I am sorry to say it but I feel there is a double standard when it comes to women and size and men and size. I feel that when women are bigger up in the chest or even bigger in the ass and they show it off they don't get thought of as bragging. When a guy talks about his size at all whether cause it is something good or bad he is automatically seen as bragging. I mostly bring it up because I feel for most bigger guys it is a tightrope they walk because they might want to warn their date but they also don't want to seem like they are all about their dick (and yes I know there are guys who are all about that and not for a helpful reason). What do you women think?
I don't think there's a double standard at all. What do you mean by women "showing it off"? If someone has big boobs, it's kinda obvious. Whereas if someone has a big dick, it's usually not obvious. I don't really understand the question either. You say you only bring up your size to warn women. Women don't need to warn guys. It's two whole different things you're talking about.
People always think things, and you may not like all of it. Nothing you can do about that. Maybe just focus on your happiness and how to achieve it. If this is making you as insecure as it seems, there is nothing wrong with looking into surgery to help.
By right of reply from a mere male.
If you grope a lady's derriere, with out asking, they scream .
If a lady gropes a guy's derriere and he complains, he gets told to 'Live With It'.
If you've ever shopped for swimwear, you know that women don't have many options other than to 'show it off', while guys have all kinds of baggy options to hide the goods. What about THAT double standard? And we don't brag about our physical assets like guys do. In most clothes, we don't have much choice about showing off our endowments, unless we wear a burka!
It has been my experience that when a guy brags about his size, it is just official notification that his brain is in the head of his penis instead of the head on his shoulders, and no matter how big your penis is, your brain can't be very big at that point.
This type of chat would only take place at a sex party not in everyday life.
Or maybe if you have a close female friend and you talk about your cock size because I highly doubt this would come up at a first date.
Either whip it out under the table or don't.
It's just a really stupid topic.
