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I am totaly suprised by these answers. I love it!!! Of course I am in a lesbian relationship so that probably tints my opinion. But I loved it when I was dating guys too so I have a hard time understanding why any women would not love the feel of soft lips down there just trying thier best to make her happy. Color me confused.
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I would think it depends on the mood of my girlfriend and I at the time. I do enjoy it but if it hot and heavy already I am not going to take a timeout unless she asks for it. and I wont want her to stop unless I asked for it. but sometime we plan it out so we use it. I mostly want to finger and tongue. the strap-on is added bonus
We hatd the time out until she strapped it on. Then we found "feeldoe". It is a strapless that she can insert into her and then make love to me. It does take some practice, but that's fun too.
When I dated guys I loved it. I am very oral and gave my first bj when I was 17. I liked to feel it get all hot and hard in my mouth and hand. Now I am very oral with my girlfriend.
I can't tell you how many Saturday afternoons I spent after that in the basement "doing laundry". 
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My lover, Melly is a pillow humper. When she was a young girl the first thing she ever masturbated with was a stuffed bear. Like the pillow, she either lays on top of it and presses herself down on it, or presses it between her legs and crosses her legs at the ankles to squeeze it real tight. I think that might of been the luckiest Teddy Bear in the world. :d/ :d/
Genny
Genny
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I agree with Tech. It has nothing to do with the sex of your partner. The best lover I ever had was a bi-sexual man. He was just absolutly the best.
My techinque is less tongue and more sucking. Starting with gentle sucks around the clit, and then wet slippery sucks of the clit and the hood around it. Add in some humming to make your mouth a human viberator. Then as she gets more and more excited, concentrate on sucking just the clit until you both get your reward.
But the expirementing is half the fun.
Genny
My techinque is less tongue and more sucking. Starting with gentle sucks around the clit, and then wet slippery sucks of the clit and the hood around it. Add in some humming to make your mouth a human viberator. Then as she gets more and more excited, concentrate on sucking just the clit until you both get your reward.
But the expirementing is half the fun.
Genny
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I have had a couple of threes. My first two were ffm. The first was to satisfy the curiosity of my boyfriend. The second was to help out a girl with her boyfriend. Both of those were disapointing. The guys turned into jerks. They wanted to be in charge. Either they wanted to watch us, or they wanted us both to serve them. Since then I have discovered fff threes and those are much more fun now. 
Genny
Genny
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All of the fantasies that I am yet to experience are a little dark. My favorit is that I go to a women's bar and am approched by a strong forceful woman. She leads me to the dance floor and we begine to dance very close. She rubs up against me and we both become very excited. Everyone can see her touching me and rubbing up against me. Sometimes she takes me back to a booth and we make out and she touches me while I know others are walking by and can see. Sometimes she drags me into the ladies room and pushes me into a stall and we make love there. Or she pushes me down on my knes on the dirty floor and makes me pleasure her as others are using the wash room while my feet are sticking out under the door.
I have a hundred variations, but in each one she is the boss and I am helpless to stop her. Yummm!
I have a hundred variations, but in each one she is the boss and I am helpless to stop her. Yummm!
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My Mom is in her late fifties. She was widowed in her mid thirties and (as far as I know) has never realy dated anyone. Last month she told us she was cleaning out her closet and found an old vibrator up on the shelf. She said she had hidden it away when I started getting older, and forgot about it. I was sitting there with my mouth open when she walked in with this very old looking ivory colored hard plastic vibe. Melly was laughing and saying, "You go Mrs. M." I may need counceling to get the images out of myhead that are stuck there. LOL
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Last year we bought a new strapless strap-on. It is called a feedoe. Look at it at www.feeldoe.com once you get used to how to use it, it's the best. 
Genny
Genny
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The first vibe I bought was in college. It was 8 inches and it pluged into the wall. I didn't know it then, but it was like three times as powerful as a battery one. I called it "Big Mo" and it always made my toes curl. About a year ago it got a little rip just under the head. It just kept getting bigger until it fell off. I was heart broken.LLI0ibydWZJjUZgk
Genny
Genny
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The first boy I was ever with was in High school, Robert and I had used each other to learn. I learned that I really liked giving head. It was like my favorite toy and he was very happy with my enthusiasm. Twice, his mother walked in on us when I had him out. She never went crazy or anything, but it was embarasing.
Genny
Genny
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Melly and I were in a porn shop in Canada and I started looking at the double headed dills. There were lots of different colors and sizes. I had an 18 incher in my hand when Melly came up behind me and was looking over my shoulder. She said, "Don't even think about putting that thing in me." I laughed and then picked up the 14 inch one. Eventually I talked her into buying it for me. It turns out that the 14 incher is too small. LOL I had thought to use it like a strap-on and bend it in the middle and we would both have it in us. The 14 when bent like that only gives you about 5 inches in each of us and it keeps poping out.
We did find that it was perfect for sitting in the tub facing each other. Of course then there is all the water that gets sloshed out on the floor, but the clean up is worth the fun. LOL
We did find that it was perfect for sitting in the tub facing each other. Of course then there is all the water that gets sloshed out on the floor, but the clean up is worth the fun. LOL
<--- Me, a lesbian laughing. 
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Yes she knows. She is my muse.
At first she was not thrilled that I was telling the world about the things we did in bed. She didn't understand why I had to write about us and why I had to post them. Now she understands my need to write about the things I/we have done.
I hope you all enjoy reading them.
Kises Genny
At first she was not thrilled that I was telling the world about the things we did in bed. She didn't understand why I had to write about us and why I had to post them. Now she understands my need to write about the things I/we have done.
I hope you all enjoy reading them.
Kises Genny
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To answer my own question...
I have been with both men and women (who you calling a slut?) and it is always thought that a woman could love a woman better than a man. And in many ways that is true. Women are softer and more careing. And women laugh in bed. Men can lose their humor when they climb into bed.
But the best lover I ever had was a bisexual man. He taught me to be brave and to ask for what I wan in bed. He showed me that anything between two consenting adults is fine.
What do you all think?
Genny
I have been with both men and women (who you calling a slut?) and it is always thought that a woman could love a woman better than a man. And in many ways that is true. Women are softer and more careing. And women laugh in bed. Men can lose their humor when they climb into bed.
But the best lover I ever had was a bisexual man. He taught me to be brave and to ask for what I wan in bed. He showed me that anything between two consenting adults is fine.
What do you all think?
Genny
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Bodica
You are right. Straight women seem to think that because I am a lesbian then I am happy to jump into bed with them. They may not realize it but that equates with slut. If a guy had that attitude no woman would put up with it. It may be because most any woman could have most any man she wanted to give herself to, but gay women are not motivated the same way straight men are. We like to fuck with our brains more than our genitals.
A sub question: As a woman, do you belive that a woman would be a better lover than a man?
Genny
You are right. Straight women seem to think that because I am a lesbian then I am happy to jump into bed with them. They may not realize it but that equates with slut. If a guy had that attitude no woman would put up with it. It may be because most any woman could have most any man she wanted to give herself to, but gay women are not motivated the same way straight men are. We like to fuck with our brains more than our genitals.
A sub question: As a woman, do you belive that a woman would be a better lover than a man?
Genny
