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Over 90 days ago
Fluid Male, 69
United States

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Meggsy I can only have passion for women over the years of my life they seem to kindle that part of me.
In the past with guys it is fun and satisfying but the sex is more like sports, great fun and enjoyable but no emotional connection.
My passion now is only for my wife.

Quote by Meggsy
Not being married and part of a very close long standing FWB group I can and do experience both, depending on the situation at the time.
Generally the passion is with my girl friend with whom I live.
I have talked to her about it and show passion to her which sometimes is returned, it could be change of life.
Sex is great, but when you put passion with that it is mind blowing, I never leave her wanting, ever and always try to show love and affection.
She shows affection, but maybe after 30 years the passion is harder for her, hormones etc.
I appreciate the feedback and I will keep trying. Thanks!

Quote by DoubleDs
I agree with Bethany...but if you are trying that...maybe she is only going thru the motions to keep you happy. Maybe her interest in sex has diminished but she is still having it to keep you happy, then you are lucky. There are lots of men who can't even get that from their spouse.

Have you talked with her about it? I say this a lot, but I believe it's true...Communication is key for a healthy relationship and great sex.

Me personally, I am very passionate person, so it all goes hand and hand.
I try new things as well, but feel I am the only one putting in the effort.
The sex is still great but the emotional connection is not quite what it use to be in bed, but it is else where.

Quote by BethanyFrasier
Passion is mostly excitement, and after years of sex with the same person, the excitement inevitably diminishes unless you do things to keep it fresh. I do things to keep it fresh.
"First, as I'm straight,". I know your profile states it clearly, sorry if you are offended.
I was just pointing out bi men can be as good as gay men at giving blowjobs.
I like a blowjob with a person using enthusiasm, and I understand you like all men have PRIORITIES as to what they like.


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First, as I'm straight, I neither know nor care what bi men do or don't. (To each their own but that ain't for me.) Next, I STILL stand by my contention that it's always best to ASK THE SPECIFIC INDIVIDUAL whether male OR female as we are ALLL unique individuals and "one size" DEFINITELY DOES NOT fit all! Someguys LOVE deep throat....I don't. Others EXPECT constant eye contact...I DON'T (I'd prefer that she focus her attention on my dick when she's sucking it. The constant eye contact is fine IF we're getting it on in missionary but other than that...not a priority for me.) BUT, that's just my point each and every one of us has our own "priorities" and preferences.
I do not mind a short bush, trimmed well, shaved is nice, to much hair is annoying.
Do not forget bisexual men, we enjoy both, and the best blowjob I got was from my wife.
Most of the male partners were better than average at giving a blowjob knowing, sensing or asking what is liked by the recipient.

I have lesbian friends and one who is bi and they think women do best with other women, though some men come close.
Men seem to work the same ways in my experience.

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In ask... the GALS? OK. I know they are on the giving end (except with gays) BUT... if the intent is to PLEASE it would seem appropriate to.. ask the guys. Which should give you a few questions to ask YOUR GUY! (Would you rather I do, this and/or this?)
I do not go into detail but let friends know my wife and I have weekly if not more dates a week I encourage them to do the same.
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It's the same with any guy of any race ... If you enjoy it you go back smile


amen...
I was wondering if any of the married women still enjoy or want more passion when making love to their partner?

Do you enjoy the sex more when there is more kissing and over all passion before during and after the sex?
Friends of mine tell me their wives simply want sex and are less passionate now than when they first met and made love.
I enjoy more passion when my wife of 30 years and I make love, but it is now more about the sex than before.

Do couples lose passion or is it just part of the evolution of a marriage. The sex is still great, but not the same.
Ask what he likes and show enthusiasm when pleasuring him with a lot of attention to the whole package balls and all.
The glands and frem, long sucking and licking of the underside, that is just me, all men like women are different.
Enthusiasm seems to be something all men like, the desire to be sucked.
Make love to his penis, and enjoy the reward.

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What advice would you give?
I enjoy that my wife stays on it till I am drained then she pulls off and leaves it in the toilet.
The sound of the volume is hot to me, if she does not want to swallow that is fine, as long as she finishes.
I always enjoy new things.

Quote by YoungWidow
I have never met a man who was not interested in something new. Could I be wrong?
Suction Enthusiasm

Quote by doctorlove
To give the best blowjob, what advice could you give that might help other?
#allbreastsmatter I like them all, never saw a woman's breast I did not like, well in real contact, I always enjoyed my partners breasts.

What you can see online is seldom representative of the general average people, based on several studies.
I like most women, my wife is a petite woman of small size, but prior to her my first fiance was my height and larger build do to body structure.
She had curves but was not your classic Rubenesque woman to I also enjoy the company of several times.
I am is much into their brain as their bodies, but obese women do not attract me, I have to be honest.

The question of where men in general draw the line or what keens their eye with a woman depends on the man.
I stay pretty fit, as does my wife, good diet and staying busy. Women have to know men have different standards as do women.

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Ok, I'm not asking whether you like thin or fat- i just want to know, what are you guys' opinion on women's body shape? there is so much pressure inthe media etc these days for girls to live up to impossible standards and apparently anything over a size twelve is a 'Plus size'- am i the only one who thinks this is ridiculous??!!!
do you have a preference? Or do you just like all women's bodies regardless?
Walking in, I like to feel the water, cooler the better.
I like it, sometimes I see something new to try on my wife, oral technics, the porn is not nearly as fun as in real life.
As a bi man I had a lesbian couple as friends, they invited me to bed one time and I did learn a lot, that was 35 years ago, still fond memories.
I think one was bisexual since she seem to enjoy having a guy watch and we even fooled around a little hot times for sure.
Perfect well said

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Personally I don't think anyone makes a conscious decision to be gay, nobody turns into a gay person!

I do agree, most gay men I have met are really good looking and take much more care in their appearance. Saying that, I also know a lot of straight men who really take care of their appearance and are incredibly good looking - I have also met some very unattractive gay men, isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder?
It use to be the last thing at night and the first thing in the morning, it does relive stress and you sleep better.
Well I do.
No, I do not understand the desire or attraction, but if it floats your boat go for it.
It is a toss up, at age 20 I was far more open once I had conquered my PE problem I kind of went on a binge of sex with many partners, this was the 1970 doing photography.
At age 40 it was good too same quantity but working to keep food on the table and the kids left married sex less since kids were consuming time, other things became more intense back then.
Now at age 60+ the libido killers have moved out (kids) work less now only 3-4 days a week and lover is more willing to try new things than before, more time for each other.
We have a firm Sunday date and get together a couple times a week, health issues creep up on you that cause lower quantity but the quality is better bonding connection.
When younger I enjoyed both mature and teens women, now I prefer only mature women.
An older guy like myself with a teen girl even creeps me out, I can live with my fond memories.
I have tried steal long ago, sizing does matter.
Rubber band ones not long ago, not much benefit even when using more than one.
I have been reading and the slip type that you can set the constriction are the best.
They look like a loop with a center bead or round adjustment tool.
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Ah, much better than I feared. "Forced" can mean so many things, and most of them imply non-consensual. Glad it was harmless.

Yeah, swimming in the buff is pretty AOK in my book. The wife & I have gone to nude beaches on a couple of continents, and we've always found them to be quite pleasant.


My wife will not go to a nude beach with me, I have not been to one in 40 years, back then I was built better.
We were in St. Martin a couple weeks ago and I asked her to go, she said no way, she is very insecure about her looks as she got more mature.
Though she will skinny dip but then it is only me there, except one time our oldest son age 25 stopped by to say hello.

LOL.. I had to walk him back in the house as mom hugged close to the side of the pool, I through out a robe after sending son for some beers, now she keeps a robe out there.
My wife does not seem to care, unless I shave and she asks me why I did, I said I thought she would like it.
Any more I just use my beard shaver and leave 1/8 of an inch, which she seems to like.
She has shaved for me a few times as a gift but complains it itches to much even when she shaved daily for a week.

Do any of the ladies ever trim their men or shave them?
Hooked on swimming nude, I love the free feeling when swimming naked.
I mentioned forced since back then there were no swim suits allowed in the pool in the old days.
Now I enjoy my own pool nude and never wear a swim suit, our house is very private.

Nothing better than cutting and trimming the lawn in my sweats short and just stripping by the pool and jump in.
My wife often joins me on hot summer nights like yesterday.. ;)

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I'm sure there's a story behind this statement, but I'm not sure I want to hear it...
For several years as a older teen early 20s I suffered from PE, no girls complained, I was so introverted I was not having sex.
The ones that did have sex with me seem to enjoy me, size also was a concern.
A mature woman who was divorced worked with me to improve my stamina while we enjoy some wild sex, she found a older guy.
We both knew that was her plan, but she liked me and we had fun while she looked.

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Do you have worries / concerns about orgasms ... Size issues ... Lack of protection ... HIS climax ... Etc.??
I'm sure we all have concerns / anxieties about sex from time to time. Share them here if you will.???
I'm sure guys have issues also, so let it out if you want?
I liked her whole package first time we met, still in love with her.
Only thing I wish would be more comfortable with her body, it turns me on.
Like Chuck's wife she is smart and beautiful and understanding.