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Ivanka
Over 90 days ago
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Your question ist rather vague in the manner you've stated it...Isn't it?

Ask the Girls >> "Ist bisexuality in men erotic for you?"...may have been a better question if you're actually asking how we feel about it.

Erotic - Arousing or satisfying sexual desire.

Yes, I find it an erotic thing that bisexual men seem satisfied with their choices of arousal und sexual desire or they would practice it.
But does their sexual choice arouse me? NO


I'm BI und I'm not judging of a guy choosing a BI lifestyle either.
I once dated a foreign bi-guy, we had much fun even though we only went out that one time...But if I had chosen a guy to marry instead of Siri?
He would have definitely been straight. I wouldn't mind sharing him with other women no problem, but not with other men.
Which will most probably never happen, Siri ist perfect for me, she und I click in everything.

3some sex? I much like having two guys sexing me up, but no it doesn't tingle my twat to watch two guys sexing each other.
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I think of you to be a man of more simple desire, despite your persona or reputation here...giggles
So I'm simply gonna wish ya fun, joy, peace, und a quiet day sitting with your toes warming by a crackling fire.

♫ Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you. ♪
Happy Birthday Yukon fire Jon...
♭♩ LaLa La La La Laaa ♬

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Quote by KinkLover1973
For those out there like me, have you ever considered the idea of giving someone consent to expose you or wanted someone to "blackmail" you into doing more and more to push your limits?


I can possibly understand what you are attempting to convey, but I'm a rather "literal" person,
und though I seldom recognize the phonetic ignorance of "urban slang" either, I'm not insinuating ignorance in your question.

Since Lush ist a fantasy sex-site I can conclude your use of the words "consent, expose" to be relation of a physical sense (physical exposure).
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That your question ist a topic in the "BDSM Lifestyle" thread I would say NO I haven't ever considered giving consent to a Mistress, Master, or anyone to physically expose me in public if it also includes public humiliation.
This ist beyond my limits und not what I desire or need from a Mistress or Master.

However, YES...I'm an exhibitionist, so I have allowed friends/lovers/Mistress to expose me in certain public places, having their way to a degree we both enjoyed...smiles
I'm quite fond of see-through, sheer things, wearing split-cup or bra-less, crotch-less or panty-less for the occasion.
I've been pleasured to once have a Mistress in real life for 2 years who was there to help me experience my limits, we had an extremely fun relationship. This ist what it's truly about isn't it, friendship, love, und fun while allowing yourself the self-mind-fuck illusion of giving yourself completely, but truly only within limits you dictate, und help your Mistress become a better Mistress as well?
Hopefully this ist similar to your experiences if such ist your desire.
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I believe you to mean by "blackmail" to be "only" a consenting "mind-fuck" likened more to a dare or game.
"Consenting blackmail" ist NOT oxymoron by their individual meanings conjoined, so this insinuates only a dare (game with limits) that sounds like a fun possibility with no real harm for those involved, but again it depends on the extent it ist played.
Others can be hurt, especially since children will probably be in public places as well.

Even if such public display ist done with moral thought of others, NO I haven't considered the "blackmail" game either for my previous "humiliation" reason, but YES...I'm not shy und love a dare...smiles


Of course if my preference, literal understanding, doesn't relate to your personal meanings for the question und you're actually referring to give someone something in which they can literally blackmail you simply to force ya to push your desired limits even further?
Then I can only say HELL NO, this ist suffering a type of Paraphilia (Psychosexual Disorder) that ist not a gute one possibly caused by "Disordered Phobias".
I hope you're not meaning any such preference or choice...smiles
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Referring to formal events und more respected office environments only?
I have much doubt the "suit and tie" look will be replaced anytime soon but will change in style only.
I think the trend for women und men will stay similar in style as they are currently for a very long time into the future except with maybe a few smaller changes.

This mainly because, history has shown us, no matter what may be popular at this years fashion shows, no matter what current demographic ethnic group think should be the popular thing,...the majority of the population doesn't und won't wear such clothing, nor do they wish to change their personal choices, und will simply wait for those types of "in this year" fads to pass away as historical footnote,...as they most always will.

Women will continue to wear a similar style of pant-suit as now for along time to come I think, with up-collar blouses, lazy bow ties, cross-overs, or a stylish brooch und scarf.
One thing that seems to be changing abit ist high-heels in the office environment are slowly going away, getting replaced by more comfortable dress loafers or flats.

Men will wear similar tailored suits as now with smaller lapel, but may wear collar-less shirts more often, no cloth ties, but Bar Pin Brooch Ties instead.

I've seen the short-sleeve/short pant men's suit at fashion shows, und they can be stylish in their own way depending on the man who wears it, but they have many out-there fabrics, patterns, und color styles that I doubt anyone would ever spend their money to purchase, und even less would never wear in public.
I've never seen even one guy wearing them in the real world und they were shown in fashion shows at least 10 years ago.
The short-suit look may be more popular in the U.S., Japan, or South Korea though.
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John Bongiovi in München (2011). About 75,000 were there.


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Never tried one.

Sounds like erotic fun for two maybe,...but I have my egg vibe to play yummy notes on my gspot violin as I fancy...smiles
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Hmmm...
Insatiable - incapable of being satisfied (literal meaning).
Nope that's not me,...I'm satisfied with practically everything in my life, including sexually.

It would be a terrible feeling to never experience an orgasm or never be satisfied with them, but the definition of insatiable doesn't relate to only sexual satisfaction.

Nympho - (urban slang, not used for proper documentation) insinuates phonetic relationship to a person affected by nymphomania (nymphomaniac).
Nymphomania - a female or male desiring uncommonly excessive sexual activity,
either naturally or as a symptom of a medical disease or medication side-effect.
Nymphomaniac - a person who desires uncommonly excessive sexual activity.
Sure, I can have naturally excessive sexual desire sometime...Sometime a lot...
Don't think I'm part of a minority for that.

There are seemingly a gazillion different und like definitions...
I'm guessing it ist depending whether ya reading from American, European, Asian, or religious influenced middle-eastern dictionary?

Another definition for nymphomaniac ist - a woman who experiences an abnormally excessive and uncontrollable sexual addiction as a form of hypersexuality or symptom of a temporary mental condition...lol

So men can't suffer nymphomania und all women who simply enjoy having a lot of sex suffer a mental condition?...Riiight...lol

Easy to conclude which definition originates from which source.

BTW...Can anyone figure out what goes in the blanks?

I-n-s-a-t- i-a-b-l-e
_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ ?
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Have no idea...other than most people desire to be rebel-like und not get caught up in the blah blah "Metropolis" tendencies of some socialistic ethnic groups or popular demographic.
A minority of these people can maybe, sometime, seek to satisfy this desire by such fantasy of the most on Lush?

Of course other individuals can seemingly take this to extreme sometime having , , underage/ , etc... desires because of their suffering Paraphilia (Psychosexual Disorders) caused by experiences in their life such as bad parenting, abuse, lack of social skill, or bad influence from the immorality of co-inhabiting social demographic, American Hollywood narrative, media, political und religious extremism.
They can even suffer from genetic disorder, simple retarded mentality/ignorance/non-intellect...so again they may seek these desires out on a fantasy sex-site.
Though it isn't my fancy, this ist obviously much preferred than if they practice it in their real life, which I can believe many do as well.

However, such Paraphilia isn't my discipline, so I'm only guessing...

There are many erotic story websites publishing much worse genre than .

If the topic question included (Why does Lush allow the genre?)...?
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Quote by JackStay


Hey Ivanka,

Thanks for the response. I'm no expert by any means. I've been trying to trace my ancestry back and ran the paternal Y chromosome, which included the Haplogroups. And yes, it went all the way back into Africa. Following the mapping provided it came up into your region, into the Nordic area and into Briton. There was also some in the Iberian Peninsula. And from the write up, they were primarily farmers. For years my father thought our family orginated out of Bavaria as his mother's father had migrated from there. But, that's all we know except he shortened his name.

Anyway, thanks for the response and I enjoyed reading you profile, what a lady!


Sounds if I should get a more in-depth genetic report.
I do have such interest in finding additional information I've read in a research paper years ago referring to the Mycenaean's genetically similar und imitation of the previous Minoan culture.
Their supposed migration in two groups, one into the area of Crete, und another farther north telling of their adventure making boats, exploring und fishing around islands of a seemingly enclosed northern sea, hunting game, und farming their new settlements there ist very intriguing.
I haven't yet found additional documentation, but I think I'll contact the original author of that research paper if he ist still among the living...smiles

Yes I know of such frustration. This ist a common problem when researching things of the past sometime suffering many changes in phonetic spelling throughout history.
Such things affected from either a more recent demographic changing defined meanings by adding/changing prefixing/suffixing, shortening/lengthening of words, changing core word spelling, or simply making up their own slang words, und this especially relevant between different languages relating to location names und surnames, which can most often give you proximity of time-line, but instead these changes sometime cause it to become an impossible task to trace a lesser known but specific historical event if ya not know the how's und why's of these phonetic changes.
If ya can mail me the shortened surname I can possibly find it's true origin.
I can absolutely understand if ya prefer not however.
Unless ya can give me 3 shortened names to research so I not know which ist relevant to you...but it will of course take abit longer as well...smiles

Anyway, good luck on your quest und pop me mail anytime...If ya like?
Oh und thanks...smiles...cyasbyebye
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Quote by JackStay


Hey Ivanka,

Your Y-DNA Haplogroup wouldn't be in the I-M223 group would it?



smiles...You're lucky I saw this again. I'm not usually keeping up with my forum comments und don't have my "What you've missed on Lush" enabled either.

DNA study isn't really my discipline, but if the paternal grouping I-m223 ist the one that traces origin back to african ancestry?
Then I would think everyone ist in that group, if current genetic markers are correct, but I not really think my family had our genetic history traced that distant.
It may be more likely that we have record only for I-m423 paternal grouping, but I'm only guessing.
I know the genetic report I've seen ist mainly pertaining to only our direct relationship with the Chatti tribe und their direct relationship with the Angle und Saxon tribes which had finally joined as one during the first conflicts with the Romans.
It also had a branch of Anglo-Saxon combining with Celtic Briton, und their ancestry tracing to South America,
but that isn't relevant to me exactly.
Much the rest I know, family names, locations, etc., ist from my own toil researching und visiting archives in Denmark a couple of times,
every archive in Germany und Austria, Poland twice, Ukraine twice, und once to Bryansk along with all of the countries I mentioned before at least once,
sometime digging in boxes, looking through never ending documents, old manuscript, books, microfilm, und I've used a few online services as well...smiles

Sounds as though you would know much more than me about DNA study...smiles
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My ethnicity or ethnic grouping ist Hessian German culture or me specifically I'm Hessin...smiles
Our family ist 100% Chatti tribe und direct descendant of the Anglo-Saxon (Angle und Saxon tribes)
who were the first organized farming settlements und culture to inhabit the areas now known as
Germany, Austria, Czech Republic, Belgium, Netherlands, Denmark, und Sweden, documented in archive
to about 2700bce und possibly earlier.
The Anglo-Saxon German language ist the major origin of the English und Dutch language,
Anglo-Saxon tribes were major cause for the Roman Collapse in 426ce, und they migrated to the current
United Kingdom Islands co-inhabiting with the first Celtic Briton tribes who were indirect descendants
of people from South American culture...
according to journal of the most recent Mitochondrial DNA testing anyway...smiles

I'm "Literally" one of the many different skin shades und physical characteristics of biological Caucasian Taxon,
or simply one of the many different races of Caucasian people thank you very much...smiles

No, I haven't ever been mistaken to be any of the races or ethnic groups you've mentioned, that I'm aware,
und I haven't any American Indian ancestry like many others here seem to be,
nor do I have any direct relationship to the original natives who inhabited the North American continent known as the Clovis people
und their descendants of Asian Alaskan und Canadian Inuit tribes.
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Quote by Guest
Hello,

Not sure how common it is to ask for elevator-pitch help (and I hope I'm doing it in the right forum), but I wanted to test a draft of mine before posting the story. Is it too much? Too clunky? Hook you at all? For context, it's a paranormal romance of what could be novel-length, but for now I'm just posting the first "episode" to see if I should pursue it.

Pitch:
After relocating to launch his firm’s new location, a single father finds himself blackmailed, forced to juggle his teenage daughter, her minxy mother, and work while subservient to the girl across the cul-de-sac.

Thanks,
Kelvin Watt




Sounds intriguing enough und series stories are much welcomed here.
As some earlier comments have said, just relax with it, allow your story-line go where it may,
und simply have fun with it.
No one here will be such a buttwipe und will try to be honest, productive, und supportive...smiles

Definitely gonna need to get yourself an Avatar though...smiles
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Chivalry - the sum of the ideal qualifications of an honorable man.

Honor - mature in mindset, good moral values, honesty, fairness, integrity in beliefs und actions, which would definitely include kindness und a more genetically evolved intelligence as well.

In this "literal" sense I would say yes "Chivalry ist Dead" as common practice for current male demographic, especially certain ethnic grouping, in many countries who seemingly have little if any chivalry, if they can spell it, or if their ancestry ever had it, when comparing them to more honorable Ages of history.

Can it be flawed genetics, bad parenting, social influence, a lessor feminine female demographic, or that many men have little idea what a more independent "modern woman" truly wants of them?
I have much doubt it ist the complete fault of the male species.

This reminds me of many stories I've read about the older American west.
Much of it false und over-dramatized of course, but the women who ventured with their men to make a new life there were strong, independent women in many more ways than at present, und these same women, either directly or indirectly, pioneered Women's Rights in the U.S., but at the same time they never lost their virtue to be an extremely feminine female.

This simple thing allowed men to be chivalrous, instead of phobic, wimpy, sexist, or domineering that seems to be the more common now,...though I have faith there ist still a large minority of exceptional men roaming about...smiles

I'm quite glad my culture ist one of the many who still commonly practice such ancestral value, courtesy, und respect for a strong-willed, but feminine woman who loves it much...smiles
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I've been dancing the Tai Chi for a few years.
It's very relaxing for your peace of mind und stress, but I haven't ever really pursued an exercise regiment.
I'm getting plenty of exercise always working chores around our farm, riding, swimming, snow ski, hiking,
working a dig site every Spring/Summer,...

I'm quite sure the workout my muscles get everyday und running/walking about always,
that I'm exercising equivalent to most any professional athlete...smiles
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Simply wanted to add something that may help.

If ya wish to lower the file size to the preferred 100kb as Nicola spoke?

One easy way you can do this und keep your aspect ratio ist by simply resizing your gif image.

As example: From the maximum size Lush allows for your gif image Avatar to work properly ist 150px x150px.
Simply resize it smaller to 149px x149px >...etc, or crop it however ya wish.

Another good website for making a gif image from your own static images ist EZGif.com.
You can resize your new gif image there easily when you're converting your own static images to a single gif image.

Have a fun day. smile
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1) Do you ever go out without your bra?
Every day except more proper occasion.

2) Do you wear your bra to bed?
Never...Who does that?

3) Have you ever flashed your breasts?
Oh Yes, swimming topless all my life up at the falls,
a few times at La Mar Bella beach in Barcelona,
more than a few times in Innsbruck,
und 2 times vacationing Bahia beach Chile.

Does walking about Amsterdam braless wearing see-through count?
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A close trim with my Wahl occasionally but always been full bush.
Have more important things.
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Taking a break from this finally. Have fun...cyasbyebye...

The men are in the hole. Current count ist...


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Enjoyed meeting ya und having a play.
I'm tired finally, taking a tea break und maybe a morning nap.

cyasbyebye...Have a pleasant day. smile


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We should get to show abit of our win I think, instead of everyone thinking we still playing chase. This game should be above und below (0) as well.
My thoughts anyway. smile But I didn't make this game either. I have doubt it will catch on though.

I'm spent...taking a break from this.

But yes...(0)...exactly.



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Doesn't work that way today. smile

The men are in the hole... They always wanting to be in a hole anyway...giggles



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It ist yours silly. smile I know it has happened before, but...Yay!!!
First time I've seen this in 5 years I been here.

Thanks Heidi...

I just wanted to see it once. Whoo...I'm spent.



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