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Stephen_Q
Over 90 days ago
Heteroflexible Male, 53
0 miles · Brisbane
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Advanced Wordsmith
Being yourself is a good start but you will need some other skills to fit in with the lads.
I would suggest study up on the latest sports news and all the latest results. Most guys love talking sports and offering opinions on how the teams and players are going. If you can offer an opinion or two on this, even if it is what you read and not your own, they will respect that.
Action movies are also a good topic of conversation. Celebrity gossip is not.
It is okay to say nothing if you have nothing to say or if sport is on the TV.
Now if you are wearing something that shows off your breasts, bum or legs, expect the boys to look. We can't help it, it just the way we are.
Flirt a little, it's good for their ego and enjoy it when they flirt back, it's good for your ego!
Have fun!
Hope this helps!
I would suggest study up on the latest sports news and all the latest results. Most guys love talking sports and offering opinions on how the teams and players are going. If you can offer an opinion or two on this, even if it is what you read and not your own, they will respect that.
Action movies are also a good topic of conversation. Celebrity gossip is not.
It is okay to say nothing if you have nothing to say or if sport is on the TV.
Now if you are wearing something that shows off your breasts, bum or legs, expect the boys to look. We can't help it, it just the way we are.
Flirt a little, it's good for their ego and enjoy it when they flirt back, it's good for your ego!
Have fun!
Hope this helps!
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by miketabcdefg
Your trust in us to be honest in the poll is somewhat endearing. Now, I'm trying to sell the Sydney Harbour Bridge. Legit. Wanna buy it?
I was kinda hoping for a bit of honesty but hey it's a free world. And if you can throw in Opera House, you got yourself a deal!
Advanced Wordsmith
We have all had our celebrity encounters at one time or another but have you ever thought that some one famous might just be reading stories, posting in forums or hanging in the chat rooms here on Lush. Here's an anonymous poll to see if there is any celebrities hanging out here. To clarify being famous means fame in the real world not the on-line world.
Internationally Famous? Almost everyone in the world has heard your name
Nationally Famous? Most people in your country know your name but you are not know outside your country
Locally Famous? Lots of people in your state or city know your name but outside your area you are mostly unknown
I've had my 15 minutes of fame? They say we all get 15 mins of fame in our lives, have you had yours??
Never had any fame? Well not everyone gets their chance at fame.
Please be honest, I suspect we may not get any response to the first 3 but what if we did???
IF you are famous, I am not trying to out you to the world, any response to the poll is anonymous and just a bit of curious fun!
If you want to leave you stories of your 15 mins of fame, then feel to share!
Internationally Famous? Almost everyone in the world has heard your name
Nationally Famous? Most people in your country know your name but you are not know outside your country
Locally Famous? Lots of people in your state or city know your name but outside your area you are mostly unknown
I've had my 15 minutes of fame? They say we all get 15 mins of fame in our lives, have you had yours??
Never had any fame? Well not everyone gets their chance at fame.
Please be honest, I suspect we may not get any response to the first 3 but what if we did???
IF you are famous, I am not trying to out you to the world, any response to the poll is anonymous and just a bit of curious fun!
If you want to leave you stories of your 15 mins of fame, then feel to share!
Advanced Wordsmith
When my wife found out about my history going to swingers party she said she could accept that it was in the past but it was not something she was interested in. I broached the subject several more times and her response did not change. We did end up in a hot tub with some swinger friends of mine and she did join in with some light touching of the others but it didn't go any further.
You could try some skinny dipping with friends or some adult games to get her naked with other people but I would suspect in the end it won't work. If you force her into it which I've seen, she might just say fuck it, go off and fuck some random guy and leave you high and dry with your relationship in tatters.
If your not into swinging and sharing your partner it ain't going to change. Don't fuck up your marriage for it!
You could try some skinny dipping with friends or some adult games to get her naked with other people but I would suspect in the end it won't work. If you force her into it which I've seen, she might just say fuck it, go off and fuck some random guy and leave you high and dry with your relationship in tatters.
If your not into swinging and sharing your partner it ain't going to change. Don't fuck up your marriage for it!
Advanced Wordsmith
I'm wondering how you feel about being called a slut. In everyday society it seems to be a derogatory term but some ladies seem to embrace it. It does seem to be a double standard between men and women where a man who sleeps with a lot of people is a stud while a women is called a slut. How do you feel about this word?
Advanced Wordsmith
It does depend on the guy, as some guys like to have virgins as a special notch in the bed head so to speak. After they have popped your cherry they will most likely move on to a more experienced lover or their next conquest.
Others see it as an opportunity to relive the experience of the first time through the eyes of their virgin partner. To then teach her the art of making love and help her to become an amazing lover. To work with a blank canvas and help her to to become a perfect sexual partner for him.
In reality, 99% of guys in your age bracket would fall into the first category.
My advice, if you want your first time to be special, don't tell them until the last possible moment, it takes the challenge aspect out of the equation and the guys will think he is special because you have chosen him and will hopefully drop into the second category.
All the best!
Others see it as an opportunity to relive the experience of the first time through the eyes of their virgin partner. To then teach her the art of making love and help her to become an amazing lover. To work with a blank canvas and help her to to become a perfect sexual partner for him.
In reality, 99% of guys in your age bracket would fall into the first category.
My advice, if you want your first time to be special, don't tell them until the last possible moment, it takes the challenge aspect out of the equation and the guys will think he is special because you have chosen him and will hopefully drop into the second category.
All the best!
Advanced Wordsmith
Ladies,
My online girlfriend is being bothered by a pest here on lush. It started off very innocent, exchanging friendly messages and chats without any sexual conversation or innuendo. He suddenly changed and started sending her very graphic pics of bondage and domination and telling he wants to dominate her because she liked some stories on this topic.
After she told him not send these and that she did not like him sending these messages, he has now professed his love for her. Luckily she has not spoken with him outside lush and he has only minimal details on where she is. She has blocked him on here but is this enough? Is there anything else she should do?
How do you deal with the psycho guys who become a serial pest on here?
My online girlfriend is being bothered by a pest here on lush. It started off very innocent, exchanging friendly messages and chats without any sexual conversation or innuendo. He suddenly changed and started sending her very graphic pics of bondage and domination and telling he wants to dominate her because she liked some stories on this topic.
After she told him not send these and that she did not like him sending these messages, he has now professed his love for her. Luckily she has not spoken with him outside lush and he has only minimal details on where she is. She has blocked him on here but is this enough? Is there anything else she should do?
How do you deal with the psycho guys who become a serial pest on here?
Advanced Wordsmith
Hi ladies,
You are lying in bed with your partner. They are feeling horny but you are not. They want to masturbate to relieve the tension. What do you do?
A. Help them?
B. Hold them as they do the work, maybe whisper in their ear?
C. Ignore them and roll over and go to sleep?
D. Kick them out of the bed and tell them to sleep on the couch.
E. Anything else???
You are lying in bed with your partner. They are feeling horny but you are not. They want to masturbate to relieve the tension. What do you do?
A. Help them?
B. Hold them as they do the work, maybe whisper in their ear?
C. Ignore them and roll over and go to sleep?
D. Kick them out of the bed and tell them to sleep on the couch.
E. Anything else???
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by Nikki703
Which hole are you calling "the other" hole? It makes a big difference in how it feels!
I guess what I'm trying to find out does it feel better to have your man in your pussy and use an anal vibrator or is it better to have the vibrator in the pussy and your man in your arse? Which is more enjoyable?
