Ladies,
My online girlfriend is being bothered by a pest here on lush. It started off very innocent, exchanging friendly messages and chats without any sexual conversation or innuendo. He suddenly changed and started sending her very graphic pics of bondage and domination and telling he wants to dominate her because she liked some stories on this topic.
After she told him not send these and that she did not like him sending these messages, he has now professed his love for her. Luckily she has not spoken with him outside lush and he has only minimal details on where she is. She has blocked him on here but is this enough? Is there anything else she should do?
How do you deal with the psycho guys who become a serial pest on here?
If she has blocked him, has not given him info on where she lives or pics of herself, then he can no longer contact her. If she feels this is not enough and feels threatened by him, she should report him to the powers to be at Lush.
But I would bet if he can no longer contact her, he will just go away.
The block should be enough. A hard block prevents all contact and the person can't even see you as being online. If for some reason the block doesn't work, use the "contact us " function and Lush admin will probably look into it for you.
Blocking is a wonderful thing. Once you do a hard block they can't even see when you're online, in chat rooms or email you.
That should take care of everything for your friend.
xo
Whenever I've had a pest problem I call in "Rentokil Pest Control"
Thanks for all the great replies lovely ladies of lush! I make sure she blocks him! Hopefully he won't try again as a new profile!