People who write about Thai bar girls often make the mistake of assuming they are all cut from the same cloth. Whilst most Thai bar girls hail from the poorer northeastern region of the country known as Issan, a large minority hail from elsewhere, and the reasons girls find themselves working in a bar are quite diverse. Some are driven by family debt; some are driven by the chronic illness of a relative and the cost of tr...

I spend a long break each winter in the Thai town of Hua Hin Two years ago after spending a few hours messing around on the computer, I went for a stroll. It was late afternoon and I had no agenda to find a girl, just to stretch my legs before finding a convivial bar for a sundowner. I was walking down a street called Poonsuk Road, which separates the temple complex from the nightlife area. Originally a stream that was co...

What had I expected it to be like to deflower a girl?I expected that the girl would be nervous, apprehensive, scared... I expected to encounter a modest amount of resistance from her hymen..I expected the initial penetration to cause the girl a few moments of pain or discomfort..I expected to see a small amount of blood..I expected the experiance to be otherwise similar to regular sex..Wan had already surprised me with he...

The girl's name was Wan, and as she busied herself in the shower, I turned off the lights and turned on the TV, turned back the cover on the side I wanted her to sleep on, stripped, and put on a towel.I had just finished putting away my clothes when she emerged from the shower, neatly wrapped in a towel, her long dark brown hair loosely cascading down her back. She shivered at the aircon, and I raised the temperature a co...

I've been spending the winter in Thailand for the past ten years, and also drop by when business takes me to China.I have never married; partly because I am very independent, partly because I can't be bossed around, partly because I hate lying to women, and partly because I will never be committed to a single person.Over the years, I have had sex with around two hundred Thai girls, at least 90% of whom were in their twent...