I met Ben in a chat room in 1995. He was witty, interesting, and a great listener. We talked four or five times a week for almost a year. Finally, we started talking on the phone every few weeks but nothing sexual since he was married also. As time went on he said he hated having sex with his wife; he called her a Jewish Princess. I was the opposite. I loved my husband and loved sex with him. But Ben was starting to creep...