Quote by ms_vicky
My question is do I give up now or carry on trying? I don't really want to be on my own as I do get lonely and it will be even harder when my children leave the nest in a years time.

It sounds really good in sayings "Stop looking, let things happen naturally" - Men aren't gonna drop naked from the blue sky into your lap if you've tied a blindfold on your eyes!!
You've to keep trying ..but not with desperation.. Project your interest but keep a wise eye on things.

You're a woman - my god ..women never forget how to flirt or be sexy!!! - Nauh! Never.

Maybe you've just lost your inspiration and you need to rekindle it. I mean to me..from what I've read so far..you should be more confident about yourself ..you have your own business, and a good social circle and you sound like a good human being as well (Rare combination). Don't let the bitter experience fade you inner shine..And for the sake of all good men with sexy butt ..stop following your family tree of relationships!! That probably is one of reasons why you're more afraid that maybe you'll end up like them.

Everybody is different.. And they make different choices ..which leads to different kind of lives. You're to decide which way to mould your life. Although it's great to have love in your life but there are plenty of other things that matters.

My best wishes for you & your beautiful life! xo

Quote by ms_vicky
I never thought age different could play such a big part in a relationship but in this case it did. Looking back there were so many obstacles that made it really hard work and I knew within six months that he would never truly just accept me for who I am..

This is another mistake many people make, I've faced it too. A too big gap in age difference can be a really hard obstacle to tackle in a relationship.. It's obvious people have different thinking and hope and plans & expectations in different phases of their life..of course there will be a clash of thoughts and emotions and a whole lot of other things when two people of different age group try being in a relationship.

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