I am 5'-10" in bare feet and 6'-2" in heels while my boyfriend at 6'-3" barefooted. In shoes or boots, he's still taller than me by 1-1/2 to 3-1/2". I think this is perfect for me. I don't think a gal should be taller than her boyfriend or husband. If in bed, however, it really makes no difference.
First and foremost I always dress to be comfortable; in both a working and/or school environment I dress in a more conservative way. When going out it depends on where I’m going and who I’m going with. If I’m going to the beach, however, then I’m in somewhat of a more provocative dress - even though I really have nothing much to show off, I do wear a bikini more in the throng style bottom with small V-shaped patch that covers only the most necessary area, as for the top portion of my bikini only my areolas and nipples are covered with a small triangular shaped piece of cloth. I’m shaved completely smooth so the bikini bottom only covers what’s absolutely necessary to stay within all legal bounds. However, when I’m at home, I usually have only what I had at birth only, nothing more - if you get my drift!.
~~Jessica~~
Powder-puff Blue V-patch in the front, bikini style, with string sides and through anus crack not quite in the thong style though...
Covert Fantasies: I will try and set you straight as to what most of us gals like and dislike… First and foremost I’m going to use your very own original posting then plug in answers I think you can follow as a guideline for help - so here goes… You say, “A fan myself of being masturbated by hand, or foot for that matter, I'm wondering how women feel about clitoral stimulation.” You’re not alone in liking to be masturbated as you say either by hand or feet and most of us girls don’t mind doing this for you either. Just so long as we get pleased in return… We do like our clitoris stimulated but remember it’s a highly sensitive area to the touch, so be very gentle and caring. A light touch is usually all it takes to start that fire deep within.
“Here is why I ask: We were having a very enjoyable evening in bed, stimulating girlfriend with my finger, very pleasurable it seemed for both. This was a slow, intimate time, she continued to "take it" until she came massively, squirting and wetting the bed badly. I've never came without physical stimulation but this almost made me, I was dripping precum like crazy.” I know the reason… you took her to the point of no return, the top of the mountain, so she only had one way to go and that was to ejaculate - herself which made her squirt and squirt hard wetting everything in sight, you should be proud you were able to push her to such an orgasm. She reached something that most girls would love getting. Not all gals ever reach that plateau of ecstasy in our sexual intercourse. As for you ejaculating that’s because of her visuals in your eyes only - taking you to the edge also.
“Having said that, other times I'll be stimulating her and she just pushes my hand away and says "do me" when I would rather keep playing with her.” Even if you so want to finger her clitoris be sure she is receptive and wants you to do so, otherwise just restrain yourself and work around it, it’s safer that way.
(Note: It maybe she’s afraid she’ll wet the bed again and is self-conscious of the fact she wet the bed last time this happened.) Give her time.
“I try to take care of my nails but occasionally she'll say you're sharp and this obviously ruins the mood for both of us. Perhaps I need professional nail work? Or should she just encourage me to use a different finger?” In this its sounds as if you’re digging into her most sensitive area, which is a no-no stay away do not touch if you are rubbing her clitoris then use the fleshy side or portion of the thumb not the nail side and then only gently touch her there using a light circular motion only… if you are instead fingering her vaginal opening then trim your nails, short, then file them smooth or have a professional manicure done on them. No, it is not her place to simply ask you to use another finger - this is your responsibility, not hers… remember that!
“Do you like it a little or until you cum? How offensive is it if there happens to be a sharp piece of nail that catches you?” Personally, I prefer my boyfriend doing as I have stated above, until I'm ready for him to enter me… for him to lightly touch my clitoris using that circular motion an only until I’m extremely wet and before I cum… then I want his penis going in and fucking the crap out of me, giving me multiple orgasms, one after another for as long as possible. If he’s going to finger fuck my pussy first then he uses both his fore and middle fingers only, but sometimes just the single middle finger in the come hither motion within. He maintains both his finger and toenails in a pleasurable matter so I have no problem what so ever with him.
“Swirls, vs back and forth, soft, hard, slow, fast?” I have already said swirls or circular motion no back-n-forth because that just hurts way too much, soft, gentle and slow is so much better. This allows for a slow build-up to a burning desire and one fantastic build up to the grand finality.
“It would seem obvious there are many different likes and dislikes. However, hearing your thoughts may provide some commonality.” You’re right there, first of all, ask your girl what she likes then follow her lead. Then and only then will you both get and receive actually what you both want and need, then both of you’ll be much happier in your sexual life - relationship with each other.
“Curious as I really enjoy the intimacy of playing.” Then the best advice I can give here is both you and her need to communicate with each other. Talk, talk, talk then after all this talk some more… never stopping talking to each other, ever! Then maybe your sex life will get on the right track and stay there.
I do sincerely hope this will get things into a togetherness you sound like you want... Good luck!!!
Would appreciate your time and energy to reply.
My boyfriend has given me the “Kevin Dean” dildo for my birthday recently to use when he was not able to be there with me for him to have sex with. It is very, very close to his actual penis size and shape, but it’s girth well, it’s just slightly less in circumference than his actual penis is when he has a fully blown-swollen hard-on that is an erection as we get to having sex together. I know of only one other penis (at this time) that I’ve actually seen and felt but it was probably seven inches in length and too had a nice girth even if not as long or thick as that of my boyfriend. I don’t really know if this is of any help here, but from what I’ve seen and read both of these are much above what is the norm or average which is stated as being 5-6 inches in length but I’ve never heard another girl or women complain or say anything bad about their boyfriend, man or their husband they have - not giving them complete satisfaction in their vaginal area what’s so ever.
Some are true, some are fantasies.
I would just like to add my two-cent worth in on this thread. I don't know that I have a favorite author because all are great in what they do for other to enjoy...
Saying that I feel that anyone who touches that magic button ‘SEND’ then bites their tongue waiting for their work to make the grade, that of being accepted for publication is part of this special group. Whether in the running for this high honor or not is also one of the few as well as the many!
I’ve read some three to four hundred stories on here in my short time on here and I’ve not been disappointed by any, written by many, many different authors many of whom have not been mentioned on here as of yet!
Wow, even being mentioned as so many are in this thread is a great honor for those listed with so many great and wonderful stories written by these authors.
It’s an honor in itself alone to have something they or you’ve poured your heart and soul into just to think someone had the courage to pursue it to publication for all to read and enjoy.
Jessica
When I was younger even though, flat chested, and a late bloomer could have easily passed for a boy. I bought myself a 30-A bra (stuffed it with socks), I would get very jealous of girls even friends at school, which seemed to be bigger than I was.
Now I am quite comfortable being the size I am (I now love them - being perky) so now wearing a 34-B bra, which is great when I need one.
However, in hot weather, I do not even wear a bra at all if I so choose. I can easily go bra-less whenever.
Sure I am now very happy, I have had no complaints. There size, shape suit my frame.
Many times I only wear a cool summer cotton sundress, sometimes with knee-high nylons or go bare-legged in sandals with nothing else on at all (between me and the lord). I even go to work this way.
I love them just the right size, shape and perky even how sensitive those nipples are being rubbed against that soft cotton material from those cool cotton dresses - I wear.
~~Jessica~~