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MrAvg
Over 90 days ago
Fluid Male, 69
United States

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Whitney I can remember everything but names, she does seem like a nice woman when I read her bio.
I can pictures the Avatar but not the name, she enjoyed him very much, older men have a lot to offer than some might think.
What you mentioned I recall in the bio, now secure in life she has fond memories and future memories.

Age is only a state of mind, it is the body that feels the aches and pain.

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Mr. Average you do remember well. The member is a close friend. They had almost ten great years together. There was real love between them, which anyone could see.

He treated her better than anyone could imagine and let me have all the freedom she needed. He left her financial secure not rich, but very secure.

I know she misses him, but she promised him that she would continue to have a fun life after he was gone and so it seems she is.
Not on my profile, but if I "know" somebody I will talk about deeper past experiences.
What I like to share is stories that in some cases have a personal connection.

Shyless is there anything you would not share to a known close friend?

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I've seen a lot of profiles from you lads that say, "Ask me anything".

This is something I've wondered about for a while now, and I'd be grateful to know why, if any of you would like to share. Thank you.
First off it is a total turn off, second I sure do not want to go to jail for someones fetish.

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I have been thinking about getting slapped (hard) while having sex and the thought really turns me on. I am not sure that i would willingly admit it to anyoue though.

How would you react if a girl asked you to hit her during sex?
There is a member here who did marry a customer, he was older and now pass on, I am terrible with names.
She seems well adjusted and I believe she was in love with him, he was wealthy as I recall.

Why would you not be able to fall in love with a more mature man?
Some times we are more open in sprit and how we look at life as compared to younger guys.
I am six years older than my beloved wife, falling apart as well


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Being fairly new to Lush this question must have been discussed before but I could not find it.

I ran into a friend a few days ago, that we used to put on Sex Parties for a wide group of guys in our teen years. We went different ways and had not seen each other for more than 10 years.

She came to the house and with the wine flowing we shared our stories. She was not surprised that I became an Escort and the I still have a few clients.

My friend could not believe I fell in love with a client and he with me. You know he is much older than I am and not in good health.

She is sure that this relationship is very uncommon. Not sure she was convinced.

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I bought my wife a Lelo Viv2 and she loves it, we use it all the time.
A excellent answer... I like it.

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Before I even got to your pussy, I'd have you breathless with anticipation from teasing my lips and tongue around every erogenous zone I'd discovered, then up your inner thighs with maddening deliberation. Then, and only then, would I delight your clit, tugging her gently from beneath her tender hood, tickle and suck your outer labia, bathe your inner labia with my talented tongue, and thrust it as deeply inside you as it could reach, wandering back to your clit with deft timing, while watching your eyes with a devilish smile, for inspiration and guidance.

Me? I just rub myself silly! :-)
What might you suggest that many men do not already practice when pleasuring ladies?
I hope my question was not felt as a attack, I genuinely would like your thoughts and input for improvement.
For me I learned I loved oral very early in life and have tried to improve my skills since then.
Most of what was put in the original OP I already do or have done based on what the partner desired.
There are a lot of women, I like and want their input as to what they like, If I have not tried it I will

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every woman is different . Just love this pat advice .No wonder men have no idea what they are doing
Not big enough but not willing to change, no complaints.

I guess I am the exception, I wonder about physical characteristics of their vulvas!
None have been a deal breaker but the appearance is often a motivator for oral sex, though I have never turned one down.


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I think it's fair to say that most girls are more hopeful about the physical characteristics of their date's penises than their dates are about the physical characteristics of their vulvas!
Both, mostly real life, some are variations of reality and fantasy.

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or are they fantasies
If you still lust for the person after 18 months it is most likely you are in love.

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Is there some "switch" that flips? I'm less interested in what causes it to happen than in how you know it, or realize it.
Thank you for your thoughtful reply

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Ok
It seems to over simplify what it takes to please women orally.
I never ask a women in the past what they like, I know what most women like and follow their Que.
All women are different in what they want like many men are, but they all tend to have some common ground.

Once you have mastered oral with a women you tend to intuitively know what to do based on sound and movement.
Not all instruments play the same, but you can always start and tune them as you go along.


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But then doesn't that contradict everything you've said? Guess it's hard to accept your advice when it's entirely untrue, that's all.

I have always enjoyed giving and make it an important part of any love making, with prior partners.
My wife of thirty only gets off from oral so I am always exploring new things to do when we have our dates.
She has a few times had vaginal with me and only one other time prior to me, good oral comes close.
I have never been a big fan of tattoo but if that is what you like, by all means enjoy.
A natural body is what I prefer but it is not a deal breaker.
Yes, I have asked for 30 years on my birthday and it has yet to happen..

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A question posted in the girls forum sparked this particularly unintellectual question from me..

Is waking up to a blow job truly something every guy likes, wishes for? Or is it a little bit creepy, (insert your feelings about it here! 'or is it...') her 'starting' on you whilst your asleep?
That seems to be a deeply personal thing. I am in love with my wife. but there were times I was not.
For us marriage was a evolution that is now the in love have been now for some time in a big comfort zone.

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But I'm in a constant debate with myself on what love is ..in the first place.
The short answer is yes... there are factors. I was engaged to be married but I was not ready at age 25, shr broke it off. I understood why.
She and I lived together for a couple of year before the break up, it was a lust relationship, she wanted a family, I wanted to keep playing.
We tried to stay friends after she moved out, but she did not want the same type of relationship I wanted so I one point I had to break contact.
So as Chuck mentioned earlier it depends on interpretation of love, I still am in love with the memories of the time we spent together, but not in love with her as a person.

I went through two plus years of getting over her having much heartache and a whole lot of interesting experiences till my wife domesticated me.
She is a person I care about but, I am in love with my wife and I desire her and do not need any further being in love, she is plenty.
I had this happen while on a cruise last month, hot sex with my wife, had at least two of what you mentioned in a row, turned sixty one this year.
My wife was very surprised and not sure I was okay, what ever it was, it felt great.

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I've had the "O" without ejaculation ... kinda like stuff made a wrong turn and missed the exit door. I just can't wrap my brain around "how" you would ejaculate w/o something forcing it out...that internal / spasming occurance that is the "O" moment.
I have had a orgasm without ejaculating, and once recall when I suffered PE, having what you are describing.

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I sometimes find that if I'm distracted just before I finish then I cum but I don't get an orgasm. Just wondering if anyone else has had the same experience?
=d> Sounds like my wife talking....

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What ya ain't got in your dick, get in your tongue! A guy with a magical tongue can keep any girl happy! I've had some of my best orgasms with guys who only had a 5" cock!
My wife is not like most prior partners who enjoy everything you mentioned, I always use most of what you mentioned.
I love the way you describe the desires women have for the technics, most women love them.

My beloved if she had her wish wants me to get on it and stay on it with little interplay.
But I often play more than she likes at the time but the added teasing end with far deeper orgasms.
Due to many factors I have become very good at oral and love it very much.


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Always start sensual.. start by gently kissing the outside of her pussy…
How come I keep missing these beaches, though my wife is not helpful.


Penis appearance was mention as one motivation for giving a guys a blow job.
I wonder what do women like it the look of a man's penis, is is size, cut, uncut, girth, etc.
What is a good looking, and or suckable penis for women who like giving blowjobs?
Looking down and wondering, I think it looks good, I have never had any complains and most have returned for more.
It begs the question, what do women like in the look of a penis?

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I love sucking cock as long as the cock looks good smile We all know there are some ugly ass cocks out there (am I right ladies?) lol
My Urologist told me some time ago it is good to relief yourself as often as you feel the need.
It is good for prostrate health, use it or lose it.