Yes, rectum, correct. To clarify, I'm looking for things to eat, that cause interesting effects when passing through a clean rectum. Im not seeking pain necessarily, nor looking for after play by insertion. I'm looking for things people would normally do, like restore balance in the rectum by eating yogurt and veggies. I suppose this would need to be done in advance, so its waiting in the colon and ready to enter rectum first thing after the cleansing. Or, if the pre sex cleansing included fasting and colon cleansing, then it would be consumed to break the fast.
I threw in the jalapeño suggestion as I'm sure anyone who eats peppers and has anal sex knows the result. But what else could be, or is done, by others? Humus maybe? What is a good practice here? I'm looking for anything interesting that others are doing.
For instance, i once ate something at a restaurant that caused fairly intense, but quite enjoyable (when tickled) itching just inside the anus. My googling around turned up generalized causes with no sure fire ingredients or recepes.
This is the sort of thing I'm looking for.
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Practice getting to the edge of cumming, but then do something to distract yourself, and do not cum. Doing this over and over will build up your resistance and skill. Also, there are herbs that can be taken as tea that will also help. Schizandrae is one for instance. Go to a Chinese herbalist and ask for a formula. Practice is key though. No herb will do all the work for you.
By delaying your orgasm over and over, when you finally do allow it, the result will naturally be more powerful. Especially if you can work on getting to climax, but not cumming, over a period of several days.
By delaying your orgasm over and over, when you finally do allow it, the result will naturally be more powerful. Especially if you can work on getting to climax, but not cumming, over a period of several days.
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Firstly, he needs to have the desire to do something other than just get a blowjob. If he has other desires, he needs to begin to work on longevity.
As dpw said, the key is edging, meaning getting him close to cumming, but not allowing him to cum. As he starts to get close to cumming, you or he needs to distract him. Stop sucking, and change positions, or perhaps squeeze the tip of his penis, do something to prevent him from cumming. After a while he will begin to build up resistance.
If he enjoys sex, resistance is essential. A master can learn to balance at the very edge of cumming for a very long time. This is the experience of bliss.
As dpw said, the key is edging, meaning getting him close to cumming, but not allowing him to cum. As he starts to get close to cumming, you or he needs to distract him. Stop sucking, and change positions, or perhaps squeeze the tip of his penis, do something to prevent him from cumming. After a while he will begin to build up resistance.
If he enjoys sex, resistance is essential. A master can learn to balance at the very edge of cumming for a very long time. This is the experience of bliss.
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I like the condom suggestion. One of the deturrents to doing this is the front is off limits after. I'm always amazed to see girls allowing it in porn, and feel its suggesting bad advice to people who may not know better. It even made me wonder if it might be OK.
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A couple times I visited my wife at the dental office where she worked as a dental assistant. The others were out to lunch. Shed lock the front door and pull me down to the floor. The whole team could have had that door unlocked in under a minute. Wed be all hot and steamy screwing away on the floor in the reception area! I couldn't believe she'd be up for that... what do I know!
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A lot of interlocking matters of degree here... A couple drinks v.s. smashed. Pick up v.s. partner. Taking advantage v.s. mutual exploring. And how far beyond the boundary?
These should absolutely be defined before suggesting any hard rules. I doubt anyone's condoning , or taking advantage of a person that can't think. We need to explore every one of these matters of degree before giving advice to a casual enquirer.
I hope the guy who could have explored pushing the boundaries with his wife is still around to read this, rather than going off and repressing this possibly mutual desire for the next 20 years. I truly believe we humans would still be in caves if it weren't for a bit of natural encouragement.
These should absolutely be defined before suggesting any hard rules. I doubt anyone's condoning , or taking advantage of a person that can't think. We need to explore every one of these matters of degree before giving advice to a casual enquirer.
I hope the guy who could have explored pushing the boundaries with his wife is still around to read this, rather than going off and repressing this possibly mutual desire for the next 20 years. I truly believe we humans would still be in caves if it weren't for a bit of natural encouragement.
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I'm noticing more and more on mainstream type porn sites a lot of girls taking it anal and then straight - repeatedly, and with the same instrument. That can't possibly be safe... can it? Or are these starlets also pumped up on antibiotics... like so many other things these days?
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What about for people who are shy? Do they just not get to procreate?
I for one had my boundaries pushed while tipsy - no regrets whatsoever. I couldn't get there on my own. I'm really glad I had those drinks and found a leader, or it probably would have never happened for me.
I think one key to this question is wanting it. Your too shy to talk about it, but you want it. You can't ask for it, but you want it. Add to that a couple drinks or a smoke and a suggestive partner, and off to the races! Anything wrong with that?
Gotta be others here that moved their sex life with the help of something other than water!! Anyone?
I for one had my boundaries pushed while tipsy - no regrets whatsoever. I couldn't get there on my own. I'm really glad I had those drinks and found a leader, or it probably would have never happened for me.
I think one key to this question is wanting it. Your too shy to talk about it, but you want it. You can't ask for it, but you want it. Add to that a couple drinks or a smoke and a suggestive partner, and off to the races! Anything wrong with that?
Gotta be others here that moved their sex life with the help of something other than water!! Anyone?
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I've eaten oysters for years, sushi too - and I cant really say they do a whole lot. However, clams may be another thing altogether! I think the very reason I joined lushstories yesterday is due to the sexual explosion I've experienced the last 5 days since sharing ten pounds of clams with a friend.
Since the clams, I've bought new toys (one of which I'm not certain just yet my wife will be willing to participate with), watched so much porn that my wife is wondering what is so intriguing (so now we have made plans to watch some together, for the first time in our 20 years together), came probably 20 times (a months worth), and of course got it on that night and the next morning (the morning after session is unusual, and i think she's still a bit sore). So I wonder... did my friend slip something into that batch of clams? And if so... I want more!!
Recipe:
10 lbs clams in shells
1 bulb of garlic, not just one clove - chopped fairly fine
some onion also chopped - same proportion as the garlic
1/2 stick butter
1 bottle white wine
In a big pot with a cover, melt enough butter to fry the garlic and onion until union starts getting soft - then add the rest of the butter, and when its all melted, add the clams and pour over a cup or so of wine, and cover it, bringing it up to a low simmer - then every time you open the pot, add some more wine, until the clams are all open and ready
Also, be sure to make some garlic bread to dip in the sauce - that might be the best part of the meal - so use plenty of wine - the sauce is the best part
Since the clams, I've bought new toys (one of which I'm not certain just yet my wife will be willing to participate with), watched so much porn that my wife is wondering what is so intriguing (so now we have made plans to watch some together, for the first time in our 20 years together), came probably 20 times (a months worth), and of course got it on that night and the next morning (the morning after session is unusual, and i think she's still a bit sore). So I wonder... did my friend slip something into that batch of clams? And if so... I want more!!
Recipe:
10 lbs clams in shells
1 bulb of garlic, not just one clove - chopped fairly fine
some onion also chopped - same proportion as the garlic
1/2 stick butter
1 bottle white wine
In a big pot with a cover, melt enough butter to fry the garlic and onion until union starts getting soft - then add the rest of the butter, and when its all melted, add the clams and pour over a cup or so of wine, and cover it, bringing it up to a low simmer - then every time you open the pot, add some more wine, until the clams are all open and ready
Also, be sure to make some garlic bread to dip in the sauce - that might be the best part of the meal - so use plenty of wine - the sauce is the best part
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On another thread we were talking about how drinking affects what a person is willing to do sexually.
I'm not convinced that if my lover does things after drinking that she wouldn't do sober, that she shouldn't be doing them, or shouldn't be drinking, because really she isn't into it.
I'm not convinced that if my lover does things after drinking that she wouldn't do sober, that she shouldn't be doing them, or shouldn't be drinking, because really she isn't into it.
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The mechanics of fantasy are probably more important than the drinking... its been a while since I've been around you all.. so I've forgotten about some of the issues related to actually doing the things you dream about, and the fact that there is a relationship in the balance here, and taking one's actions beyond existing boundaries could very well end it badly. So if I was AlwaysDreaming I'd pay close attention to those who are advising the safe and sane ways to explore the limits, and perhaps gradually bring dreams to fruition.
So I wouldn't advise drinking and then doing things that could end your relationship. I guess the question for AlwaysDreaming is: Does you wife think, while sober, that if she were to have sex with someone while you watched, that would be the end of your relationship?
So I wouldn't advise drinking and then doing things that could end your relationship. I guess the question for AlwaysDreaming is: Does you wife think, while sober, that if she were to have sex with someone while you watched, that would be the end of your relationship?
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I completely disagree that wanting to drink first is a sign she's not into it. My wife loves to have a few drinks and some weed before sex with me, and that doesn't mean she doesn't really dig it. She Really digs it! When we have sober sex, its a nice loving sharing king of thing, and we enjoy that. When we have sex after partying - its an all night no holds barred porn fiesta. We go way, way, beyond anything she allows when sober. But the fact that we do it both ways, regularly, repeatedly, and with no remorse, and in fact taking it further by increments, tells me your wife may just want a few drinks before getting wild. Its not a sure sign she is not into it.
I'd go slowly, by increments, just like submissivemom72 said. And... let her have a few drinks.
I'd go slowly, by increments, just like submissivemom72 said. And... let her have a few drinks.