Hey everyone, so whenever i masturbate it only feels like a "half orgasm". It feels really really good for a few seconds, and then it just STOPS and i feel dissapointed.
I use a hitachi magic wand on my clit to masturbate.
Has anyone else ever felt like this? Can you ladies give me some tips on how to increase my orgasm feeling?
thanks so much
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Half orgasm?
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How are you doing it? Are you going straight to the clit with the wand?
When I masturbated regularly I would sometimes take a half hour or more without even making contact with the clit until far into the act.
It's all about the tease and the build up for me. Running the vibrator over my body teasing the "hot spots" without actually making contact until I am about to go crazy with the need to cum.
Then I would finally use it on my clit and maybe pinch my nipples at the time too and orgasms would be extremely intense.
From what I understand about the magic wand, (and we want to get one), it is a very very effective vibrator and sure if you just go right to the clit you will cum and you will probably cum pretty quickly.
But, it wont be that powerful, hand clenching, knee shaking, wake the neighbor orgasm that a longer drawn out teasing self lovemaking session will provide and may only seem like a half orgasm.
Take a while before you go for the clit and I think you will find it much more pleasurable.
When I masturbated regularly I would sometimes take a half hour or more without even making contact with the clit until far into the act.
It's all about the tease and the build up for me. Running the vibrator over my body teasing the "hot spots" without actually making contact until I am about to go crazy with the need to cum.
Then I would finally use it on my clit and maybe pinch my nipples at the time too and orgasms would be extremely intense.
From what I understand about the magic wand, (and we want to get one), it is a very very effective vibrator and sure if you just go right to the clit you will cum and you will probably cum pretty quickly.
But, it wont be that powerful, hand clenching, knee shaking, wake the neighbor orgasm that a longer drawn out teasing self lovemaking session will provide and may only seem like a half orgasm.
Take a while before you go for the clit and I think you will find it much more pleasurable.
Active Ink Slinger
I can make myself cum very quickly but usually if I do, it will not be the intense mind blowing orgasm you are looking for. When time permits, I will usually tease my body by rubbing my nipples, fingering my pussy or using a toy, especially my g-spot vibe, many times I will also use anal beads in conjunction with playing with my pussy as I love to have my ass stimulated. I will bring myself to the brink of cumming then slow down and each time I do this, I can feel the pleasure getting more intense, especially with the combination of stimulating my g-spot and clit together. And when I finally let myself go, the orgasm is very intense, sometimes a series of multiples with each one getting more intense culminating in a mindblowing finale. This may take anywhere from 15min to an hour. But it is well worth the wait!!!
Hope this helps.
Hope this helps.
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I think that in order to help you better improve your technique, a video would be helpful, in order to elicit the better suggestions from our gallery of experts.
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I think that in order to help you better improve your technique, a video would be helpful, in order to elicit the better suggestions from our gallery of experts.
i find that i have better orgasms when i fantasize about beating certain male members on Lush with a very large stick
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I think that in order to help you better improve your technique, a video would be helpful, in order to elicit the better suggestions from our gallery of experts.
i find that i have better orgasms when i fantasize about beating certain male members on Lush with a very large stick
HAHA!! That Might Make An Interesting Thread, Which Lush Member Would You Most Like To Cane? JK................................ Well Maybe!!
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I think that in order to help you better improve your technique, a video would be helpful, in order to elicit the better suggestions from our gallery of experts.
i find that i have better orgasms when i fantasize about beating certain male members on Lush with a very large stick
HAHA!! That Might Make An Interesting Thread, Which Lush Member Would You Most Like To Cane? JK................................ Well Maybe!!
Would caning be an act of shared erotism or would it be punishment?
I have never had any problem with the level of orgasm, I cum easily and frequently. You do understand at least from this woman's prospective not all orgasms are made of the same cloth.
Some are mini, some are just orgasms and some can not be defined. I generally allow all the time needed and I will have a series of "O's" mini and then something stronger and then maybe another mini and some more just orgasms before the first of the days major climax. If I have the time and can spend the entire afternoon pleasuring myself I can stay in one level or another of orgasm most of the afternoon.
If you are continue to pleasure yourself you may find that there are other and exciting levels of orgasms to be found.
The intensity you create may equate to a man giving you oral sex vis a vis a woman. Men the Poor Dears need to be taught that we have many other sexual need to be fulfilled, before we are ready for an all out attack on our Clitoris.
With less intensity and more time you should be able to find just the kind of Orgasms you want. "BUT IF IT DOES DAMAGE TO YOUR MIND DON'T BLAME YOU LUSH SISTERS"
Some are mini, some are just orgasms and some can not be defined. I generally allow all the time needed and I will have a series of "O's" mini and then something stronger and then maybe another mini and some more just orgasms before the first of the days major climax. If I have the time and can spend the entire afternoon pleasuring myself I can stay in one level or another of orgasm most of the afternoon.
If you are continue to pleasure yourself you may find that there are other and exciting levels of orgasms to be found.
The intensity you create may equate to a man giving you oral sex vis a vis a woman. Men the Poor Dears need to be taught that we have many other sexual need to be fulfilled, before we are ready for an all out attack on our Clitoris.
With less intensity and more time you should be able to find just the kind of Orgasms you want. "BUT IF IT DOES DAMAGE TO YOUR MIND DON'T BLAME YOU LUSH SISTERS"
That is why I prefer my own fingers to a toy. With my hands it just feels so much more sensuous and I spend a lot of time touching my whole body, not just my pussy. Then when the orgasm starts to come I concentrate both hands down there and I often can keep the orgasm going. If I am in a hurry a silver bullet on my clit works but its more like a temporary orgasm until I can do it right.
Alpha Blonde
The hitachi magic wand is like a 5-pound club with a massive vibrating head. I know a lot of women rave about this thing, but I think it's more popular because people feel like they can buy it and store it in their house without having to admit that it's being used as a sex toy. I see nothing erotic about it and when I've held it buzzing in my hand, I think the size of it will just create an overall buzz that doesn't allow much room for variation or hitting 'just the right spot'. That might be why you're at that middle-grade orgasm level, instead of being able to hit those peaks.
Most people will know from my posts that I'm a bit of a sex toy slut, and if I could only have one, there is no doubt the Lelo Soraya would come out as the best thing I've ever bought. It's the first time I've used a toy where I can cum in literally seconds, and actually keep myself at that high orgasmic pitch for as long as I want. Most of the time, I have to pull it away because it's just such an over the top screaming orgasm that the sensations just become too intense after a while. There are many settings you can use on this and it's waterproof... plus the clit arm is very bendable so you can use it just as a clit toy or the combination of the dual-armed internal/external vibrator. And it's rechargeable like an ipod, so no need to worry about wasting batteries.
I think maybe you just need a new toy that gives you more options and hits the right spots....
Most people will know from my posts that I'm a bit of a sex toy slut, and if I could only have one, there is no doubt the Lelo Soraya would come out as the best thing I've ever bought. It's the first time I've used a toy where I can cum in literally seconds, and actually keep myself at that high orgasmic pitch for as long as I want. Most of the time, I have to pull it away because it's just such an over the top screaming orgasm that the sensations just become too intense after a while. There are many settings you can use on this and it's waterproof... plus the clit arm is very bendable so you can use it just as a clit toy or the combination of the dual-armed internal/external vibrator. And it's rechargeable like an ipod, so no need to worry about wasting batteries.
I think maybe you just need a new toy that gives you more options and hits the right spots....
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The hitachi magic wand is like a 5-pound club with a massive vibrating head. I know a lot of women rave about this thing, but I think it's more popular because people feel like they can buy it and store it in their house without having to admit that it's being used as a sex toy. I see nothing erotic about it and when I've held it buzzing in my hand, I think the size of it will just create an overall buzz that doesn't allow much room for variation or hitting 'just the right spot'. That might be why you're at that middle-grade orgasm level, instead of being able to hit those peaks.
Most people will know from my posts that I'm a bit of a sex toy slut, and if I could only have one, there is no doubt the Lelo Soraya would come out as the best thing I've ever bought. It's the first time I've used a toy where I can cum in literally seconds, and actually keep myself at that high orgasmic pitch for as long as I want. Most of the time, I have to pull it away because it's just such an over the top screaming orgasm that the sensations just become too intense after a while. There are many settings you can use on this and it's waterproof... plus the clit arm is very bendable so you can use it just as a clit toy or the combination of the dual-armed internal/external vibrator. And it's rechargeable like an ipod, so no need to worry about wasting batteries.
I think maybe you just need a new toy that gives you more options and hits the right spots....
I think you may be right about it not hitting "the right spot" it just hits EVERYWHERE.
Thank you everyone for your tips and I will keep using them!
Active Ink Slinger
I suggest plenty of stimulation and "foreplay" with yourself. I mean you might as well make a night out of it, relax, light some candles, and really explore yourself. Work up to clit stimulation, I mean really make love to yourself and then perhaps your orgasms will improve.
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the Lelo Soraya looks good, but a little pricey. It is on my wish list though, and if it as good as you say it is I just might invest in it.
i resisted for a while, even tho Doll offered my a money back guarentee, but then, i had some spare change about and needed to be frivolous with it... omg, really, it's a little scary, really, cause you could get obsessive with it... not that i have... yet...
a word about the Hatachi Magic wand - while the Lelo is a finely tuned instrument, a piece of art, the wand in a blunt object, a power tool - not to say it's not a great toy, just certainly not a go to one - my gf actually uses it as punishment - after a while of it being used to push you to orgasm after orgasm while bound, it's becomes a thing of terror. for this reason, and this alone, it holds a fond place in my heart. :)
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Quote by oohlala2303
the Lelo Soraya looks good, but a little pricey. It is on my wish list though, and if it as good as you say it is I just might invest in it.
Last weekend, I had 12 well spaced and full-blown orgasms with the Soraya in one day, with each being just as powerful as the first. Of course, I don't usually masturbate all day (this was more of a project with a purpose... don't ask.. LOL) but anyway, it's just to let you know how impressive this vibe is. I can't think of another vibe in my toy-box that could do the same. And yes, this one definitely is way pricey but it's a good one to consider if you're looking to make an investment in one really brilliant toy.
Quote by Dancing_DollQuote by oohlala2303
the Lelo Soraya looks good, but a little pricey. It is on my wish list though, and if it as good as you say it is I just might invest in it.
Last weekend, I had 12 well spaced and full-blown orgasms with the Soraya in one day, with each being just as powerful as the first. Of course, I don't usually masturbate all day (this was more of a project with a purpose... don't ask.. LOL) but anyway, it's just to let you know how impressive this vibe is. I can't think of another vibe in my toy-box that could do the same. And yes, this one definitely is way pricey but it's a good one to consider if you're looking to make an investment in one really brilliant toy.
I ask ... oh I ask!!! tell us (ok ... in a story will do!) more about this 12 orgasms (for whatever purpose)!! and 12 in a day?? OMG .... I think the challenge is now out there .... [future thread - how many orgasms can you give yourself in one day]
DD .... you INSPIRE me!
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Van
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Quote by VanGoghQuote by Dancing_DollQuote by oohlala2303
the Lelo Soraya looks good, but a little pricey. It is on my wish list though, and if it as good as you say it is I just might invest in it.
Last weekend, I had 12 well spaced and full-blown orgasms with the Soraya in one day, with each being just as powerful as the first. Of course, I don't usually masturbate all day (this was more of a project with a purpose... don't ask.. LOL) but anyway, it's just to let you know how impressive this vibe is. I can't think of another vibe in my toy-box that could do the same. And yes, this one definitely is way pricey but it's a good one to consider if you're looking to make an investment in one really brilliant toy.
I ask ... oh I ask!!! tell us (ok ... in a story will do!) more about this 12 orgasms (for whatever purpose)!! and 12 in a day?? OMG .... I think the challenge is now out there .... [future thread - how many orgasms can you give yourself in one day]
DD .... you INSPIRE me!
Kisses
Van[/quo
I have given myself a lot of orgasms in one day, but not sure I ever did 12! But now I have a goal!!! BTW, I have a friend who has the Lelo Soraya and she raves about it.
Wouldnt that make a great Olympic Sport? How many orgasms can you have in 12 hours? Or they can break it down to different events, from like the 1 hr sprint to the 12 hr marathon. And even have 2 or 3 girl relays. It beats the hell out of synchronized swimming. Im sure the TV ratings would skyrocket.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by Nikki703Quote by VanGoghQuote by Dancing_DollQuote by oohlala2303
the Lelo Soraya looks good, but a little pricey. It is on my wish list though, and if it as good as you say it is I just might invest in it.
Last weekend, I had 12 well spaced and full-blown orgasms with the Soraya in one day, with each being just as powerful as the first. Of course, I don't usually masturbate all day (this was more of a project with a purpose... don't ask.. LOL) but anyway, it's just to let you know how impressive this vibe is. I can't think of another vibe in my toy-box that could do the same. And yes, this one definitely is way pricey but it's a good one to consider if you're looking to make an investment in one really brilliant toy.
I ask ... oh I ask!!! tell us (ok ... in a story will do!) more about this 12 orgasms (for whatever purpose)!! and 12 in a day?? OMG .... I think the challenge is now out there .... [future thread - how many orgasms can you give yourself in one day]
DD .... you INSPIRE me!
Kisses
Van[/quo
I have given myself a lot of orgasms in one day, but not sure I ever did 12! But now I have a goal!!! BTW, I have a friend who has the Lelo Soraya and she raves about it.
Wouldnt that make a great Olympic Sport? How many orgasms can you have in 12 hours? Or they can break it down to different events, from like the 1 hr sprint to the 12 hr marathon. And even have 2 or 3 girl relays. It beats the hell out of synchronized swimming. Im sure the TV ratings would skyrocket.
Oh my god, I would so love to represent Canada in the Orgasm Olympics. I think I could bring home the gold medal for sure. And the training would be a whole lot of fun!
12 in one day is not something to be attempted by amateurs, ya know...
Yeah, the reason for my O-frenzy that day would definitely make an interesting story.
I took little breaks in between each one but by the end of it my legs were like jello and I was kind of dehydrated.
If it were an Olympic sport, it would have to be in a ring, with the coach squirting water into your mouth in between rounds (like boxing).
I definitely have to give credit to Lelo Soraya though. That is one helluva sex toy!
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by VanGoghQuote by Dancing_DollQuote by oohlala2303
the Lelo Soraya looks good, but a little pricey. It is on my wish list though, and if it as good as you say it is I just might invest in it.
Last weekend, I had 12 well spaced and full-blown orgasms with the Soraya in one day, with each being just as powerful as the first. Of course, I don't usually masturbate all day (this was more of a project with a purpose... don't ask.. LOL) but anyway, it's just to let you know how impressive this vibe is. I can't think of another vibe in my toy-box that could do the same. And yes, this one definitely is way pricey but it's a good one to consider if you're looking to make an investment in one really brilliant toy.
I ask ... oh I ask!!! tell us (ok ... in a story will do!) more about this 12 orgasms (for whatever purpose)!! and 12 in a day?? OMG .... I think the challenge is now out there .... [future thread - how many orgasms can you give yourself in one day]
DD .... you INSPIRE me!
Kisses
Van
i'm up for it... should we pick a day, or a time period, or just announce the results in a special olympic O thread somewhere in the forum? my preivious record, i believe, is 9 - but i'm willing to give it a run - do we need to come up with a set of rules first, tho?
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
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*points to post above* btw, we're serious about this - need some rules and a date, and someone good at organizing things, but yeah... the first annual Orgasm-Olympics needs to happen!! send/post your suggestions/rules/etc!
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http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst16157_Orgasm-Olympics.aspx
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Quote by spriteQuote by VanGoghQuote by Dancing_DollQuote by oohlala2303
the Lelo Soraya looks good, but a little pricey. It is on my wish list though, and if it as good as you say it is I just might invest in it.
Last weekend, I had 12 well spaced and full-blown orgasms with the Soraya in one day, with each being just as powerful as the first. Of course, I don't usually masturbate all day (this was more of a project with a purpose... don't ask.. LOL) but anyway, it's just to let you know how impressive this vibe is. I can't think of another vibe in my toy-box that could do the same. And yes, this one definitely is way pricey but it's a good one to consider if you're looking to make an investment in one really brilliant toy.
I ask ... oh I ask!!! tell us (ok ... in a story will do!) more about this 12 orgasms (for whatever purpose)!! and 12 in a day?? OMG .... I think the challenge is now out there .... [future thread - how many orgasms can you give yourself in one day]
DD .... you INSPIRE me!
Kisses
Van
i'm up for it... should we pick a day, or a time period, or just announce the results in a special olympic O thread somewhere in the forum? my preivious record, i believe, is 9 - but i'm willing to give it a run - do we need to come up with a set of rules first, tho?
OMG!! Im In!! Soon As Im Over This Flu, Got To Start Training!!
Advanced Wordsmith
Tantric Yoga techniques are supposed to be good for prolonging orgasm - never tried it meself, but, google 'tantric orgasm' and see what you find?
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