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buttercup2u
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 58
United States
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Quote by TheSensualLady
Filet Mignon
Damn! Now, I want some Filet Mignon....and the pizza
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pizza...with mushrooms, spinach, garlic, tomatoes, zucchini, artichoke hearts, bell peppers and black olives.
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To me, its not so much what is being said, but the effect it has on my lover, and the overall situation.
Sometimes when making love, a little dirty talk is fun....it heats things up and can be quite inspiring. Though, sometimes, just the moaning and whispered "Oh yes!", "Like that!", or "OH BABY!" works wonders. I have also found it incredibly hot to try not to make any noise.
On the other hand, if its a hot fuck session, then it is absolutely required! Depending on the situation, and those involved, sometimes, the dirtier and louder the better. I have had lovers who love to hear me yelling about what they are doing, and I've had others who just waned it to be whispered to them how good they were making me feel. "Oh fuck baby I love the feel of your cock in my pussy!", "Fuck me harder baby!", or what the like.
Sometimes when making love, a little dirty talk is fun....it heats things up and can be quite inspiring. Though, sometimes, just the moaning and whispered "Oh yes!", "Like that!", or "OH BABY!" works wonders. I have also found it incredibly hot to try not to make any noise.
On the other hand, if its a hot fuck session, then it is absolutely required! Depending on the situation, and those involved, sometimes, the dirtier and louder the better. I have had lovers who love to hear me yelling about what they are doing, and I've had others who just waned it to be whispered to them how good they were making me feel. "Oh fuck baby I love the feel of your cock in my pussy!", "Fuck me harder baby!", or what the like.
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Outside the bedroom? One of the sexiest things a guy can do is to cook me dinner and and clean up afterwards. I had a bf years ago who bought crab legs and had the cook at a local restaurant/bar prepare them. He shelled them for me as we talked, all I had to do was eat....happily I complied....
That was our first date and it lasted 6 more years.
That was our first date and it lasted 6 more years.
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You know, except for the part of dorm life in college, I would have thought you were one of my ex bfs ....lol but...
You know, it might not be anything you have done, it may be the fact that you re dating her daughter, and that no man will ever be good enough for her.
As far as never being invited into the house, I have to say that as a teenager, my folks were so private, that I had very few friends who ever came into my house. In fact, I had my two best friends, and there was the family across the street, that was it. It had nothing to do with who our friends were, it was about who my parents were, or more precisely, my mom. There is nothing that can be done about it, you would just need to get over it and continue to be who you are or move on because her folks don't invite you in.
You know, it might not be anything you have done, it may be the fact that you re dating her daughter, and that no man will ever be good enough for her.
As far as never being invited into the house, I have to say that as a teenager, my folks were so private, that I had very few friends who ever came into my house. In fact, I had my two best friends, and there was the family across the street, that was it. It had nothing to do with who our friends were, it was about who my parents were, or more precisely, my mom. There is nothing that can be done about it, you would just need to get over it and continue to be who you are or move on because her folks don't invite you in.
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Quote by Tranquil
As long as it has four wheels, an engine that works and gets me from A to Z and all the stops between without fault . Then as the so says " I just don't care"
My thoughts exactly!
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So she lives on a farm?
HAHAHAHAHA! OMG!
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Definitely HOT! To me its like you got started making out, and the passion builds so quickly that you couldn't wait to have at it, so you just move the infringing article of clothing and have at it. Then the next round, is more controlled and you actually use the removal of the clothing as part of the foreplay...
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no...I can't see how that would be pleasant especially for a woman.
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I would probably wonder how drunk I was when I started making out with this "guy"! It would certainly throw a curve ball into the relationship....though aside from that, I can't say what I would do If it happens though, I will be sure to come back and let y'all know how I handled it....
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IMHO...a really long story should perhaps be written as a single piece and THEN as part of the editing process be made into 2 or more parts.. Other times, you might have a 'series" etc. that can be spread out, but each story/piece of the series should be 'stand alone" It really depends on what your message/story is about as to how your present it. This is just my humble opinion...your mileage may vary!!
I agree with you completely! Especially with each piece of the series being able to stand alone.
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Quote by Frank
An opportunity for one to revisit the previous parts again.
LOL, I have to do that sometimes...even if the next part comes out the next day!
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No you are not committed. The fact you talk day and night and never run out of things to talk about does not matter. Plenty of FRIENDS do that. You seem to have a lot in common with her and you both enjoy talking to each other. It also seems like you have a bit of a crush on her (but not only her if you talk to her about who you want to have sex with and it is not HER) . But that too does not make you "committed".
But there is an easy way to sort this all out, and asking US isn't the way.... ASK HER. ;)
Excellent advice, who are we to say the status of your relationship? It takes two to be committed. I also think that you worry too much about what others are saying about you two. Who cares what they think? They aren't living your life, you are. Talk to her, maybe she feels the same way about you, you won't know unless you talk to her. You don't have to confess your feelings about her, but you can ask her what she thinks about the rumor...
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That's why I think the story should be finished before the parts are submitted.
Just because the story is finished though, doesn't mean that it makes it through verification, or that you are able to get it submitted even. I have a friend whose computers have crashed and he lost all his work that was saved on his computer and he had to start out from scratch.
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I might get a bit annoyed, but heck, I have done it too. Not that I have meant to leave people hanging for so long, but it happens...life sometimes gets in the way...
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Sometimes little errors throw me totally off, then I have to back track and find where I left off before I can begin again...lol (but then again, as a kid, I would run down the hall and trip over some dust and end up rolling into one of the walls covered in carpet burns.) At least, I'm not as bad as my friend, who upon receiving a letter from a Marine recruiter, circled all his spelling and grammatical errors in red and sent it back to him.
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lol no i dnt especially wen profile says she's lesbian and wont add any man, also u ll find lot of lesbians here dnt really thnk der r tht many
One, took me a while to translate the text-speech.
Two, I think you'll find that the higher percentage of lesbians/gays here is not out of sorts as the straights on sites like this seem to be more accepting and are generally more polite and understanding, so it would draw a higher number.
Personally, I do trust the profile till proven wrong, I just don't trust the Avatar as many of us use uploaded pictures and rarely ourselves
I quite agree....I think that Lushies are very accepting of each other's differences, kinks, and preferences. In this day and age, why would anyone pretend to be someone they aren't?
I certainly don't feel the need to prove who or what I am to anyone, and if they need proof, I don't need them as a friend. Of course, when I go into a chat room, I am usually there to look at and post pictures, and maybe talk about the pictures themselves, or I am there to hang out with friends. Often times we will chat about ordinary stuff, like work, books, TV shows....just stuff...
Since I am not here to cyber with anyone, or pick anyone up and it really doesn't matter to me what a person's sexual orientation, or preference is, I often don't read profiles. I might glance at it, skimming through quickly if I am considering adding the as a friend, but generally, if I like you enough to make you a friend, then I like you as a person. The things that float your boat, are your business.
I am actually more inclined to read the profile of someone I don't get along with...trying to figure out why I don't get along with them....lol
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O'Brien: Damn it, man, what are you so hot and bothered about? Afraid she'll open her jacket and flash her titties at you? You couldn't handle that, could you?
Jenkins: I've seen enough titties in my time.
Moses: I haven't.
Fourth Chauffeur: Been a hundred years since I seen a good titty.
Moses: No such thing as a bad titty.
Jenkins: Goddamn it. There now. That's my point. The little bimbo hasn't been here an hour and all you hormone graveyards can talk about is nipples.
Moses: Didn't mention nipples.
Fourth Chauffeur: We was speaking of the titty as a whole.
My Chauffeur
Jenkins: I've seen enough titties in my time.
Moses: I haven't.
Fourth Chauffeur: Been a hundred years since I seen a good titty.
Moses: No such thing as a bad titty.
Jenkins: Goddamn it. There now. That's my point. The little bimbo hasn't been here an hour and all you hormone graveyards can talk about is nipples.
Moses: Didn't mention nipples.
Fourth Chauffeur: We was speaking of the titty as a whole.
My Chauffeur
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I tend to keep things I have edited from a story or poem, I find, like many others, that just because it doesn't work in that particular story, doesn't mean its a bad idea, just that it isn't the place for it.
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pre·var·i·cate \pri-ˈver-ə-ˌkāt, -ˈva-rə-\
intransitive verb
to avoid telling the truth by not directly answering a question
intransitive verb
to avoid telling the truth by not directly answering a question
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Quote by FrankQuote by buttercup2u
I think it depends on the sex....there have been times in my long past life, when I thought "I should have had dessert..." I kind of like to have dessert while having sex....a little chocolate sauce, some whipped cream...
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Sex is the dessert
Well, then I guess sometimes, I should have skipped dessert as well....
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Chat rooms are an excellent place to find people to chat with, hence the name...lol That would be your best bet.
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I think it depends on the sex....there have been times in my long past life, when I thought "I should have had dessert..." I kind of like to have dessert while having sex....a little chocolate sauce, some whipped cream...