Ladies - would you tell a guy that he is a bad kisser? Also, considering this is not a connection with long term potential should I be honest (tactfully, of course) or use another reason to explain breaking it off? Help!
rut ro...a kiss is a prelude to sex...terrible kisses.....terrible...sex...just...my thoughts..
The guy I am seeing now couldn't kiss for the life of him in the beginning!
I got drunk one day, and grabbed his face and looked into his eyes and said "Here baby, do it like this."
I never would have had the courage to say anything while I was sober. But it worked out for me in the end!
I've only kissed two blokes, and not very much, so I don't know what terrible kissing is (I really liked what they did, though!). But I was very afraid I was terrible at it.
And maybe the way they kiss isn't actually bad, but it's not the way I like it done.
So I like to think that if I didn't like the way somebody kissed, I would treat them the way I would like to be treated if I am awful at it - the way FelineFantasy did it (but maybe not drunk). Or to say, "I love it when... could you do that more?", but to do so kindly.
Ut incepit fidelis, sic permanet.
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Yes, then teach him by hours of practice. I love kisses.
I would talk to him about it. Some guys stick with what they know. What worked for one doesn't work for all. Tell him how you want kissed them show him. You might find he can be a great kisser. Communication is very important, especially if we want to grow romantically and sexually. Kissing for me is almost more important than sex.