A very long time fantasy of mine. We did have a 3some once, but everyone was really drunk. Would love to do it again but I don't know that will happen especially since we now have 2 children. A guy can dream. In reality, I like every fantasy of this I can think of. Sharing my wife. My wife and I sharing a cock. Me being cuckolded. Simply sitting back and watching my wife submit to another... I can't think of a scenario that doesn't appeal to me when it comes to another man...
I sometimes wonder if I should seek counseling, but it's not really something that bothers me, though I wonder if it should.
Clearly, from the number of questionable massage parlors and the number of ads on backpage and craigslist, many many people go to get sensual massages. If you have gone/do go, what has been your experience? Did you get a legitimate massage followed by a handjob? Did it really just feel like you had hired an escort who was rubbing your back for the first half of it? Mutual touch? Nudity? Nuru?
If you were in a relationship, did you feel like you were cheating?
I've never gone, not sure I would/could, lots of my buddies go... I am intrigued.
I don't think I'd want a sexual relationship with a female with that kind of hangup. I mean, can you imagine if your guy didn't like the taste of pussy? Pretty ridiculous if you ask me, and just unlady like. Spitting is just plain mean.
I don't think it is really specifically the face, though that is often the reality. I think it's really more the idea that our orgasm is so amazing for both of us that I, the male, want to cover the female from head to toe in it and that the female wants to be completely covered in it. It's only hot if the female in question wants it though. My wife will sometimes ask me to. If you don't like it for one reason or another, just act like you don't and that should do the trick.
All's fair in love... I'll take whatever she'll give me, as long as it's no larger than mine, 'cause I'm not small and ouch.
So, not the kinda stuff that is 50% lesbians and the other 50% is soft core. My wife wants the hardcore straight sex, anal, dp, facials...you name it. She would just like some actual descent plot to go along with it. And I feel for her. I'd like it to. But I just have lower standards and I can get turned on when the wind blows a certain direction.
So the real question: When is Dancing Doll going to open a production company?
Not only do I find it a turn-off, and no I would never sleep with that person because of it, but I don't that I'd much want to be friends with a person so vein as to modify their body in such a way. I really think they are revolting and the women who get them are pretty damn ugly on the inside.
Sorry if this is a little less of a turn-on forum topic, but it could really help me out..
So... I am circumcised and my son, 2, is not. I am starting to teach him how to clean himself and he is becoming pretty aware of penises, coming into the bathroom when I am showering or taking a leak and pointing at mine, saying "penis" and then at his and saying "same!!!!" (just kinda cute)
We didn't for the whole abuse/nature argument, but now I am having second thoughts after reading some of the posts on the threads in the ladies forum. So some questions for those that are not circumcised...
Have you had any health related issues because you are not circumcised?
Have you had woman be turned off or on by it?
Do you wish you were circumcised?
And for those that are... I am a little disappointed that my mother and father made the decision to do that to me. Do you feel the same? Do you not give it any thought? Do you think it is an advantage or disadvantage for any reason?
This has me thinking. My son is uncircumsised and I am circumsised. He is 2 now, and sees me in the shower often because he is curious and actively seeks both me and my wife out. He even looks at me and points and says "penis", looks down and points and says "same!". Kind of cute really. In any case, we didn't for the whole natural/abuse reasons, but this is going to be an awkward subject to broach pretty soon. Of course my wife and I are responsible for keeping him clean right now, but obviously, and I never really realized it until reading this thread, some special care will be necessary for my little man. God I hope he finds a woman that doesn't give a shit or even finds that a turn on. It's weird to think about your 2 year old sons future sex life, but a boy's/man's own penis-awareness is an enormous part of their own self-awareness especially in their teenage years.
I can only speak to what I like... so. I definitely enjoy the feeling of deep throat or at least an attempt at it. I also enjoy the feeling of control of holding her hair, and luckily my wife likes that, though one of my exes did not at all. Including the balls in some (careful) massaging, including the pud as well. Suck, stroke with the hand, massage the scrotum...
But nothing makes up for enthusiasm and a woman that you can tell REALLY wants to get you off with her mouth. I have talked about it with MANY men, and we can tell when a woman wants nothing else than to have your cock in her mouth and when she is just doing it to be nice. Now, I have been able to get off from the later, but I certainly prefer it when the giver loves what they're doing.
I appreciate the responses so far. Most of the scenarios she likes are one's of her being dominated by an older man, with her playing the 18-21 yo. Unfortunately does not watch porn, but it's interesting hearing that women might not be into fantasizing quite like guys do because the only porn she ever will watch is very specific. Needs to have a plot. Needs to have two men and one woman. Needs to have DP... We acted on that once but not since then, mostly because of her reluctance to peruse on the internet (which I totally get, I really do, and I don't push her on it at all). Trying to fulfill that fantasy can be exceptionally awkward and difficult. Maybe it will happen again. Maybe not.
But back to roleplaying. I think I was not quite specific enough. She likes roleplaying, or at least so it seems, plenty, but she just does not have the ideas for scenarios. Luckily for me, mine have sufficed for the last 12 years. That being said, I worry that my imagination alone is not enough to keep us both interested for the rest of our days. I only look to guidance here for the possible muse that I might need to create scenarios that are specifically arousing to women in general, and therefore, hopefully, my wife as well.
I know, everyone's different, and there are women out there that like to be choked and spit on til orgasm, just as there are men out there that need a cheese grader or a stilleto to the balls to cum. And there are men and women out there that will be FULLY sexually satisfied for their whole lives having sex with only one person in the same position, with little foreplay. I only hope that's not my wife and she simply does this kinda crap to satisfy me....
So, maybe once a month or so, my wife and I put aside a couple of hours for roleplaying and sex. This is one of my favorite things to do sexually. The one thing that's troublesome is that I am always the one to come up with the scenario... It's not that I mind really, it's just that she "doesn't really have any imagination" or so she says...
About a month ago we were watching the showtime series "Hung". Not a bad show, not my favorite, but interesting. The premise is a very well endowed newly single male PE teacher in incredibly good shape that NEEDS money to be able to keep his house. He ends up in bed with a woman that thinks she can put his talents to good use... Ok ok, so what. Well at one point a client complains to his "pimp" that he did not provide her with her chosen fantasy. The "pimp" says that "that's a male fantasy, not a woman's fantasy" as if he is supposed to know the difference.
So, what is a woman's fantasy and what's the difference? I know I should be able to figure this out, but I have a high sloping brow and am less than adept at such subtleties. Sure I could go on the rest of my days playing out scenarios where my wife is the young woman applying for a personal assistants job, or the student that got caught masturbating in the locker room and I'm the principal. She says she likes those and that's great, but I want to make sure that at least some of the time I am coming up with scenarios that appeal to the female libido, even though I feel like she should be able to do that on her own... In any case, any help would be more than welcome.
I'll try anything once, twice if I don't hate it. Never really participated much in bondage anything. And I am usually dominant in bed, so it would be a departure, but still, I would give it a go. As far as who, my wife, but she's not a lushie.
Never really been into it. My wife is voluptuous, and was even more so (she's lost about 30 lbs.) when I met her. Most of the women I find attractive are voluptuous. Not to say that I can't find a petite woman attractive, but it's certainly not my ideal. I like a woman that screams "FERTILE". Not that I am obsessed with impregnating (I only have one kid) but I think my instinct does play a big role in what I find attractive. To each their own. If we all liked the same thing, that would suck for everybody.
I used to simply deal with it in the interest of having sex, but after a couple of years of issues my wife had with different birth control pills, I developed what's best described as a phobia of having blood on my dick. It sucks, and I worry that my wife thinks that I find her revolting during that time of the month, but it's really not her... It's me, and the sight of blood on my dick.
Probably the single biggest disappointment in my wife's and my sex life is the fact that I love porn and she detests it. It sucks donkey balls.
Just because I would love to have my wife and her 3 best friends take turns blowing me until I cover all of them with 10 gallons of my cum doesn't mean that i expect it to happen. Just start letting him know that you really don't think you could do it.
Both. I like it because she loves it. I also like exploring her body with my fingers. Nothing is really in my sex life any more except if she doesn't gain pleasure from it. If she likes it, so do I and vice versa.
Never have said anything hurtful about looks per se. But onto the bigger question, I probably would not be around long enough to find out. People's worth is, in large part, defined by their own feelings of self worth. That doesn't mean that I want some uppity bitch, but to try and be with someone with no self confidence would be out of the question, no matter what she looked like. I have been with a number of exceptional looking women (my wife is one of them... YEAH!) as well as some not so exceptional. The one's that were not great looking had great big personalities and a lot of confidence.
Back when I was a teacher, there was a new 3rd grade teacher that I and ALL of the other male teachers had a crush on. She had big beautiful 22 yo breasts, but other than that... not much going on,and I mean that her body was so-so, and her face...meh. The personalty on her though... confident but modest, a bit sassy, super nice and a touch flirtatious. She also just had the air about her that she would be very easy to make the transition from conversation to making out with. My good friend ended up dating her for a number of years and they recently broke up. She has 0 problem with guys, and it's all in the personality.
To those that have tried to no avail... good God, I am so sorry. That sucks. I am of the personal opinion that if he isn't doing it for you and doesn't care about your pleasure, you have every right to get it elsewhere, whatever that may entail.
I don't know how this is not an ongoing dialogue in just about every relationship. How does a couple keep things fresh and interesting if they don't talk about sex and their desires often?
I personally have no hangups on the issue, already done the MMF thing once and would really like to do it again, accept much more sober this time.
I think a good place to start would be in the bedroom with a dildo... ask him to use it on you as your giving him head. If a dp is your desire, then go that route. Get his mind open to the idea. Start reading stories about it or watching porn that features two guys. Bring it up after he already has a clue that it's coming.
I have a dear friend that is 5'4" and seems to be on the same boat as Damon's. But with this friend it's hard to say what came first, chicken or egg. He is short so he has a low self esteem. He's short and has low self esteem, so he rarely gets laid or gets dates. He has a low self esteem so he has never tried to get a good job, so, at 30 yo, he still lives at home. He doesn't have a good job, and he still lives at home... so he rarely gets laid. And it snowballs. I love the guy. Have known him most of my life, but it can be a downer going out with him.
I am 5'8" on a good day. My wife is 5'7". I think it was a combo of a descent enough face and a ridiculous amount of confidence that ever got me laid in my single years. At this point I am successful in my chosen career and get attention from women for that alone. I would bet that if I was even an inch or two shorter, it would have been a whole lot harder. Alas, confidence can go a long way in getting women to give you the time of day.
I really like how my wife keeps hers: Top of the ass crack to top of the clit is shaved. Then there's a V of hair at the top of the clit that is well trimmed. Don't really know why she keeps it other than to keep from looking pre-pubescent, but it works for me.ucNvUOX1p172HJk7
I guess it just depends on the guy. To me, their kinda cliche and silly. Kinda like seeing a woman with ENORMOUS fake tits.
After a woman has a child, she has shown the world that, not only does she look fertile, she is fertile. It's not that moms are more attractive, but moms are more attractive than they would be otherwise because they're moms.
