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black1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 61
0 miles · England

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Quote by perrym
The reason I said single guys was the ,by yourself aspect. Guys with someone can always get help in the tight, hard to see places. I have a dad bod and use an electric beard trimmer,as I don't trust myself with sharp things around the jewels.


Ah right I get it now . You just need to take it slooooooooooooooow around the jewels and keep the skin taught as much as possible . A trimmer is possibly safer than a razor . I have the Philips One Blade system which has some very simple but effective body combs within some of the sets . I would recommend one of these and never been nicked when using it.
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I give compliments and receive compliments all the time. And why not? There are a lot of very good looking people about of all genders. Giving a compliment doesn't mean you want to jump into bed with them . Unless of course you want to take it further then that is another subject.
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I raised this topic last December . I avoided lips all night during a Christmas Eve party except for one crafty mare who got me on the lips .
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Parents. It was a night of embarrassment for them and giggles for us
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Body confidence can be an issue. When I was very much overweight I wasn't body confident and preferred covering up .Since I lost weight the opposite now applies.
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Quote by Bibby5545
It's honestly not as hard as it sounds lol


I Agree. You just need to take your time and keep your skin taught at all times,.

I just don't get the single bit as it implies married guys don't need to groom. If anything it's just as important as we have partners already.
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I live in the UK so terminology is a little different. I am guessing you are looking for what we call a suspender belt with metal clips .

You could look at UK Tights of which obviously is a UK site but ship all over the world . They do a very nice black 6 strap belt with metal clips . I am thinking about getting one of these for my OH as it would go very well with some of her retro outfits.
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I like the classical/ retro look myself The pencil type skirt/dress with the appropriate lingerie and stocking underneath . Pencil skirts are so underated IMO. for me they emphasis a ladies rear and show all the ridges of a suspender/garter belt that's worn underneath .
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Whilst not single I still shave myself . The only area my SO helps is with my back .

All you need to do is get a smaller portable mirror and a decent razor. I recommend the Philips One blade with the body combs. It can be used for both dry and wet shaving .
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There is perhaps one exception.

I do enjoy a long strip tease . We have done this for each other and she handcuffed me to a chair so I could not touch her .Very erotic and would recommend trying this on your partner .
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It doesn't have a specific name as far as I can see but in general comes under a "net" as a nylon fetish.
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I think you should explore these things yourself and find out what you are happy and comfortable with.
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Quote by shadowcat
I am a wife who has lost their libido.

Let me give you an insight into how i think.
OK SO. i get up, shit i look awful, got so much to do today, don't have 2 minutes to myself, wish i had time to shower, what shall i cook for dinner, need to do some housework,

Then it reaches 8am. I barely have time to think everyday let alone make sure i am freshly shaved, and ready at all times for sex.

I used to do kinky things for my husband as well but it got old. I got fed up with doing the same thing in the same order everytime.

My husband brought it up a while back and i HATED having my failings highlighted to me when i was already painfully aware of them

We have since made an effort to try and improve our relationship by going out once a month just for a pub lunch or cinema.

Instead of blaming her maybe look at yourself and see how you can help her.


Some good advise there . The going out bit can make a big difference .
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I hate to say this but there are elements in your statement that are ringing alarm bells with me . I think you perhaps need to find evidence of her playing away .
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I am just wondering "if you are submissive you are quiet" is bit of a myth ? Some subs I know on another forum are very vocal .
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I prefer being a Switch but my OH prefers being a Sub . Being dominant isn't in her ,so I do have to play the dominant role most of the time .
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Its like unwrapping a parcel . I do like to leave a bit on usually the stockings .
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I prefer a little something . It could also depend on your partners body confidence as well .
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Sometimes the person who has sadly passed away may have their own wishes as well. For example my mother did not want anyone wearing black at her funeral .
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We tend to use the term student these days to avoid underage references but yes as role players we do own a few of these type of outfits . One can be easily converted into a more secretary type look .
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It also depends on what one defines as a beard. I have stubble but some people call it a beard and even shaving companies . I keep it at its longest around 3mm but is shorter on the face being 2mm and 1mm. I carefully shave it using a Phillips One Blade using the 1,2 and 3 mm combs attached to the blade. Do I look sexy ? Just ask my admirers as I am never short of them!
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Quote by SarahFun
I am my mother's daughter. She always would prefer to be over-dressed and so do I. I may only be in my forties but I hate, hate, hate the casual look gone crazy. When I go out with a guy I dress up for the date and I expect him to do the same.


Quite right . In the UK you will be surprised if you ever went out on the town here , Well certainly on my patch anyway. You will see the lady partner who has probably spent hours in the bathroom meticulously paying attention to how she looks and then carefully selecting an outfit , often a dress. The guy on the other hand will pick up the closest pair of jeans to hand and the baggiest T shirt advertising some brand or other and the scruffiest pair of trainers or sneakers in your parlance.

Then the very same guy may just wonder why his OH has an interest in looking at me ! I think it just shows a lack of respect for your partner but that is just my opinion.

And don't get me going on about how some single guys dress !
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With being married "lust" isn't a word I would use or act out these days other than with my wife. However she accepts that because I am married it doesn't mean I go around with blinkers on. Therefore I do give and receive compliments to other women but never goes any further . Its the same for her of course as well.
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Yes as roleplayers , I can say my wife does like me in various uniforms . I can safely say that her favourites ,both being opposite sides of the "pond" are the US white Navy uniform and the British Fireman's outfit.
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For me I like a woman wearing a pencil skirt. It has that mystique about it.
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Also just to add. You need perhaps to examine your own relationship first. For a threesome your core relationship needs to be 100% solid and neither of you must have, or demonstrated in the past jealousy traits. If you are not sure I would personally avoid, as a threesome ,if your are not careful could damage your relationship. Another factor to consider is this other person ie the third party going to start developing feelings to either of you . Should this happen then again this could have negative consequences on your relationship. It sounds as though I am being negative about threesomes but it is not the case. The best way IMO is perhaps to look up a local swinging club and then take it from there. Here you will have a controlled environment and the option to just watch without any commitment . New couples are usually welcomed.

Good luck