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MinaMiranda
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 48
United Kingdom

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Cheers for the clarification.

Yes, interesting hypotheses, you may be on to something, but it depends on the woman I think. Speaking for myself I have had periods of need when it feels like any man will do - but I'm bipolar and this typically happens when I'm manic and ALWAYS leads to deep regret later, so I don't see it as a natural tendency for me. In fact, it's rather dangerous sad

As for a woman initiating sex for the attention aspect. Guilty as charged, but in mitigation this has only happened when a relationship isn't going well.
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How about, "Discovered here by their wives...and no longer allowed to play"?


Love it.
A mouthful of a fizzy drink straight from the fridge. Warning...some guys can't take this...at all.
I honestly don't care, I'm busy looking at his Guitar Solo face thinking "I did that!"
I confess I'm not really sure what your question is...please could you clarify?
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Yesterday I pulled a very bad April fools joke on a friend here.
A bad April fools joke about an April fools joke.
I told him that my boyfriend had made an April fools joke of saying "I love you." And that I was so furious and heartbroken and I really didn't know what to do.

What would you do, if someone you really like told you they loved you and when you're about to let your hearts content out or when you have let your hearts content out, they told you it was just an April fools joke?



I would remove their heart with a spoon and feed it to my dog.
I was in a sexless relationship for seven years and it nearly destroyed me. But I was still in love with the guy and hoped some miracle would occur. It never did. We broke up - not because of this, but because I found out he had initiated an affair with a 21 year old.

There is no pain on earth quite like lying next to someone you adore with your heart and soul, and yet know they will not touch you.

It's only years later after talking to him he admitted he found my sexual preferences a turn-off. But at the time, he refused to discuss it.

I still harbour a great deal of resentment towards him for this.

It does not just happen to men.
I'd like to think I had the creative flexibility to do so, but, I write mostly from experience (Disclaimer: that's not to say I have done everything I write about, but what I write about I do relate to at least, on some level) So anyone who paid me to write something diametrically opposed to my turn-ons is going to end up with a shitty story they couldn't sell anyway.
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"I have many leather-bound books and my apartment smells of rich mahogany"


You'd be out on the basis of my preference for cocks I can actually accommodate. Sorry, we don't even get to the verification stage!
It's circumstantial.

For the most part, no. I would never want to cause another woman that pain, and I have a religious consideration about it too. But on the one occasion I did so, he was my first love, the one I had been in love with since school and still a bit now, I suppose. It was very clear his wife and he were divorcing, I'd had various encounters with him over the years before he got married, we're talking like 20 years of history. But he didn't want me for anything more than sex, and married someone else.

I find I have a great ability to attract men already in relationships. I find it so hard to respect them, let alone fancy them, unless I have a great deal of proof that the relationship is dead in the water. And then I disrespect them anyway for not ending it when they are so clearly not meant to be there! Poor guys, you can't win.

But having said that, I will always hear the case before I make the judgement.
I did it with a barbie doll once...

Action Man would have been better.
I know that people lie for many reasons and not all of them demonic but I have an absolute hard limit on lies. I have ditched friends because of what might seem like insignificant lies. It may seem like an overreaction, but I have huge, huge trust issues. If I catch you lying, you're out of my life. Simple as.
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I can't even remember the name of the book, but when I was a kid there was a book in my school's Library about a girl who was orphaned, her title and fortune stripped away but came back to claim it all. "The Wolves of...... Hall". (If anyone know what the Hell I'm talking about please let me know ;) )

"The Forest of Mirrors" scene in the C.S Lewis's Magician's Nephew.

Several China-centric Books - Wild Swans, The Woman Warrior and The of Nanking

And just becaise I'm a food brat - one copy of this book lives on my nightstand and the other in my kitchen
"In the Devil's Garden - A sinful History of Forbidden Food"


Sounds like "The Wolves of Willoughby Chase" by Joan Aiken?

I think my richest reading experience ever - you know the kind where you are holed up somewhere comfortable and nothing in the world around you matters as much as the novel you hold in your hands - has to be Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte.

I have loved so many books, and learned so much from stories.

About A Boy (Nick Hornby) has a passage within it that once got me out of a very dark place, which I will always be grateful for. I love Nick Hornby - he gets accused of a certain bleakness but he really does tell it like it is, he's not selling you a happy ending but not one devoid of hope either. He puts the ultimate meaning of the story entirely in your hands. I don't know many authors who can do that.
I do like DILLIGAF* though ... that one definitely has its uses.















*Do I Look Like I Give A Fuck?
What about you hun? How are you doing? That's such a lot of pain and strife to be experiencing at a young age. I hope you have some good support for yourself...and so many young people are busy hating their parents and here you are showing us all how much you love them with your concern. I like you.

There are big and critical health problems in my family too, your post has a lot of things I recognise. My parents used to be like giddy teenagers and now they live separate lives apart from the necessary caretaking of my mother. But I don't think their love has gone, I think it's just slid out of view for both them because so much else is going on. I think it has changed but not gone.

But I guess you are worried about whether your own illness might affect the way people feel about you? Suppose the only answer to that is...if you knew a loving, charming, genuine person who had a lot of medical issues, would you reject their friendship on that basis? I suspect you already know the answer to this one. But there's no denying some people will run from this. Equally there are others who will not. I have a chronic condition myself, one of the worst things about it is it prevents me from going out and being in social situations. I guess we have to work harder to have the same opportunities others enjoy. Isolation is a real danger for us, fight it however you can.
Very true, in fact, it might make sense for them to create a new lexicon altogether for the digital side of human expression. These words (Words? Acronyms? Symbols?) are not designed to be spoken, the word Dictionary does come from the latin for "to say"...
REVENGE PLAN?

Locate friend with xbox and copy of Call of Duty.
Set up profile on friends machine.
Secretly become Call of Duty supremo (I recommend the Nazi Zombie level highly)
This may take some time.

THEN

Friend your bloke on the system
Invite him to join a match with you.
Hang around the spawn drop and PK his ass repeatedly.
Enough player kills will raise his frustration level to a point where he will froth at the mouth and possibly destroy the Xbox

I've seen it happen. It's not pretty.dCpeB1sxNxrQChXV
Just did a quick profile snoop to see what age you were and don't panic, a lot of the same people you're watching get together now will be splitting up all around you in a few years.

I'm jealous actually. I'm a bit older so my only hope is the divorcee pool. Damaged and bitter people to look forward to. Hooray!
This situation has fail written all over it whatever turns out to be true, sadly.

Guy has GF and is lying = FAIL
Guy has shitty friends who have no qualms about about seriously fucking with both of you = FAIL
Guy has to be drunk in order to meet you = FAIL
Guy waits days before giving you an explanation = FAIL
I have been something of a grammar Nazi for years. Sometimes nothing depresses me more than to see our beautiful, expressive language misused for the sake of brevity and fashion. But recently I have come around to another way of thinking: language does and will change in accordance with our culture - it always has and it always will, and, like it or not, that's natural. What we might judge as a high standard of english today would horrify the speakers and writers of yesteryear. I hate textspeak, and web acronyms confuse me, but I am guilty of using them, and for me - that qualifies them to be included in the dictionary.
Tantric Yoga techniques are supposed to be good for prolonging orgasm - never tried it meself, but, google 'tantric orgasm' and see what you find?
Awww why has no-one replied to this yet? Ok I'll bite. Some women do, some women don't. In all honesty I'm more about guys of my own build, but a friend of mine loves having someone larger to squeeze.
Edit note: I had two nice pictures of Sharon Tate and Christian bale to go here but for some reason they won't post.
I don't have any specific pointers, I'm sorry, but the hallmark of a good story is when you are disappointed that it has ended. So it's a combination of skilful writing, nice mental images and an interesting plot, I suppose. I find a lot of erotica very 'mechanical', kind of like, "he did this, she did this, they did this (sideways), and then they came" which ain't so great. I like it when authors make a real attempt to paint a picture in words.
females: flash your cleavage
males: flash your wallet



It's been a long time since I last attempted to seduce anyone, but what seems to work is slightly prolonged eyecontact and smiling and when conversation happens -making them the centre of the world...but only for a little while...and then slinking off mysteriously.