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Stevie_D
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 38
United States

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Quote by Stevie_D
I would like to know what most people feel women mean when they state that they only date black men? Do you really think it has to do with anything other than the stereotype that Black men all have large cocks?


Just to clarify I am not asking because I have had women say this to me or anything like that I was just curious what people think.
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I would like to know what most people feel women mean when they state that they only date black men? Do you really think it has to do with anything other than the stereotype that Black men all have large cocks?
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I actually turned down a job in porn. If I did decide to do porn I would do multiple women one after the other. I would also do a wide variety of positions especially ones that are best for showing off size. I would never do anal cause I have done it once and it did not go well.
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Quote by Green_Man


Just a quick observation. You appear to be uncircumcised in the pic of you at 18 but in other pics of you when not erect it appears to be circumcised.


It looks that way because first at 18 I was not fully developed and also in the other pics I was holding back my skin so I look circumcised.
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Quote by trinket


Sooooo why is it so important that I or anyone believes you? Blind Freddy can see they are photoshopped and of different people.


Who said it was so important for you to believe me. If anyone wanted to see they could see me in person. I have nothing to hide and lord knows it is hard enough to hide anyway.
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Quote by trinket
You know, that dick of yours just looks different in every one of your pics. And so does your body. Come on man... how big is it really? 3”? ...5”?


It is 12 inches long when soft. The pics I have shown are from different times as I said. I have up a pic from 18yo, from when I was taken and it was fully hard and when it was soft.
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Quote by Ls63563
Is it genetics, was your father, or your grandfathers hugely hung? If so maybe you can talk to them about how they found a woman that could handle their manhood. Regardless, I think reduction surgery is your best option!


I don't think they are as big. I have talked to them and tried some of their advice but most women won't even try after seeing mine hanging.
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Quote by Liz


Do you have any medical issues? Having a dick that large, particularly when erect, must have consequences on your health. The draining of blood from your vital organs into the penile tissue and the associated spike in blood pressure and heart rate in order for your body to acheive this are obvious examples.

Also, just out of interest, in the picture on your profile of you 'fully hard' are you leaning back to counteract the weight of your enormous protruding erection?


I have found it very beneficial to be very fit and I think that has kept me from ending up in any medical issues. It also helps me hold it up but for the most part it hangs down.
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Quote by perrym
Just curious, do you ever fellate yourself?


No I don't engage in self fellatio. Not really into that.
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Quote by leggielibby
Just wondering if you let the girls see you first, you know casual nudity/exposure as you get to know them or is it KERPOW as you produce it for the first time?



We usually talk about sex first and we don't usually see each other before and then when we are ready for sex that is when she sees and she will usually refuse to let me touch her.
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That is funny cause I kinda wish it was photoshop but it is not. I would have been happy being the size I was when I was just 18 yo.
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That is the funny thing. I love thicker women. I know that the more a guy has in the pants then the thicker the woman should be. Thing is I have had thick women see me and be afraid to take me.
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I am sorry to say it but I feel there is a double standard when it comes to women and size and men and size. I feel that when women are bigger up in the chest or even bigger in the ass and they show it off they don't get thought of as bragging. When a guy talks about his size at all whether cause it is something good or bad he is automatically seen as bragging. I mostly bring it up because I feel for most bigger guys it is a tightrope they walk because they might want to warn their date but they also don't want to seem like they are all about their dick (and yes I know there are guys who are all about that and not for a helpful reason). What do you women think?
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Quote by angelacandy1
I dont think anyone really measures with a tape....having said that I find that anything more than about 7 or 8 inches is not for me. The discomfort is not worth the trouble.


Oh sad I hope your feelings change about that one.
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Quote by Buz
I know a guy who had penis reduction surgery. He never had a regular girlfriend before and rarely dated. He has a regular girlfriend now.



I had thought of that but I am afraid if the surgery is botched and I come out in a worse situation.
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Please understand that I am not bragging and on the contrary what some might feel is a gift has been a lot to adjust to. I am pretty big both soft and hard when it comes to my penis size. I have had it checked and it is normally functioning but just on the big side. I am 6' 4" tall but still 12 inches when I walk around and it is soft is not really normal. When I get with a woman and mind you we have talked for a time about having sex and all and then we get ready and she takes off her clothes and I take off my shirt and then drop my pants and after the shocked look I hear "that is not going into my pussy". I have had many women that I have dated end our relationship this way. How do I go about this different so I can ease the woman into understanding that I know with what I have I have to be gentle and go very slow. I also know that I will end up having to use a lot of lube and have at the ready. What can I do? (Please serious responses.)
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I know that the saying always is bigger is better. I would like to know though is that actually true? Is there a limit that most women have? I know it is probably somewhat different for certain women but what is your upper limit that you might not want to try anymore?