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hold on!!

the posters ORIGINAL comment was not what is showing now. It was "corrected" by CB as was his thread title.

If the guy had asked ...... 'I'd love to find someone to play with, but am not wanting to pay a site for a hook up' .............................. not one of us would have commented the way we did.

His original comment made it sound like (and obviously wrong?? but who knows, maybe that was what he was intending) that he didn't want to pay for sex, but wanted sex, and maybe to be paid for sex!!!

So ............. before anyone has a cow or throws any fits - the guy's initial post was taken as he stated it. If it has been edited, to be more Political Correct after the few initial responses .... you can't do anything about those original responses, they are done and noted.

good lord ....
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i would love to find a couple or a married women in central il to have some fun with however you have to pay for it and i refuse to do so. Got any advise for me


Ummm, are you asking people to PAY to have sex with you, because that is how this reads!?! I am certainly not interested either way, but I did want to point that out. If that is the case, you might want to try Craig's List and not Lush, which is the only advice I can give you. Also, why would people want to pay to have sex with you, especially if you're the one out looking for it?


Q#2 = Curlygirly - I am pretty sure that, thanks to this comment, some people might have jumped the gun..(Eventhough Q#1 is a run-on-sentence without punctuation, the gist is still understandable - for a forum post...)

I believe what Q#1 = Batmans8in - is asking, is if anyone has any advice on where he might be able to hook up with a lady, (meet) or have a fuck buddy: without having to pay for HER. He's not after a hooker - probably just fwb? He's just asking fellow lushies for some free advice. Nothing wrong with that. And for the record, the question does not read like he is ASKING people to pay to have sex with him. No offence Curlygirly.

My practical advice for Baman8in, is either hit a few clubs, go out with friends, mingle and just let people know what you are looking for. The right person is out there looking for the same thing, but you just have to be brave and ask around if there are similar minded folk out there who are also looking for some fun and a good time. That is what Lush tries to promote = fun! This site is free to use and meet people too, as well as a place to share fictionial fantasies, stories. I was certain people here on lush would understand this and help a brother lushy out. Hope you find some real advice mate and not like some of the frooty, smart ass replys like you've already got. No one deserves to be made fun of when they're just asking for some free advice. Come on Lushies! Where is the love? I might know someone, but all I can do is introduce you both. The rest is up to the two of you. (And no, it's not me.) Hope you find real answers for your dilemma soon! smile


Wolverine15, a published technical writer and a degree holder in a scientific field; whom had a lengthy discourse with another Lushie concurs with Curlygirly's interpretation of the ORIGINAL post of Batmans8in.

Further, Wolverine15 would postulate that you are either attributing some svengali like status to CG; or inferring a lemming like personality to other Lush members. Both of which in his estimation might be possible.

However, it is far more likely that Wolverine15 a thoroughly sardonic chap, just likes to stir the pot. And as such enjoys pointing out the errors or flaws in a rebuking post, that are based on a CORRECTED post (by Batmans8in).

Or I could just be a massive prick. Yeah, I'd go with that one.
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Everyone I did misprint my orginal statement and thanked everyone for pointing out my mistake. i am in a marriage where my wife wants sex twice a month usally the days before her monthly. i was just looking to find a f-buddy and i dont like giving my card number away. i was just looking for a few ideas thanks to all for your comments let just chill. Batmans8in
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hold on!!

the posters ORIGINAL comment was not what is showing now. It was "corrected" by CB as was his thread title.

If the guy had asked ...... 'I'd love to find someone to play with, but am not wanting to pay a site for a hook up' .............................. not one of us would have commented the way we did.

His original comment made it sound like (and obviously wrong?? but who knows, maybe that was what he was intending) that he didn't want to pay for sex, but wanted sex, and maybe to be paid for sex!!!

So ............. before anyone has a cow or throws any fits - the guy's initial post was taken as he stated it. If it has been edited, to be more Political Correct after the few initial responses .... you can't do anything about those original responses, they are done and noted.

good lord ....




For the record I corrected the word friendship in the title and nothing else...I left the question as is.
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For the record I corrected the word friendship in the title and nothing else...I left the question as is.


well, then, the original poster changed the wording completely on his sentence(s).

this is how crazy messes happen. The members who responded to his original question/statement NOW look like assholes.

next time I see a stupid, irrational, run-on sentence/question with poor grammar and spelling - I'll ignore it!
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For the record I corrected the word friendship in the title and nothing else...I left the question as is.


well, then, the original poster changed the wording completely on his sentence(s).

this is how crazy messes happen. The members who responded to his original question/statement NOW look like assholes.

next time I see a stupid, irrational, run-on sentence/question with poor grammar and spelling - I'll ignore it!



Yup ...I'm with you
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What's wrong with having someone pay you for sex, I heard it's done all the time.
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For the record I corrected the word friendship in the title and nothing else...I left the question as is.


well, then, the original poster changed the wording completely on his sentence(s).

this is how crazy messes happen. The members who responded to his original question/statement NOW look like assholes.

next time I see a stupid, irrational, run-on sentence/question with poor grammar and spelling - I'll ignore it!



Yup ...I'm with you

It's up to the op to change his post as he/she will. There's no need for mods to step in to do so unless it blatantly requires moderation. This sounds like a good idea to me. If someone has a question on a post, I would suggest asking for clarification from the op.