Steal her away and make her as happy as I could
8538 number times ive had to .......... her
That you will find out tomorrow my love ;)
Tie her to the wall ring and have my way with her
The term bitch is defined in an offensive manner as 'A woman considered to be spiteful or overbearing'. By this definition the OP is not bitching. I would also then put a question to Olivia who seems to think that this behaviour is harmless and just part of 'competitiveness'. What happens when a child is bullied at school or a person is tormented at work with wild rumours from people they don't know or have no social contact with is this an act of 'competitiveness'? Personally? i don't find this in any way shape or form competitive as it is a way of people socially trying to ostracise someone from a group which I am sure many would consider to be spiteful being true to the definition of the term 'bitch'. This is also true of your 'typical male' example. If a man acts out his friends and peers will normally tell him he is being an ass. Only case in point with that line is when he has surrounded himself with like minded people.
To winky. Some women will talk shit simply because it affects them in their social circles to do so e.g high school and certain affluent lifestyles. This can be translated down through social classes where people dont follow the idiom i was always taught by my parents, do as I say and not as I do. People are inherently social and will do a lot to fit in to their desired 'cliques' this includes social outcasting of anything they feel does not fit their archetype models.
A lot of military wives/girlfriends take pride in the fact their significant other fight for their country the same also goes for the male counter parts whose female counter parts are with the military. In BDSM a sub will usually never call their Dom/me by their first name unless given permission. Thus the use of the terms Dom/me, Master or mistress. This is part of the rules that are given to a sub when they agree to this type of relationship and is by no means materialistic on insincere, if you speak to near enough any sub they will tell you that use of those terms is from love and respect.
I would say its hard to interview someone to your sub or Dom/me. You have to understand that this relationship takes alot of trust. Most people I know have taken time to get to know their partner just like any other relationship before sitting down to discuss what their boundaries are (for the sub) and the rules of the relationship. Just getting to know prospective partners is the right step and take it from their.
Im going to make a point as there seems to be a misconception for those that haven't properly educated themselves in to BDSM yet. The topic is What Is A Sub.
A sub is someone who, in my personal experience, desire structure and control to their life. They are not a modern day slave with no rights or opinions. They are equal to any other person on the planet and should only ever be disciplined, chastised or educated by their Dom/me unless you have gained the approval from them, which any Dom/me who loves their sub will never do.
*Edit* Further to this I heard a statement today that both mystified and annoyed me. The statement was: He is not my sub he is my equal, I like to be with someone who gives and doesn't just take. This is a myth that subs aren't equal and that Dom/mes just take from subs. As Sprite has said here. A sub has power, they choose their Dom/me, they lay out the ground rules for their limits. Dom/mes give up a lot of time and effort to give a sub discipline, control and structure to their lives and in return a sub wil usually love their Dom/me unconditionally.
Im going to post a question that was put to me today. If your sub is told by another Dom/me that they are not giving them the respect they deserve what would you do. This was my answer
A Dom/me has no right to tell someone elses sub what kind of repsect they need to give, the same way another Dom/me has no right to discipline another's sub with out express permission from the subs Dom/me. A sub need only follow the rules set out by THEIR Dom/me. If the Dom/me feels they have been affronted then they should speak with the subs Dom/me and let them handle the situation. Now if I feel that my sub is in the wrong I will let them know why and discipline them accordingly and have them apologise. If I feel it is just the masters hurt pride then I will tell the Dom/me so.
Just to add something to MistressS's post. I find that there is one other thing I find that some Dom/mes i've encountered dont do and that is praise their sub. This in itself can be a small reward, especially if the sub has performed part of his/her training well. Personally i like to praise a sub if they have had to endure a harsh punishment and neither complained nor whimpered. To me it still shows that i love them and that it hurt me just as much to administer it.
Im just wondering where you got this 'Insightful' information from as these are just baseless facts. If you have decided to move in together or got married then you knew what you were getting into regardless. If you didnt then you are a dumb ass for not getting to know your partner properly simple as that. There are no dos or donts to living with the one you love. Just love and believe in them and things should work out. And for future reference any man or woman that expects their partner to have sex with them when they are angry with them is a fool. *edit* This person is not a new mate unless you move in with someone the first day you meet them you should have known them for a year maybe more before moving in or marrying
complex deflating and pass on the basis that she doesnt want me
hmmm would have to ask her about that have you hear her nick name for her ass?