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MyNameIsDita
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 154
Canada

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Viewpoint from a black woman:

It's all just a big old myth. I don't have sex with color, it means nothing to me. It's the guy inside the skin that matters. I've been with black guys and I've been with white guys, probably roughly equally. Married a white guy. The black guys I've been with haven't been any bigger than the white guys and quite frankly, I've found that the white guys I was with were all far more attentive and generous in bed than the black guys. But that's just my experience.
(I'm sure there are black guys who are legitimately talented in bed aside from the perceived, "he's black so he must have a big cock and can fuck like nobody's business." And having a big cock doesn't mean you know how to use it!)

Like it's been said, I think a lot of it is the exoticism/ nature of it that sparks such sentiments about black guys.
No! Way too dangerous! Besides, why would you want to divide your attention and not be able to focus 100% on your orgasm? If you really can't wait, pull over to the side and enjoy.
I remember when they made that ruling. Lots of girls walked through downtown Toronto topless. But then the novelty wore off and you don't really see anybody doing it anymore. I wouldn't do it myself though.

And for the record, Canada is not the land of ice and snow that Americans seem to think it is. I live in the Toronto area and every year I laugh at my New York friends and family who get hit with harder winters than we do.
I agree that silicone based lubes are best. They last a long time and don't get tacky like water based do.

But DO NOT use silicone based lubes with silicone toys. The reason silicone is so slippery is because nothing bonds to it except silicone. It will cause your silicone toys to breakdown and become sticky. Talking from experience here.

But silicone lube with glass toys... oh boy!
I agree, leave it in. Even though it's not something I'd ever do in reality, it does make for a hot fantasy!
No thanks. I've had more than one experience where I've been shot in the eye. Stings like a bitch! In my mouth is fine and anywhere on my body, just keep it away from my face!
Clean shaven for me. Sometimes a little stubble is sexy and on the right face a goatee is hot.
Future Sex/LoveSounds - Justin Timberlake

Talk about a song that turns me into an instant dirty, bad girl. Damn.
I think it's very unfair to post such a broad statement that the majority of women don't like sex. I don't think the women on Lush are the minority at all. If anything, it's the other way around.

Maybe their wives just don't want to have sex with them.

Sex in a long-term relationship starts way before the bedroom. How are these men treating their wives? Is she working full-time, then has to come home to cook, clean and look after kids while he comes home, puts his feet up and watches the game with a cold beer? I sure as hell wouldn't feel at all amorous towards a guy like that. I don't know any woman who can bear the full brunt of domestic life on her own, work at a job and then be a sex goddess in the bedroom.

Even my most prudish friend loves sex - with the right guy. Read: A guy who treats her right.
Quote by WellMadeMale


Dude can tell. Some guys can and won't say anything. Other guys think THEY ROCKED the Casbah.



Ha ha! Rock the Casbah! Love that!

I have to confess that I've faked orgasms. I was towards the end of a relationship and I just wasn't into it anymore, you know at that point before you've definitively made up your mind that this relationship is done. It was when I was much younger and wasn't as skilled at "helping myself along" or guiding him to help me along.

Also during a casual fling when I figured out too late that things just weren't going to work out and I just wanted him to get the hell off me!

And sorry, not all dudes can tell. Guys who are in tune with their woman can, others who are self-centered and only looking out for themselves, don't have a clue.