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black1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 61
0 miles · England
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I never wear a tie these days , although I go out neatly dressed ( dapper) . If I have to wear a tie for example at a very formal event then I would go for the Windsor or half Windsor . Both these knots can hide the top button being left unfastened, allowing one to breath!
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There is nothing wrong with having a person of the opposite sex as a platonic friend . It best to introduce him to your SO at some stage , to make sure he doesn't get the wrong idea . I have plenty of friends who are the opposite sex of which many of the have befriended my SO but I have no intention of turning these friendships into something else .
However if you are developing feelings or as the above poster stated about Emotional Affairs , then you need to think again on what you want . This need may indicate something lacking in your own relationship and perhaps it is something you need to discuss with your SO . That way you can put things right if things have gotten a little stale . Often after kids are born some relationships at some time or other may get a little stale from time to time and just need that flame reigniting.
However if you are developing feelings or as the above poster stated about Emotional Affairs , then you need to think again on what you want . This need may indicate something lacking in your own relationship and perhaps it is something you need to discuss with your SO . That way you can put things right if things have gotten a little stale . Often after kids are born some relationships at some time or other may get a little stale from time to time and just need that flame reigniting.
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Quote by SarahFun
This is a really good question. I am 39 and recently divorced. While I never dressed specifically to please my ex, in my new status as a single mother who wants to look good I have begun re-wardrobing myself. I want to look myself, but sparkling rather than frumpy, but it is a struggle. I suspect I belong in a niche market to which only limited attention is paid by those who design, make, and sell women's clothes
There is an old notion about dressing to your age . I would ignore that and dress to your body and dress to what you feel confident in wearing .If I listened to what the media says I should wear then, it wouldn't be denims. Yet surprising enough I get lots of compliments about wearing slim denims .
Just stay relaxed about the "rules" and you will find plenty of choice.
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Quote by SarahFun
I agree with Meagananne 100%. I work in a professional job and cringe when I see a guy dressed as if he has just come off a construction site. An office is not the place for such clothes, neither is a date for that matter. She is also quite right about female dressing, too. One of the great privileges about being female is the clothes we can wear, and I adore being feminine.
As a guy I very much agree. I have seen couples on a Saturday night whereby the woman has spent probably an hour or so in getting ready and finding a pretty outfit to wear. The guy on the other hand grabs a creased T shirt with some advertising logo and wears the same jeans he's probably worn all week . He will add to that with the scruffiest pair of trainers/sneakers her can find. I also see many singles dressed this way and then they may wonder why they are still single !
I tend to respect my partner, and if she is wearing a dress , I will wear a shirt ,tailored jacket( blazer or sports) , trousers ( chinos or newish denims) and brown shoes ( black is too formal ) .TBH it doesn't require a massive amount of effort either .
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Quote by Magical_felix
18, you should have gotten laid by 18.
You look like you might be approaching 30... Do not tell women you are a virgin. I mean I would be weirded out if a woman approaching 30 told me she was a virgin and I would have second thoughts. It is much weirder the other way around. They probably think you'll get obsessed and fall in love after one night and that is terrifying to people.
I kind of agree. But I think he is in a catch 22 situation. If he doesn't let on the when it comes to the crunch he will get found out . I can still remember my first time which was when I was just under 18 and how clumsy and nervous I was . I think there is also a shock /surprise element of seeing a mature lady naked for the first time which adds to the overwhelming situation . Its far different than looking at pictures or naked women on a screen .
If I was in his shoes I would be tempted to get some paid sex , just to get some experience rather than mess up with someone he really likes later.
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Quote by shadowcat
Today i had one of "those" super rare moments. You know the one, where your stomach falls through the floor and the entirety of your body tingles, your pussy is instantly wet and your nipples like bullets.
We were sat in traffic and the van driver next to us just triggered it. I had nothing but the quickest glimpse.
Anybody else know what i mean?
Funny you should say that. I think someone had one of those moments with me a month back . I was in a car in queuing traffic and she was in a car in queuing traffic facing the other way. She just stared at me for what seemed around a minute . She hadn't noticed that the traffic in front of her had moved so she got blasted by a horn from behind from a rather irate male driver, to get her moving on. A funny experience for me as I have never had that before in a car. Ages wise I reckon I was easy 20 years on her.
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Quote by Meagananne1986
This one is hard to answer because I think men in general would prefer to see a woman in a dress or skirt and blouse than in pants. I usually wear a skirt and blouse to work and on dates. Occasionally I will wear dresses, but my experience (at least with my boyfriends and husband) is that men prefer skirts and blouses to dresses. There are occasions where dresses might be more appropriate so have worn both evening gowns (with thigh-high slits) or a little black dress. I'm on the conservative side, my dresses and skirts are knee-length or just above for the most part. Again, I have a few mini skirts (no micro skirts though) and summer dresses but I only wear them on appropriate occasions. I'm definite not an exhibitionist in the pure sense of the term, but I do love dressing like a traditional woman and most men that I know approve. A lot of my peers and coworkers, however, strongly disagree with me. I tend to emphasize my femininity while they try to de-emphasize theirs.
That gets a thumbs up from me. I prefer smartly dressed women and married to one .
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Quote by CharlotteRusse1
I love reading stories about FMM threesomes. My partner wouldn’t go for it. He is very sexually conservative.
Very similar but mine is FFM . My OH is also very sexually conservative as you put it .So there is no chance . I have more chance of winning the Lottery .