loves sex...whenever, whereever, as often as possible, and he loves exploring and trying new things. She could care less about it and doesn't seem to enjoy it. He holds back from telling her about things he wants to do and feels like a perv because he's always the one initiating...

He's considering marriage and I feel like he's setting himself up for disaster because if it's like this now, it will only get worse once they are married.

What advice would you give him? Would you/Could you marry such a woman...?
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Quote by sleepyheadboy
Because we are men and we can.

If we had breasts there's no doubt we would be feeling them all the time as well.

Besides, it's COMPLICATED DOWN THERE. Lots of hanging, dangly bits! Things sometimes need freeing up or re-arranging!


haha...actually, that is when i do when i'm just sitting around...