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i would love to find a couple or a married women in central il to have some fun with. All I can find are web sites that want me to pay and I refuse to do so. I am looking for a good time before i get to old. Got any advise for me
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i would love to find a couple or a married women in central il to have some fun with however you have to pay for it and i refuse to do so. Got any advise for me


Ummm, are you asking people to PAY to have sex with you, because that is how this reads!?! I am certainly not interested either way, but I did want to point that out. If that is the case, you might want to try Craig's List and not Lush, which is the only advice I can give you. Also, why would people want to pay to have sex with you, especially if you're the one out looking for it?
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i would love to find a couple or a married women in central il to have some fun with however you have to pay for it and i refuse to do so. Got any advise for me


Ummm, are you asking people to PAY to have sex with you, because that is how this reads!?! I am certainly not interested either way, but I did want to point that out. If that is the case, you might want to try Craig's List and not Lush, which is the only advice I can give you. Also, why would people want to pay to have sex with you, especially if you're the one out looking for it?


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i would love to find a couple or a married women in central il to have some fun with however you have to pay for it and i refuse to do so. Got any advise for me


are you kidding??

Advice - this is an erotica literature website with social networking ..... not an escort service or "Friend Finder" (aka "Lips Finder").

I suggest if you don't want to pay for sex .... enjoy your wife, or find a "friend" who digs you.

Solicitation on here looks ..... dirty.

just saying ............
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A bit of subtlety goes a long way. My lush visit today started with a laugh anyway.
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Are you Illinois former governor Rod~Blow? ... Just asking ...
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Bwahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha....hahaha..haha.ha. man this was some funny stuff. Either you are a male escort with poor business sense or you are a cheapskate either way i got a laugh, P.S In before the lock
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Can you make change for this? There's plenty more where this came from...
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P.S In before the lock


I'm going to go talk to the upper management to keep it unlocked
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You might try visiting a local bar or hotel lounge or look in the newspaper for swingers or just plain hook ups. If you want to keep it more quiet try the next town over.
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Thanks to all for pointing out my tpying errors please excepted my thank for helping see my mistake
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Thanks to all for pointing out my tpying errors please excepted my thank for helping see my mistake


Don't worry about your typing. Everyone that pointed yours out has some of their own.
I hope you got some ideas for what to try? Good luck.
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Dammit....

Thought I was onto a sure thing there...
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You might try visiting a local bar or hotel lounge or look in the newspaper for swingers or just plain hook ups. If you want to keep it more quiet try the next town over.


Next town over?

May I suggest next state over about 4 hours to the west ... Iowa is a "very" good state of chose.

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Sorry lone wolf i am not into animals as you must be i mean a donkey a cow and your name to each his own.
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I have no short term solutions for you, however, I suggest you look in "estrogen rich" territory to locate a playmate.
Several suggestions are:
Dog shows, lots of travel involved and that estrogen rich atmosphere I've mentioned
Ceramics class, no real man would be caught there, guess what, lots of women with available time.
Equestrian events

Again, these aren't sure fire or short term, but I have witnessed the success of others in these locations.
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I have no short term solutions for you, however, I suggest you look in "estrogen rich" territory to locate a playmate.
Several suggestions are:
Dog shows, lots of travel involved and that estrogen rich atmosphere I've mentioned
Ceramics class, no real man would be caught there, guess what, lots of women with available time.
Equestrian events

Again, these aren't sure fire or short term, but I have witnessed the success of others in these locations.

I know what you mean. When women are on the prowl you see then at a lot of auto parts stores, things like that. I've been flirted with at the grocery a lot too.
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You might try visiting a local bar or hotel lounge or look in the newspaper for swingers or just plain hook ups. If you want to keep it more quiet try the next town over.


Next town over?

May I suggest next state over about 4 hours to the west ... Iowa is a "very" good state of chose.



Be nice Jonathan.
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i would love to find a couple or a married women in central il to have some fun with however you have to pay for it and i refuse to do so. Got any advise for me


Ummm, are you asking people to PAY to have sex with you, because that is how this reads!?! I am certainly not interested either way, but I did want to point that out. If that is the case, you might want to try Craig's List and not Lush, which is the only advice I can give you. Also, why would people want to pay to have sex with you, especially if you're the one out looking for it?


As far as I can tell he meant the website wanted him to pay to belong to it or to hook up from it. Like some dating sites do.
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I have no short term solutions for you, however, I suggest you look in "estrogen rich" territory to locate a playmate.
Several suggestions are:
Dog shows, lots of travel involved and that estrogen rich atmosphere I've mentioned
Ceramics class, no real man would be caught there, guess what, lots of women with available time.
Equestrian events

Again, these aren't sure fire or short term, but I have witnessed the success of others in these locations.

I know what you mean. When women are on the prowl you see then at a lot of auto parts stores, things like that. I've been flirted with at the grocery a lot too.


Damnit, I KNEW that was you on the peanut butter aisle at the grocery store. I think it was the firey back glow that convinced me. I should have said hello. Duhh



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i would love to find a couple or a married women in central il to have some fun with. All I can find are web sites that want me to pay and I refuse to do so. I am looking for a good time before i get to old. Got any advise for me


Are there any swingers clubs in your area?...Some have specific rules for entry/participation but it may be an option for you to explore.

Also: I corrected the spelling errors in the title of this thread. In future you may want to be more careful in how you word things - as you can see from the responses a lot of people misunderstood your question.
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You might try visiting a local bar or hotel lounge or look in the newspaper for swingers or just plain hook ups. If you want to keep it more quiet try the next town over.


Next town over?

May I suggest next state over about 4 hours to the west ... Iowa is a "very" good state of chose.



Be nice Jonathan.


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Sorry lone wolf i am not into animals as you must be i mean a donkey a cow and your name to each his own.




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If I see you in a Florida grocery, you can be certain I'll flirt with you! The Chefs hat and red tresses shouldn't be hard to miss.
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DAMN!!!! I forgot about the "Censor Cop"
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i would love to find a couple or a married women in central il to have some fun with. All I can find are web sites that want me to pay and I refuse to do so. I am looking for a good time before i get to old. Got any advise for me


Pay up, man. Don't be a cheapskate. Few things a woman (or a couple) dislike more than a mooch or freeloader.

Is that concept hard to understand?

Otherwise, get on your dancing shoes and go hit the nightclub circuit. Lotsa meat markets out there which have a 4 to 7pm free admission and half price drinks, where you can rub shoulders with gold diggers looking for a daddy.

But again...you'll have to dig into that wallet you don't wish to open up.

Pay to play in the USA man.
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If I see you in a Florida grocery, you can be certain I'll flirt with you! The Chefs hat and red tresses shouldn't be hard to miss.


Yup that'd be me. I was in the cucumber aisle picking out my next boyfriend.
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i would love to find a couple or a married women in central il to have some fun with however you have to pay for it and i refuse to do so. Got any advise for me


Ummm, are you asking people to PAY to have sex with you, because that is how this reads!?! I am certainly not interested either way, but I did want to point that out. If that is the case, you might want to try Craig's List and not Lush, which is the only advice I can give you. Also, why would people want to pay to have sex with you, especially if you're the one out looking for it?


Q#2 = Curlygirly - I am pretty sure that, thanks to this comment, some people might have jumped the gun..(Eventhough Q#1 is a run-on-sentence without punctuation, the gist is still understandable - for a forum post...)

I believe what Q#1 = Batmans8in - is asking, is if anyone has any advice on where he might be able to hook up with a lady, (meet) or have a fuck buddy: without having to pay for HER. He's not after a hooker - probably just fwb? He's just asking fellow lushies for some free advice. Nothing wrong with that. And for the record, the question does not read like he is ASKING people to pay to have sex with him. No offence Curlygirly.

My practical advice for Baman8in, is either hit a few clubs, go out with friends, mingle and just let people know what you are looking for. The right person is out there looking for the same thing, but you just have to be brave and ask around if there are similar minded folk out there who are also looking for some fun and a good time. That is what Lush tries to promote = fun! This site is free to use and meet people too, as well as a place to share fictionial fantasies, stories. I was certain people here on lush would understand this and help a brother lushy out. Hope you find some real advice mate and not like some of the frooty, smart ass replys like you've already got. No one deserves to be made fun of when they're just asking for some free advice. Come on Lushies! Where is the love? I might know someone, but all I can do is introduce you both. The rest is up to the two of you. (And no, it's not me.) Hope you find real answers for your dilemma soon! smile
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Q#2 = Curlygirly - I am pretty sure that, thanks to this comment, some people might have jumped the gun..(Eventhough Q#1 is a run-on-sentence without punctuation, the gist is still understandable - for a forum post...)

I believe what Q#1 = Batmans8in - is asking, is if anyone has any advice on where he might be able to hook up with a lady, (meet) or have a fuck buddy: without having to pay for HER. He's not after a hooker - probably just fwb? He's just asking fellow lushies for some free advice. Nothing wrong with that. And for the record, the question does not read like he is ASKING people to pay to have sex with him. No offence Curlygirly.


Before I commented, I know that the statement was misinterpreted by others the same way, so I wasn't the only person to read it as such.

However, I do disagree with your statement that I bolded above. The Lushies who have posted on this thread usually have very strong opinions and are more than willing to let you know when they disagree with you. Just like you did. If they disagreed with me, they certainly would not have been timid about letting me know with something along the lines of "CG, put down what your smoking or pass it this way, that is totally not what the guy was saying." Many of them have disagreed with me in the past, and I'm sure they won't be shy about doing it again in the future. They're pretty smart cookies and love a good debate/disagreement especially with friends!

BTW, not offense taken. Have a good one!